zeppelin556

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Hey this is kinda personal but i was just bringing this up to see if its happened to anyone else. I have been dating my gf for about 4 months and we have been sexualy active. At the begining of everything I was able to last quite a long time but now I am seeing my stamina reduce more and more as time goes by. Is there something I can do cus I dont want this to continue to a point where I cannot perform. :/

3nigm4tic

are you doing something different now then you were before? Maybe more stimulating positions or have you learned what really gets you going and are starting with that?

Most likely when you first started having sex you were somewhat tentative and didn't really start banging away in whatever position does it for you.

Try switching up any kind of routine you have, try changing condom brands or something too. Go back to basics, start slow, PC muscles, change positions when you feel ready to blow

Juan.©amaney

Different positions, toys, oral stimulation, geographic locations, etc. You have to change things up. No ofense but in 4 months, even if its daily, you can't be running out of ideas.

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Rellaw

As 3nigm4tic said, you were most likely trying really hard in the beginning to last long. You know, in hopes of not disappointing her, So my advice is go back and think about whatever you were thinking about in the beggining that made you last longer than you did.

You're just getting too comfortable I guess.

fastw23s

Yeah either your not as concerned with making her happy, or you aren't as hot as you used to be for her, and just want to get your nut.

demonator

more foreplay. If you take care of her first, she will never complain if you are too quick.

Lazer

This is serious I am not making a joke.
But while in intercourse start telling yourself she is so ugly(Not aloud!). Or how she pisses you off.Or think of stuff you dislike. Or stuff that grosses you out.

What i am saying is that taking your mind off how hot she may be, You might last longer. kinda a mind over matter thing. Just don't focus on how you want to finish or how good it feels.
In my experiance I have found that while with a hot girl I would get to excited and end up dissapointing her/myself. But with experiance I learned no matter how hot she was that while getting into it try and think she was someone else who wasn't hot. Mind over matter.

but I have never heard of such a problem. In my experiance as time went on it got better and longer.
I hope this came out right. Cause I do mean no dissrespesct.

3nigm4tic

If you have like, a movie on or something, just like, split your attention more toward the movie so you aren't *thinking* about the sex. I dunno about convincing yourself she's ugly, per se, but definately thinking about something else instead of "in, out, in, out, boobies, sex" will help

two0sixtuner

Dude, I got nuthin....Except...well....Think of Grandma:-)

Sorry.

SirWankalot

Hows that going to help?
*blinks*

3nigm4tic

same thing we were talking about except an unfortunate subject matter to think about during sex.

jdohl

hmm...why in the world would you want to think unpleasant thoughts while making love? You should be thinking about how good it feels, because it's supposed to feel good!

I would tend to think that it's more emotional. You don't care as much about her or now that the newness is wore off you find you really don't find her as attractive.

Personally, that's why I have a three month rule. I don't have time to waste having sex with someone that I'm not going want to be around 4 months later....there are way too many people getting hurt out there today.

bigpat12

Dude maybe she is doing something different to you!?!?!? Or maybe it is boredom but you should definetly get her input to how she feels. Hell my gf dosen't want but once maybe twice a year. So maybe it is a good thing!

toight_girl

Cock rings tend to help with that problem thats what my bf uses when he needs to it is also quite exciting to put on.