SirSlade86

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Hey im new at this is got a girlfriend and we have been having sex for about 3 months now, i can get here to orgasm but its not as easy as i thought it would be and has been woth other girls. I just dont get it she was a virgin when i got to her and she hardly ever masturbates and she say when she comes it good, but ive got the feeling it could be better? what can i do??

i dont think i do anything wrong, i use forplay and we fool around for about 45 mins then we are all over in about 40 mins after that. and i normally go before her so i try to hold myself untill she goes? how can i make it better for her because i want her to feel what i feel?

Chameleon Grrl

you're really sweet to want her to enjoy herself as much as possible, but maybe she already is. a lot of grrls (especially young ones) have a hard time reaching orgasm. i'm one of them so i can relate. there's nothing wrong with her and there's probably nothing you can do except really make sure she likes your style. especially since she was a virgin and doesn't masturbate, i think that she just hasn't reached much sexual maturity yet.

salamander

Women don't reach sexual maturity until much later than men do. I had orgasms when I was young....they were slow in coming and were good, but certainly not the mind-bending, toe-curling orgasms I started having as I got older. I wouldn't worry too much about it SirSlade. Keep the communication open and keep trying to please her. I expect all will be well in the sex dept.

Lazer

Like anything. Practice, Practice Practice! And a little experimentation!

Mule_Hammer

Relax, you've only been dating for 3 months. It takes time to learn what makes a girl tick, because every one is different. Just keep doing what she likes and introduce her to new ways. Experiment with her and she'll open up, it just takes time.

SirSlade86

thanks guys!!!!!!! youve given me peace of mind!

Juan.©amaney

three months and the girl gave the cherry....wow...

But anyway, yeah, practice. Some girls enjoy the foreplay and holding and kissing a little more than the actual "O" anyway. It's her job to teach herself to climax as long as u aren't monotonous, I don't see her having too hard a good time.

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jerrad

Ask her what positions she likes best and do that.

sam3722

Some women do not orgasm from penetration alone. I can count on one hand the number of times my wife has achieved orgasm without digital stimulation. If she doesn't rub her clit, then it is UNLIKELY that she will achieve orgasm. It's just the way her body is designed. OTOH, she is multi-orgasmic. She once had 102 orgasms in a single session (yeah, it took about 2 1/2 to 3 hours). It's nothing for her to have six to ten orgasms per session if she wants.

3nigm4tic

102? oook.

As to the original question. As said above, lots of girls don't orgasm during sex alone, but it still feels really good for them, they just don't climax. I wouldn't worry about it too much, as long as she's happy and you can get her off through other means if necessary, you should be fine.

Juan.©amaney

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