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08-09-2005, 12:25 AM
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Lil Advice
Met a girl a few weeks ago, said I was cute...yada yada, got her number. She is going to my college so i found her on facebook and i told her I would call her tonight.
So I am not calling her cause I don't want to make it look like I like her. But I said I would call her. am i doing the right thing and playing hard to get?
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08-09-2005, 12:27 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
No. You said you'd call so you should call.
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08-09-2005, 12:31 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
theres a huge difference in having a girl know you like her and looking desperate. confidence is key. if you like her call her. your confidence will show you arent desperate. playing hard to get is for women.
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08-09-2005, 12:31 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
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Originally Posted by essay
No. You said you'd call so you should call.
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But I am not doing anything. I don't want to call and just embaress myself...
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08-09-2005, 12:57 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
You only play hard to get when she really really really wants you, and she doesn't. She just said you're cute. It means she's kinda interested, but she's not chasing after you. Call her. Talk for a few. Keep it light, hang up before it gets awkward.
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08-09-2005, 01:09 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
ya just call her
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08-09-2005, 01:10 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
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Originally Posted by Mindspin
Met a girl a few weeks ago, said I was cute...yada yada, got her number. She is going to my college so i found her on facebook and i told her I would call her tonight.
So I am not calling her cause I don't want to make it look like I like her. But I said I would call her. am i doing the right thing and playing hard to get?
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but not calling would show that you aren't worthy of your word. if you can't follow up with the first thing you said you'd do, then what hope does she have in you for the future.
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08-09-2005, 09:33 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
girls hate it when you say you call and dont =T
be a man and call her
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08-09-2005, 11:17 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
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Originally Posted by Mindspin
Met a girl a few weeks ago, said I was cute...yada yada, got her number. She is going to my college so i found her on facebook and i told her I would call her tonight.
So I am not calling her cause I don't want to make it look like I like her. But I said I would call her. am i doing the right thing and playing hard to get?
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 The biggest mistake you can make is play stupid fuckin' high school games. Dude, just tell her straight up if you like her. That's the name of the game, right? You may have baited your hook, but you still have to cast the fucker out in the water if you want to catch a fish. Don't play any games and just be honest.
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08-09-2005, 11:34 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
 I'd call her and get to know here....you can never have too many girl-friends (not girlfriends) that think you are cute. If she doesn't end up hooking up, she has friends that she will tell "I have this cute friend named "Mindspin" that you should meet."
They are called Friend Accessible Aquaintances
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08-09-2005, 11:57 AM
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Re: Lil Advice
I'd agree w/ Juan, and just add one thing.
There's a big difference between "playing hard to get" and showing that you're your own man. If you says you're gonna call, call. But don't go calling her every day, and don't come off as a needy wuss. As kulots said, hang up before it gets awkward.
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08-09-2005, 12:19 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: usa
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Re: Lil Advice
called her and just talked thanks people
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08-09-2005, 01:40 PM
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Re: Lil Advice
I think you are a little confused about 'hard to get'. Hard to get is not saying you will call and not calling, that is being a jerk. As a guy you have to chase her, it's just the way our biology goes. The playing hard to get part is that you have to have enough confidence to show her that you will chase her, but you don't really care if you catch her, because you always have more options. That is the key.
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