phatbusa

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I'm not sure if a man should be as horny as I am all the time!!!

The wife isn't near as horny and I'm tired of

I love my wife to death but I have needs. I've even been having thoughts of finding a horny GF!!

jimmytchi2000

Sound like a bad idea. What is it that makes you so horny. How old are you, maybe its just an age thing. But honestly you should always be faithful to your wife. You took thoes vowes for a reason. Cheating is never alright in my book

IMO

Mustangsaly

gota weigh the odds




Mustangsaly

Lucky13

Nothing wrong with a guy being horny unless you think you might actually be a sex addict. Then I guess you should seek treatment, but not a girlfriend. If it's that your wife isn't interested anymore then you need to find new ways to seduce her to keep it exciting.

Sekhmet

Have you tried talking to her, find out if anything is going on with her?

tkd_guy01

Then you'll have to work harder and romance her into being horny?? Having a girlfriend on the side doesn't contribute to a very successful marriage.

Greenfire

Ok, the way you descibe things are a little vague. So just for clarification, I have a few questions.

What do you mean by "I'm not sure if a man should be as horny as I am all the time!!!"? Could you give the number of times in a week you would like to have sex?

Also, how how often does your wife want sex per week?

Last, is it worth taking care of those "needs", if that means losing your wife?

UsrBinBoy

maybe you can talk to your wife about having a girl friend. I don't think 1 person can always fulfill the needs of another and I know of married couples who have external relationships (not swingers, they just have a BF/GF). Being married doesn't mean you should have to be deprived of your desires. Remember, you're number one, and no one is gunna look out for you if you don't. Just be honest with your wife, 'cause if you can't talk to her, then you have bigger problems than being horney.

as a side note, how much sex do you want? I assume you'd like sex everyday, but if you're looking for more, I doubt you'll be able to find a girl willing enough to do it more than once a day

Phoenix31

try doing or taking her somewhere different try different positions in bed women respond to spontenatiety

kokob

For the record, I know where you're coming from. If I had my preferences, I'd have sex 2-3 times per day unless I was feeling low. In most people's books, that's a lot more than normal. Others might even say I've got psychological problems.

Be that as it may, there are two main points I think I agree with in the above posts. First, be open - tell your wife it isn't enough and maybe ask her what sort of options she's willing to look into... leave it open, but be clear about your needs.

Second, don't have something on the side without her explicit consent unless, as noted, you are willing to risk everything. Consider the fact that a horny GF is also less likely to be horny permanently. She may or may not commit to you while you're in a marriage. She may sleep around a lot (STD's anyone) or otherwise complicate your life.

Lastly, remember: one of the chinese symbols for troubles/problems is a pictograph of two females under the same roof.

kulotsalot

If I remember correctly this is the guy who wanted to have sex 12x a week.

mrsgriffin4life

Ok, I am a wife and I will do anything to keep my husband from getting a girlfriend on the side.. if it means having sex all day everyday... then guess what.. I'm up for it.. Of course for me it wouldn't be a problem because I am the one in the relationship that is always horny...

Me and my husband do anything and everything we can to keep each other completely satisfied.. but that means communicating to each other to let each other know what you need and when you need it.. tell her how she could make you happier....:boobies4: and tell her in return you will do something to make her happier.. it's a win-win situation here.. if you offer something, you might get offered something yourself..

I hope this helps... let us know..

scullinator

Dude I don't think anyone is as horney as I am. I spank 3+ X a day. Don't get a girlfriend, the guilt will kill you if she doesn't. If she is being selfish you gotta let her know with out making her feel like you are because those in relationships should be out to fulfill each others needs

webace18

What odds my father told me before he died (along withe some other things) "If a woman will cheat with you there's a good chance she'll cheat ON you" stay with your wife man just tell her or ask, me i'd ask, what you could do to make your love life a little more spicy