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10-12-2005, 04:10 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: MIAMI FL
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
my freind allow me to comment this is a dangerous road you are on .me personally i feel that what ever a couple deside's to do together is fine but man with the sister there is some thing wrong with your wife and you for that idea ive been married for over 18 yrs with my wife.and we have been to swingers clubs and played around together around other people that makes the sex even better.but everything has its limits. dude have fun but becareful what you wish for.many have been down this road only to find a dead end.and man forget about the sister.that is a no no man for that matter.any family memeber. im a perv but that has never crossed my mind respect the blood line good luck brother. and dont let the world open your eye's to much its and very lonely
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10-12-2005, 10:08 PM
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OG
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Cali
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
sorry Juan. I need to re-read the rules. I didn't even theink twice about posting it.
Thanks for not banning me right away!
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10-20-2005, 10:20 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Texas
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
My wife and I had a similar interest. Though she thought it would be cool with her younger sister, I Thought otherwise. In the end, we didn't approach her sister, we found a couple of other females to join us on occassion. It was about the 7 yr mark in our marriage. Now that it's been 14 yrs. , we reflect back on it and realize we made the right decision NOT to include family (i.e her sister). It will only lead to feelings of uncomfort at family gatherings in the long run. If you move forward with inviting another woman into you bedroom, remember these rules and follow them to a tee.
1. Make it totally clear that all parties are there for fun only, that there are absolutely no strings attached.
2. Do not make your wife feel left out in any aspect of the evening. she needs to feel secure that you are hers and won't be lured away by the new female in your bedroom.
3. Let her take an active role in picking the female that will be invited to your bedroom.(women have a knack in spotting females who would be willing to do this)
4. Pay equal amount of time and enthusiasm with your wife in the bedroom during the threesome(if not more). and allow them they're time together( half the fun is watching them discover each other).
Follow these rules and not only will all have a great time, but future threesomes are almost a give-in.
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10-21-2005, 09:23 PM
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OG
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Nebraska
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
when it sounds to good to be true it is ! as a man i want to say why not ? just go 4 it. but it will turn out bad. if it must happen find someone nither of you know or will see again.
Mustangsaly
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10-23-2005, 01:30 AM
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kickin it hadj style
Join Date: Sep 2005
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
my girlfriend keeps talking about how she wants to have her first girl/girl experience with me, but I think she's all talk honestly. We sat and seriously talked about it one night, and she confessed to me that it would be fun, but she thinks she would get really jealous if she saw me doing anything with another girl. I am really wanting to do this, as I have been very close twice to it happening. I dated an openly bisexual girl one time, both close times were with her. Anyway, back to the matter at hand. I think it would be fun if you were single and this was a girlfriend, because really girlfriends are kinda expendable. And I know saying that is gonna get me flak, but it's the truth. You can always find another girlfriend, but with a wife the stakes are COMPLETELY different. A radio DJ friend of mine, I was talking to his wife one night about this, she said she's done it twice with him, but both times were before they got married. So I think they had the right idea of how to go about it.
A suggestion though, you might want to like seriously sit down and talk to her about it, not during sex, because the heat of the moment will cause you to say things you wouldn't normally say. That's what my gf and I did, and I don't know if she would actually be able to go through with it, not because she's scared, but because of the jealousy thing, like I mentioned before.
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10-24-2005, 03:55 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Stillwater, OK
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
:cheer: for facepeeler
He has the right idea, too invite another woman into your married sex life can have long lasting effects, be sure to discuss it fully before you do anything! I have to admit that if my wife were to suggest it, I would probrobly turn her down. But I nearly did with my ex wife (Not her sister though), and that might have even saved our marrige (jk). So use caution, but post pics of both of them!
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10-24-2005, 04:03 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
The man and me definately says go for it. While you are at it, tak them into a video camera and post it  unfortunately, the other side of me says that it is a terrifically bad idea. Not the threesome, as long as that is with either A) a complete stranger or B) somebody your wife is completely comfortable with (i.e. she won't be nervous about the woman trying to steal you). Cross the sister boundary though and you open up a number of possibilities. A) everything goes great. very slim chance, but still there. B) the sister accepts, you all regret it afterwards, things get weird between the three of you. C) Sister declines, all the regrets and bad things from option B... except you now have no memories of a wild night. While overly simplified, It would seem that a threesome with your wife and her sister is not in your best interests.
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10-24-2005, 05:04 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: dallas,tx
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
the sister thing might not work, but I say go for another woman that is new to ya both...
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10-26-2005, 11:43 PM
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: michigan
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
i dont have much experience, but my advice would be, If your wife is the one who gets her sister to do it, go for it. However, do not try to initiate her sister youself, that would probably be very bad!, just my thoughts, and good luck with the situation.
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11-13-2005, 01:31 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: La Puente ,Ca.
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
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Will I destroy my marriage even if my wife enthusiastically supports this fantasy? I have never cheated on her nor she on me, but she wouldn't have a problem with me and another woman if she were there. She even says that she would join in. Is this too good to be true or do you all think i have struck a potential goldmine?
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If you enjoy having sex with the sister , then by all means, have the 3some
Your lady IS going to develop jealousy issues, and well, as she cant very well
eliminate her own kin from the equation, It doesn't take a genius to figure out
who's gonna be around once the initial euphoria has subsided.Think about what
you are really getting yourself into here dude, if at all possible, try and go beyond the "Dear Penthouse Forum" letter. because in the end what seems like the next logical step in your relationship (with your wife), may just turn out to be just what it actually is... there's a few good reasons you never heard your mom and your aunty bragging about the time they shared some shmuck ,and guess what, no matter how good it might have felt at the time you are forever gonna be "that Shmuck".Having said this however , you are just a man and I'm not gonna pretend I would do "the right" thing in this situation either ,I mean c'mon , who hasn't entertained this fantasy at one time or another? hehehe If you love your Lady , I mean really care about what you have with her and are ever gonna have, then worship her ,Be her
Champion and in the morning you will both be closer because of it .But if there is something so missing from your relationship that adding a family member to the equation, is gonna fix ,  then lets stop dikin around about How much we care about eachother and make a choice . Do you want to be that guy she takes home to meet dear ol ma? Or do you want to be that one that she dare
not ever mention to dear ol ma? Make a choice, because you can't be both .
-Deth-Roe
[P.S.Oh yeah, and if you are foolish enough to go through with it get lots of pics , Oh hell make a movie , and post it here haha ! lolol :rock:]
Last edited by Deth-Roe : 11-13-2005 at 01:45 PM.
Reason: Added the "P.S."
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11-17-2005, 06:35 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: AUS
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
I say no for another reason. We all need fantasies, what happens when you have fulfilled all your wifes fantasies? It sounds like a good thing, but what happens if she doesnt have anything to wonder about, thinking of something you have never done is more arousing that remembering something you have.
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11-18-2005, 02:45 PM
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whore
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Hey dude where R we?
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Re: Wife Desires Fantasy to Become Reality
Stay away from the sister. Thats just weird and undoubtably will cause problems for them &/or you in the future.
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