Mikem5252

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Ok... I went to mexico this past week and let my girlfriend stay and watch my dogs... While i was gone she went through my e-mails and found one that my ex had sent to me.. needless to say.. she found out I had cheated on her. The only problem now is that I have realized that I love this girl. I need her in my life. It took me cheating on her to realize she could be the one. But of corse, she wont talk to me anymore. Im going back to school in a few days and she goes to the same one. Last year we were always together and now I might never see her again... anyone got some advice?

Lucky Bob

First off: I'd suggest asking this in the Vaginarium, that's where it actually belongs.

As for the issue itself... Seems like you're in quite a fix. I don't even get how you cheating on her would make you realize that she's integral to your life.

bohica mike

Best advice I can give you.............RUN! Seriously, run. If she takes you back, she will make your life a living hell just because she can. And you'll take it, too. It sucks man....been there, done that. There are other fish in the sea. My advice is to cut bait, look for a new woman, and don't fuck up next time.

devone

I agree with bohica. As someone who has been thru this many times before....you don't want to put up with the amount of azz kissin to win her trust back. Better to start over TRUST ME.

tbagger9

bs post

kulotsalot

Gabriel

hahah

Yeah, shame for cheating on her man

Javalio

Yeah. I really dont understand how cheating has made you realize she was the one. Maybe shes better than your ex. but if you cheated on her, what makes you think she wont cheat on you. Back out and get out. sorry to say mate.

Doonz

Without stalking her (the key here) make her realize she is the best thing that ever happen to you but understand if you do win her back you are always going to have that against and between you...Time does heal all wounds...so give her time and space and sadly as it sound rebuild the friendship...the love will grow out of that...also try to understand is it her you need or the fact that you lost her that hurts!!

devone

let her go.........

Lazer

Right, If you love her let her go.
Otherwise she will hold this over your head forever, And make both your lives miserable.
You should have pulled a Dennis Rodman and denied it to the end, (when Carmen Electra found him in bed with two girls, And he said they must have fallen out of the ceiling.) Just like a woman would!
but Just move on. If she loves you enough then she will realize she wants you in her life.
Or you could make it seem like its her fault.

jacks23

Seems like to me you just want her back

Anibal

hmmm u messed up very badly... if she takes u back she will never let you forget what u did. That being said if u really think she is the one go after her and let her know how you feel (my guess is she wont take you back anyways, maybe that will help you forget her) I really cant relate to than situation, never heard some1 say that he had to cheat on his gf to realize he loved her. But i guess it happens, id advice u to stay away from her and get yourself another women

best of luck

(wont this be better in the vag?)