popopopo

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My girlfriend and I are both in love but we are kind of young and we had a few pregnancy scared so far so we are sticking to oral sex on eachother. I have no complaint except of course this: She takes literally 3 minites to finish. Then she is DONE...moved on...nothing sexual can be brought up for hours and this puts a real problem for me whose sitting there like..."and ok..". Of course, usually she gives me head first because I don't mind satisfying her right after. I guess in essence that is one problem. I have read about multiple orgasms and wish they existed

My other problem is that in addition to her being able to have an orgasm in 3 minutes, I take nearly 20. I don't know why...I am relaxed and embarassingly I usually have to finish myself off to help her. Please if you have any input or advice please share it...I am desperate! Thank you.

RickJames

It's just weird like that and theres not really a solution....

I dated this chick a while back who gave the best head out of anyone on the face of the planet, I'm convinced. She could get me off in 5 minutes everytime, swallow, and get me off again.

The last chick I dated, would go 40 minutes and I'd just finish myself off. Then I'd get her off in like 5.

Maybe just give her advice on how to do it, don't make it seem like you're ungrateful, but you're helping her because you don't want her to work so hard. One problem chicks have alot is that they don't go far enough down on it. See if you can get her to go deeper, if thats the problem. One method that actually worked for me, was imagining that it was someone else.

popopopo

Well, she is actually very sexy but maybe I will ask her to go deeper...thank you for the reply but that still leaves her problem up for questioning...I love her so much I actually enjoy going down on her and I wish I could do it for like 20 minutes to give her a great time but 2-4??? bleh.

TheMooninites

So your problem is you take to long to cum and she cums to fast.

Well, to help you out in cumming faster just get her to do more of what you like and to suck you off really good and you should cum faster.

Also if your up for it she could finger your ass a lil as that will help things out.

As for her, well how do you eat her out. I mean if you go fast and hard on her that may be why she cums so fast and if that's the case go a bit slower. Also are you sure she cums, like she isn't faking it?

As for the fact you do oral on each other due to past pregnancy scares well you can always do her in the ass since your too scared to be in her pussy because of what could happen.

But I say you should get off just doing oral on each other and just use lots of protection to insure she don't get knocked up by you.

popopopo

An orgasm for me is something I want to share with her but for her...she just kinda wants to get it over with. A few times she has lasted longer than 3 minutes and she was actually complaining about it. I just don't understand. She was sexually abused when she was younger and that could account for a large part of it...does anyone know how to help her overcome this so that things can be normal?

jimmytchi2000

ouch....sexually abused....sexual abuse does things to people that i could never begin to comprehend. Its very much a trust issue that she is having with allowing someone to do something that she might think is wrong due to her previous experience. You are just gonna have to take it slow and let her dictate the situation. She may never be able to change her "timing" issues.