ff7799

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Ok this is a question for the single guys (sorry gals no need not apply lol). Anyway my question is do you ever feel lonely, and do you ever feel like you want more than just meaningless casual sex, today as I was preparing to go knock boots I felt like vomitting and backed out, I realized that I'am tired of it, I'am tired of the meaningless relationship, tired of having to worry about catching something, tired of not having someone to talk to every night, tired of being alone, I talk to my friends pretty often but those are all guys and I need more in my life. In this society it seems like men are pressured more to be the player and sleep with as many girls as possible and also cover up their emotions, its like men are suppose to be emotionless and I'am starting to hate what I'am turning into, I'am just curious if any other guys out their have ever sat back and felt empty inside realize that you really don't have a significant other.

WEme

yeah i felt that way until i met some one but now i think i rushed too quickly into this one and im trying to figure out how to get out of it. So all i will say is dont rush to find that person get to know some women that you can hang with in group type of situations if anything you just pick up some new friends but who knows you might start liking one of them

Lucky Bob

Welcome to the life of the modern bachelor.

Oh, and the more you bury it and ignore it, the more it'll fester and get worse... the most social guys I know are also the most hollow-feeling.

TheMooninites

Ya we as men are in a way forced to hook up with the ladies alot and then when we do people we act like we are bad for it. That's why I think when a man does a lot of women he isn't looked as a slut but women are when they do alot of guys because women aren't perceived by our society to bone every guy they can.

If you don't like what your turning into then find yourself a nice girl you can shack up with and actually have a serious relationship with. Though you may have a problem in doing that as the girls you probably have done aren't necessarily looking for a relationship which is why they do you and that's it so you will have to go fishing for some new girls.

ff7799

Yup that indeed is my delema. Hopefully the next girl I meet I can come off as a gentleman rather than a special friend with benfits. (let me just say this you can't have your cake and eat it too).

Jabooty_3

Well, I'm single and I often feel lonely. But I'm not having any kind of casual sex, so its all pure loneliness.

ndawg104

I feel the same way. I want to be with somebody who I can chill with and care about.

Goose Thumper

well im 18 and i met this girl and we havent done anything yet but it means so much to be with her and stuff that i dont care to screw her or not, must be love cause seems like when we hold hands and kiss that it just means the world to me. And im a virgin so i dont worry bout all that sex stuff to begin with and she is one as well so guess we will learn together

trey

Never even had a g/f. Sometimes it's great, sometimes it makes you think. I'd like to be involved, but I can't hold a convo at all with people I don't know. It's just not my skill, unless I am with someone. Oh well, my time will come I guess. Just chill out and have fun.

skatrgrant

hm yea im tired of it but yano it is suposed 2 b special

Juan.©amaney

Werd. Happened in Las Vegas last year when I was living there. Got tired of not having one drama free woman to talk to at night. All of the FWB came with strings attached or were loonier than a wind up clock. The girls I met at bars were usually out of towners just visiting or were married

So, it found me in Mexico and now,well, although not the ideal relationship, it keeps me satisfied ('cept for sex...:wackit

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sig20nal

a lot of times a good relationship starts out as a booty call. i've been with my girlfriend for 2 years, when we met we were both cheating on our X's. we realized we have a lot in common and decided to give it a shot. we live together now and are happy as ever.

Dr. Weezil

Chicks dig drama, Juan; it makes them feel all kinds of emotions and as we all know, women operate based on close to 100% emotion-based motivation.

Anywho, I'd be careful because there's a fine line between being needy and wanting more from the opposite sex.

webace18

Dude you got the bug, don't worry about it it's a good thing. I had it once to but i got "Dear johned" just a few weeks ago while i was here in Iraq. That sucked but the good news is her friend e-mailed me a few weeks ago saying that my x was miserableand i should expecta another letter soon.
Now about being Lonely I never really had that problem girls just trust me and talk to me for some reason. But the only thing i hate about it is the fact the when a girl comes to me with this sob story i can't help it but try to help them weather it's just listening to them or paying their x a visit or their current and scaring them a little in to treating their girl better.