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    Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    Hey guys and girls,

    I've been dating a girl for almost half a year now, we're living together and things seem to be going well. However, I sometimes get that 'feeling' that she's not faithful to me. She's great to be with, we have a great time together, and she's always first to initiate when it comes to sex, so there's no signs from any of those areas. But, for some reason, there's small changes in her behavior that make me wonder...

    For example: she always comes home at 4:30pm, never changes. but, one night last week she came home at 5pm. now, i don't think this is a big deal, but after about an hour of conversation she mentions that she's blazed out of her mind. this is then followed by a happy recounting of how her co-workers, her boss and she sat out getting smoked out, and how she spent the entire day with some dude who was "on the phone with his gf all day" (aliby?) getting baked the entire workday while driving around "delivering and selling art" (she works in a gallery). then, her first question is am I mad that she was late? when i say no, she asks are you mad that i got high? which doesn't make any sense, since we've smoked out stupid amounts of time. what's the weird part, is that later on that night, when i'm falling asleep i roll over on top of her arm, and after she grunted i ask if she's ok. to which she replies, yes i'm just so glad i didn't have to go to work today. after i ask, i thought you were working all day, she says no, i was at work all day, it's just not the same thing.

    today she left for a business trip for the rest of the week, travelling with sales people who she claims are "all couples" but that's w/e i'm not gonna go investigate this. still, the drive takes 5 hours, they leave at 2 and she doesn't call until 11pm; yet the same girl freaks out when i don't call her for an hour while i'm having a drink at the bar after work with a work-friend.

    am i being irrational, or is there something not right about this?

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    Re: Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    trust her, or break up with her

    anything else is a waste of time

    you obviously have some major trust issues if you're freaking out about this

    could she be cheating? yes
    is she? there's no way of telling
    will obsessing about it help? absolutely not

    I've been in your place. It has turned out both ways for me- one girl was cheating and my suspicions were correct. The other girl wasn't and my suspicions led to us breaking up.

    A couple doesn't last without trust. You either need to start trusting her and relax, or leave her before it gets nasty and you wind up dividing assets (or kids, if it comes to that).
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    Re: Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    trust her, unless you have other reasons not to

    super sneaky hint: offer to eat her out as soon as she gets in. you'll soon find out if there was anyone else in that frame

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    Re: Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    Interesting work activities.

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    Re: Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    Quote Originally Posted by habjad View Post
    trust her, unless you have other reasons not to

    super sneaky hint: offer to eat her out as soon as she gets in. you'll soon find out if there was anyone else in that frame
    LOL that's supper funny to imagine!

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    Re: Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    I'm interested in how this turned out. I always think trust your instincts and once you start having doubts you look for confirmation in everything.

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    Re: Signs of cheating Or signs of me being a douche?

    Eat her pussy and see if it taste like cock lol


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