mortemi

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I have been married for 7 years and we both agree that we most wonderful relationship ever. We also have started opening up to each other to an incredible degree like sharing fantasies. My wife would love to watch me eat out another woman and even participate. i told her that i would love to see her and another woman getting it on. It excites her when we are so vocal and honest. The openess continues...I confessed that i have watched her younger sister shower numerous times. It excited her even more. Now she has the fantasy of helping me seduce her sister. I am giving my wife oral sex and i ask what she is thinking of and she says that the is thinking of me giving her sister oral sex. We have talked about threesomes and she is totally game, but it all really remains in the realm of fantasy. I think an underlying issue here is when we got married, i was a virgin and she definately was not many times over so she would love for me to experience another woman. Any advice I could get from you all would be most helpful.
Will I destroy my marriage even if my wife enthusiastically supports this fantasy? I have never cheated on her nor she on me, but she wouldn't have a problem with me and another woman if she were there. She even says that she would join in. Is this too good to be true or do you all think i have struck a potential goldmine?
Fellow webrats, let me know.

zeppy

I say go for it. She seems to be as into it as you are, so why not?









Oh, and do post pics.

throatyogurt

Zep, the man in me agrees. But, the, um, something in me says that this is a big no-no. I am sure it would be hot, but what would this possibly do? Would it create a lot of confusion? I'm sure being open is nice, but what about at times during Christmas when you are all together.

What if you start to have feelings for the sis? What if they start to have odd feelings for each other? What happens if the relationship b/w you and the sis goes sour, or the same w/ the wife and sis? I'm not sure how close the fam is or anything, but there could be lots of diff issues at play here that I would take into consideration. Think about how this could play out if a divorce happened. What if this led to other fantasies with random women? What if this led to you sleeping w/ the sis w/out the wife?

I'd be all for it if I thought my relationship was beyond repair. But, yours is great and I'd be worried about this starting something that isn't great. I honestly have no idea what I'd do if I was in your shoes. Maybe you should talk to her about it when you aren't eating her pussy. Maybe she'd be thinking rationally about it and say, erm that is just a heat of the moment thing and I don't want you to eat her out, in reality. I'd be afraid of where it could go. S'all, good luck and PLEASE KEEP US INFORMED!!!

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skept

Dude. NO.

Its quite simple - a threesome when you are single is aight and fun. A threesome when your married is not. It will be a thorn in your relationship that you will never be able to pick out and will eventually be the factor breaking you guys up. You should not even be entertaining the thought of sexing another woman you are married - its just greed and lust when you have a affair.

Who cares about differences in sexual experiences when you got married. The simple reason is YOU MARRIED HER. You are bound to her so respect and cherish her. While it may seem all cosy now the idea of you having a 3some - let me tell you - down the track you will regret it and wish you never had done it AS SHE IS YOUR WIFE.

Its better to give up on that stupid fantasy and respect you wife then give in to lust and create a fuckload of issues and problems later on.

Ps. remember that nice vow you took 'forsaking all others' - that should have been the first thing that crossed your mind and honestly you should stick to that vow.

3nigm4tic

Honestly, your wife having fantasies about you and her ... SISTER... is a little off to begin with. I mean, you gotta admit, the whole incest angle is kinda odd. I wouldn't recommend this, really, if she gets upset about you not being up for it, or mad, or insists that you do it, you might want to see a counselor?

or just go for it and good luck with the fallout. Does her sister have any clue this dialogue is going on? does the sis know you watch her shower (if not, that'd be kinda wrong to begin with)? what if the sister rejects this idea categorically?

Chameleon Grrl

yea, no. there's a big difference between what works in your head and what works in real life. i agree that something's messed up with her for being turned on by anything involving her sister, and with you for peeping on her sister.

PirateOZanzabar

i aggree with chameleon... its a lil fucked up that she gets turned on by you watching her sister take showers and all that other stuff.... and since you are married i say don't do any of thst shit... if it was just dating i would say go for it... but marriage is soemthing completly different.

Lucky13

IF you and she BOTH want the threesome and feel you can make it work then you might should give it a shot but NOT with her sister. That's a whole hornets nest you don't want to open. Don't mess with the incest.

lizard2202

me agree w/ all the comments above but the second post...u might thinks it would work just as her fantasies but i bet u that'll the beginning of all the hell. u should also avoid passin thru ur sis-in-law's bathroom so u wont be able to watch her takin shower. last but not least never entertain ur wife fantasies, never.

dark420

I've been married nine years now and my wife and I share our fantasies with each other as well. But there's one thing we both understand, it's just fantasy. Think about after you do go through with the threesome be it with her sis or not, what fantasy will keep things interestin? Is it possible that the reason things are so hot with you two is because you share those fantasies with each other? If that's the case, then what will help to keep things interesting afterwards?

Juan.©amaney

How can you watch your sister in law take showers? Does she leave the door open, or do you spy on her through the window or something?

Neg on the threesome. Looks like you have yourself a horn-dog for a wife, and that's GREAT. BUT, it might lead to emotional stress that neither of you will be prepared for.

If you do go for it, make sure its a stranger. If you do this with your sister in law and she accepts, you might like her better and end up getting emotionally attached. THEN you all will mess around without your wife and shit will get real deep!

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EyeminmyPrime

I realte to your question. The Mrs and I are the same way about her being with another woman, or even just having sex with each other while another couple does next to us.

We signed up at www.linkedremoved.com and viewed many profiles, chatted with lots of couple who are very understanding of people looking to learn more about the lifestyle. It doesn't have to be a lifestyle like a lot of the people there make it, if your looking for a one time thing you can find that there too.

We met a couple couples and it could happen anytime but our schedules have been changing so much lately we can't even get out to see a movie together!?

It will probobly do one of two things...

1. Make it too real once people are actually contacting you and you will decide that its better to remain a fantasy.

2. Excite the hell out of you and you'll give it a chance.

Juan.©amaney

watch the outside links please.

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djwirfel

dont do it. plain and simple. there is no going back on whatever might happen...if things go bad..you will never repair the relationship