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09-02-2005, 01:14 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: NY
Posts: 7/0.01
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First Time... Help me out
So I am in need of advice tips tricks whatever. I have never done anything with a girl except make out... I need some advice on fingering a girl or eating a girl out. I tried searching but couldn't find much. All I really need is tips or tricks. Thanks!
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09-02-2005, 06:09 AM
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bitch
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Jefferson City
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Goose, perhaps the best thing would be to listen to her. If it feels good she will tell you, or she will tell you where to move your hands (up a littlle, faster, etc.) Work the outside more than deep in. Rub the lips and clit. Also kiss areas other than tits and pussy. try under the ears, inside the elbow, Everyone is different. Expireiment.
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09-02-2005, 01:52 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: University Of Florida
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Re: First Time... Help me out
search this forum, there's a whole lot of people asking the same kinds of things, which is understandable, since everybody wants to be a good partner.
Girls like it if you ask them what they like. Don't have them write a list or something but just start experimenting with something and just ask them "what do you want me to do" or "what feels good to you".
On a general note, I tend to find girls like guys who are slightly... maybe not really aggressive (well some girls..), but maybe more dominant. Make it clear that you're interested in her and are really enjoying yourself (again, don't make a whole production out of it, subtelty is key), it turns girls on to know that they're wanted.
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09-02-2005, 03:33 PM
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whore
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Birmingham, AL
Posts: 41/0.04
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Re: First Time... Help me out
from a woman's view.. suck the clit.. i promise it will make just about ANY girl scream.. hope this helps..
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09-02-2005, 10:03 PM
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whore
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: CO
Posts: 347/0.24
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Re: First Time... Help me out
play, have fun, take your time, explore, be gentle, watch her reactions
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09-06-2005, 11:19 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: California
Posts: 581/0.39
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Most importantly, find out if she's a biter/likes biting or not. Most girls I've been with at the least like being nibbled, but one actually liked the pain. 
This, right here, is king:
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play, have fun, take your time, explore, be gentle, watch her reactions
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Looking back, that comes from a woman, so that being so right on target is no real surprise. eek3dance
edit: apparently some of the :s have been removed from smileys? Fubared. =/
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09-06-2005, 11:50 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Toronto, Ontario
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Like what was said above, each woman is different. Everyone has an erogenous zone, and when you find that, it puts that particluar person into 7th heaven.
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09-07-2005, 08:20 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Newport Beach CA
Posts: 24/0.02
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Re: First Time... Help me out
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Originally Posted by mrsgriffin4life
from a woman's view.. suck the clit.. i promise it will make just about ANY girl scream.. hope this helps..
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Listen to this person. Women LOVE it. Definately try this. Be gentle don't try to swallow it, but suck on it like you would her earlobe.
Damn.
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09-08-2005, 12:47 AM
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whore
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Riverside, Ca
Posts: 60/0.04
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Re: First Time... Help me out
If she is as new at this as you are don't feel like you have to know it all and don’t expect her to have any more idea then you do. The best thing to do with double the new blood is to learn with each other. Speaking from experience it’s much easier to be willing to go the “extra mile” knowing that it’s your partners first time on the track as well.
Good luck with your adventure, cause that what sex is, an adventure.
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09-20-2005, 03:37 AM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: A place where it's hot
Posts: 209/0.19
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Yep sex is an adventure. If you both are looking for the the same or about the same thing it will all work out. WARNING: Licking clit is good yes but it's a handful, im tell'in you it could be pretty gross down there if shez not prepared ( like you tossing your cookies gross ). Once you get used to it, very good stuff. Try licking other places first though; ears, brige of the nose, nipples, etc. Ease into it, no need to rush.
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09-20-2005, 02:25 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Canada eh
Posts: 45/0.04
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Re: First Time... Help me out
From a females perspective here are some tips..
Ya gotta be gentle down there. You just cant start fingering her and go wild with it, there is more to it. I recomend a circular motion on the clit.. always good. Pay attention to her reactions, they are the giudlines.. and ask her what she likes. While you are pleasuring her a sublte "is this ok" will go along way..
good luck!
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09-20-2005, 08:20 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: nm
Posts: 196/0.14
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Watch for the tickle factor. If she giggles cause it tickles she's not worked up enough yet. Keep up the petting, the kissing, the nibbling, the "you're the most special girl I've ever met," etc.
Some girls like it if you go straight for the clit. Most like it slow and gentle. And here's the number one killer suggesting of all time: when she's really ready, legs spreading wide for you, wet as all get out, write the alphabet in cursive on her clit.
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09-21-2005, 12:42 AM
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The Original Aussie.
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Aussie
Posts: 4,479/3.41
Threads: 49
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Re: First Time... Help me out
a) search forums
b) ask her what she likes. Dont be afraid to ask her if what your doing is right - it will lead to a more explorative and open sexual relationship with the upside of more better sex.
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09-24-2005, 02:44 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Boondocks, Ky
Posts: 153/0.14
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Just along with her and watch her expressions and actions...talk to her, ask her what her fantasies are, or what she likes, and learn as you go. You'll find out what works best for you and her, and what you or her don't like. Communicate likes and dislikes with each other or you'll both be miserable. Just talk, watch, and learn...not hard, but not as simple as it sounds....
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09-26-2005, 03:58 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: las vegas, NV
Posts: 30/0.03
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Re: First Time... Help me out
Wise man, asking for advice.
My one tip: G spot. I've really worked hard to hit it and I get compliments on it. You can make a woman cum in 10 seconds if you hit it right.
Here's what I do:
Lick your finger first, and use your middle finger. ONE FINGER AT FIRST
Make sure your palm is facing up. When you enter her go back and forth, letting her lubricant lube up your finger too.
Press on the inside of the top of her vaginal wall. You should feel a small space where the texture feels different. This is it. Start pressing lightly then harder. Circular motion isn't bad, but keep it at small circles.
When she really gets into it, take your other hand and place it on top of her lower stomach, right below her belly button (where your other finger should be). Press down with your palm so it pushes more of her onto your fingering finger. DO NOT PRESS TOO HARD OR SHE WILL NOT BE HAPPY.
Good luck, god speed.
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