Homie2982

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allrihgt hello everyone new to those fourms thought they might help me out but anyways where to start me im a typical guy not really for about like 6 years i have sat my ass behind a computer screen right it was until a recent event decided that i was tired of that life i wanted to ahve fun start dating girls something that i could never do because i was so into computers the things is i have no idea where to begin i mean i haev a couple of girls that are friends but iono jus dont see where to go from their like wanted to know how to improve on flirting what are a few ways i could meet a new girl and start a conversation what to talk about how to flirt with them im 18 sad huh? and a virgin but finally willing to get out of routine and start dating going to clubs just need some help getting their

Lucky Bob

A) you suck, need to learn how to type, etc.
B) http://www.doubleyourdating.com
C) http://www.fastseduction.com/

Homie2982

yea sry thanks for the help

ZepStud68

I'm going to tell you right now, dating websites aren't going to help. I was in a very similar situation. First you have to get them to notice you. take care of yourself physically, wear nice, clean clothes, and get yourself out there. Also be who you really are. I've been at college for year and a half now, and at the parties it seems like all the guys who are pretending to be something they aren't just seem like d-bags, which is what they are. Some girls like that flashy shit, but those aren't the girls you should be interested in.You might think that girls wont be interested in you, but I'm sure there's something. As for flirting, just practice, be cool, suave, and be laid back. the words just come from there. If you screw up, that's only one girl, there are plenty more out there.

pharoah4187

Flirting comes with practice, the trick is confidence and getting her to laugh (preferably with you). It doesn't so much matter what you wear, as long as you FEEL cool wearing it. Sounds weird, but it's true. Don't be afraid to screw up, particularly with some one you just met. Also, don't be intimidated by girls in groups, if you see a group, only hit on one.

VIVIX

This reminds me of a King of the Hill episode (a show I do not like but find funny sometimes when flipping through the channels)

Well anyways, Boomer (whichever one that talks really fast and funny) takes Bobby out to teach him how to pick up chicks. He hits on girls and keeps getting turned down until eventually one gives him her number.

I guess that's the best way to do it. Don't be embarrased (sp?) about being turned down, like everyone else said, there are plenty out there. There are actually more women than men the last time I checked. Go to places that maybe you'll find a chick that's interested in the same things as you. I find bookstores to be great, and always #1 in magazines is grocery stores, since everyone loves food.

Another tip to help with the 'groups of girls' would be: find a wingman. They can make you feel more comfortable as you approach a group of women, and if you can convince yourself that you are better looking than your wingman, it gives you a boost of confidence, which, what I hear women find appealing.

Most importantly, be yourself and don't be discouraged, every turn-down makes you more experienced.

Good luck, I guess.

bigmoney

Make yourself noticed.

Most of the time, the last thing you want to do is be the quiet person in the corner who nobody even notices or pays attention to.

Try to be more outgoing, talk to more of the people around you, crack some jokes, etc. At the end of the day, looks don't matter *that* much. It's personality that is the real winner.