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ok update cause i know you all care. firstly i am a guy, dont really know how it showed up that i was a chick, if the mods wanna step in and help a dude out that would be cool.
i quoted Weme because this is the philosophy that i have lived by since i became interested in the opposite sex. however up to this point my longest "relationship" lasted 3 weeks and that was with a girl i slept with the night we met. i have a habit of picking the girl with the problems, i did it again as i will explain later, this is something i would like to change so ihave desided to go against my gut and try for girl 2, the hot one. im about to explain my logic.

so my last post was exactly 1 week ago at 3am, there were things that happened that i didnt pay attention to, as usual. so the hot girl wasnt in class, since we are in a group for this project, i thought i would go ahead and send her the stuff she missed. i know what your gonna say, you did it to get in her pants. my answer is no, not consciously. heres the thing, my sub conscious has pretty much kept me alive. as my dad said the other day, "if anyone was ever ment to go by the seat of their pants, its you. dont think about it from now on, your brains already done that, just go with your first reaction." so there maybe something to the fact that i "helped" her out. so the weekend goes by, no response to the email, so im like shit that answered that question. then monday im sittin in class checkin the mail and she has emailed me back thanking me for the help and saying how awsome it was that i did that. at this point i still wasnt aware that i was going to pick her, the hot girl(just in case anyone got lost), so i didnt return mail. i know party foul. so tuesday comes, and im in class with girl 1 who was the one i had picked at that point. the whole time though im thinkin to myself this is way too easy. well ther is a reason it was way too easy. a buddy of mine works at a local bar and explained to me that she was a bit of a freak, the good kinda freak. so as it turns out she was easy(i know its not nice but deal with it), hence why i had picked her. since im not trying to go that way anymore, i desided it was best that i didnt persue it any farther. so the very next class i was gonna see the hot girl, but my sister needed some help and i had to bail out on that class. so i was without bearing for like a week. this is where it gets good, hot girl emails me the next morning while shes at work(she told me so). went something like hey you missed class hope your ok, this is what we did, if your not clear on somethin call me and we'll talk. once it hits you and you realize whats goin on, it like gettin kicked in the testicals. anyhow, our group went out tonite to talk about the project and it was more of the same stuff. obvious touching, leaning in, off handed comments, you get the idea. i had a beer which at this place means you've had like 6 beers. our legs where touchin for the last 15-20 min or so. generally when your touchin someone and they dont wnat you to touch them they move off, i know im beating a dead horse at this point cause you all get the idea.

so heres the thing i would like to really over do it, i mean knock this one outta the park. its just one girl now, so life is easy(relativly speaking). anymore ideas would help out a lot. im new to this whole dating before sex thing so if theres somethin i need to look out for or that i should do could someone fill me in cause theres not really room for a learning curve. again thanks for all the help, sorry the post was so long..... yeah im out. lata.