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08-31-2005, 04:48 AM
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Re: Question for the Single Guys !
a little over a year ago i was doin the casual thing with this girl. so literaly mid stroke my brain wandered. now that happens from time to time but on this particular occasion it was like my brain was sayin, "hey we're bored lets do somethin else." i look down and i realized she was into me, more than the casual like feelings and shit. then i realized all the sex i ever had had been that way. right there i said, " i cant do this. it shouldnt be this way." so yeah no sex for over a year now. dont get me wrong it'd be nice if i was gettin some but i dont feel like an ass near as often as i used to.
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09-01-2005, 10:35 PM
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Re: Question for the Single Guys !
I understand where you are coming from pretty much. Granted, I am still a virgin and have never had sex yet, I understand the whole loneliness part. Men, in particular, are 'wired' in the way that we want to keep ourselve from pain and hurt in any way possible. From experience, my way of stay away from hurt was to keep all my emotions inside and not share them with anyone. This way no one could hurt me in a way that I could not find a way to jump right back up and hurt them back (if you understand what Im saying). However, women are pretty much all about emotions. A woman feels a bigger bond to sex than a man does. They get emotionally attached through sex and that is where the problem starts.
My best advice is pretty much to do what you feel is right. If you think that you dont need to sleep around anymore, then dont. I am pretty sure, just as hopefully others are, that eventually everyone here will find that one person who means the world to them and who they will love and will trust with everything they have. |
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09-03-2005, 06:51 AM
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being a virgin,and never having a girlfriend,I may not understand love,even thought a girlfriend is something I always wanted.loneliness is an emotion that sometime I would rather live without because I'm a shy person and no girl has ever looked my way.so sometimes being emotionless is the best.
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09-12-2005, 01:09 AM
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I love being single.............
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09-26-2005, 05:04 PM
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yeah. Before I met the girl I'm with now i made it a point to only date older women so I wouldn't feel attached. Then one looked a little too much like my mom and I thought I was going to throw up. i thanked her for the drinks and took off. After that I tried to actually date women I wanted a relaionship with. Now I'm seeing a girl and going through my own seperate shit (I'm composing a post asking for help on this right now).
I think as men we are unhappy no matter where we are. This is something about us, we're always striving for something else, always playing the "grass is always greener" card. Sometimes you have to sit down and say "I'm pretty fucking sure this grass is as green as it's going to get". So to answer your question, yes, I did get unhappy with my situation. But my warning is that it's probably going to follow you wherever you go. |
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09-27-2005, 07:55 PM
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ALWAYS!!! For at least that past year that is all i have felt. Then again I'm single and have been for a while. I just cant' seem to meet any girls. I'm not and ugly guy, girls that I know actually tel me I'm a cute and sweet guy.. so what the heck? I need someone to talk to and DO things with. I'm sick of being alone. I used to love being single, but latley its become a pain in my behind! |
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09-27-2005, 08:23 PM
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Re: Question for the Single Guys !
Sure I feel lonely sometimes.
But I am now 30 years old. And the way I see it is Women at my age are like parking spaces at the mall around Christmas time, The good ones are taken, The rest are handicapped or just a really not worth the walk. But when I am lonely I go to my friends house. This is a friend who is married and they let me live at their house after mine burnt down on thanksgiving weekend 2003, oh two days after i crashed my truck as well. But Anyway I go up there and listen to them Bitch and moan about each other and I say to myself. Being single isn't that bad! Did I mention I lived with them for about 5 months. So I got an inside scoop on what I was missing. I figure at this point I have goals and focus in my life. And If a woman i feel is on the same level. then I will see what happens. But At this age I do run into alot of very insecure, Just looking for a good time, irresponsible women. oh and the presure to be a player. Now if you or anybody sucombs to that, You are not being true to yourself. Most the "players" I know are shallow unhappy and boring, but also friends. |
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09-30-2005, 04:43 AM
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^ Preach it, Brother!
I'm still a virgin, and I've had the oppurtunity for sex a few times. Every time, I backed out because the thought of it just didn't sit well with me. For me at least, it *has* to be more than a one night stand, though I think FWB might still be viable, as long as you both have some sort of feelings for each other. I mean, we're human, we have needs and desires, and sometimes you have to do something about it. I'd much rather it be with a woman that I know, respect, and care about than a stranger I've met in a bar. It does mean that I feel lonely from time to time, but at least I can look at myself in the mirror. And someday, I might find someone special. And the best part of having sex with her will be the next morning when I wake up and see her laying next to me. Sex for me, right now, is a curiousity; something that I've never experienced. But what I want (and what I think the rest of us want) is a woman who will share our lives, and will allow us to share their lives. |
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10-08-2005, 11:28 PM
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I swear...you guys sound like a bunch of homo's. I'm been married for a long while and I would give my left nut to put my cock in some strange pussy every now and again, just to feel like a man and not like a guy doing his service to his wife. If it bothers you that much, then stop pimpin and settle the hell down. hold a few long meaningful relations ships, build up some baggage and see which way you like it. I'm not trying to be an ass, I just get fustrated being with one woman all the time. To make things worse I love my wife and she's beautiful. Long auburn hair, 5'9" 125lbs, cheerleader and dancer. Loves sex and takes it any way i give it to her.
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10-28-2005, 03:09 PM
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Re: Question for the Single Guys !
Devone has it right. Ive done the "stick-n-move" several times, I've done the one night stand from a bar or dance club a few times, Ive had several relationships of varying flavors, Ive done married/involved chicks, chicks Ive worked with, from the grocery store - be clear on this there are literally BILLIONS of em out there and they are all 100% different - everyone of them. I think about "shit" all the time and the epiphany I have about life is (and certainly take this for what its worth - Its only an epiphany from me for me) that Life is ALL about happiness. You are motivated to do the things you want to do only if it will make you happy. So figure out what the hell will make you happy (for the next hour, for the next week, month, year ...etc) and get to it. Chop Chop - tick tock -one foot in front of the other soldier - cuz there's no time like the present. WHat Im saying is if yer a virgin - figure out if you wanna get laid by any chick, or if you want it to be special (personally it happened to me when I was an early teen at a summer camp by a chick counselor and it was fookin awesome), but figure out what ya want. After you figure that out then put yourself in places or situations that allow for an opportunity to naturally happen. The younger you are the more uninhibited you are - cuz everything is geared towards younger people (IMO) plus yer more willing to experiment with what makes you happy. I could go on but I have no desire to - I hope you get my point.
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