ff7799

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Ok, one of the possible preconceived notions is that the faster you go the better the girl gets its, however I've heard rumors of otherwise, my question is what do girls really prefer, does it feel better if we go slower or do you like it fast, one of the reason guys have problems with pre-ejaculation is because of all the tension build up from rapidly doing it. Which method do women really prefer.

The Dog

I'm a guy, and ive been with quite a few girls, and Ican tell you that most women prefer a combo of the 2. very few girls ive been with liked to just get slammed the whole time.. there was some that did, but most like the combo.

kokob

It should be noted that most do NOT want it slow the whole time either. Either all hard and fast, or at least at the important moments.

Of course, I'd also be interested in hearing from the women on the topic.

TheMooninites

Yes, most women I been with for the majority of the sex will want combo action, now there have be instants when it was a quickie situation where a girl has just wanted to take it hard and fast as that what was called for and other times where the girl just wanted it to be soft and sweet.

But overall on the average they like a combination, you can usually tell when a girl wants it hard and fast or soft and slow. Or at least I can. If you do it right you can make your girl feel and cum much better.

Though I like to see what the ladies have to say about this like you all.

Juan.©amaney

I'd say variety. Don't just concentrate on thrusts and speed. Work your hands, get your mouth on them, talk to them, be responsive to what it is they are feeling. Fast, slow, deep, shallow, it's different with each girl. It's hard to develop technique when its with a girl you hardly know (one nighters) but any man who is good at what he does treats foreplay as a recon study.

To be honest with you, only take your time if you want to see the girl again. If its a one nighter type thing in the back seat...hurry up and get yours and if she didnt, thats her bad.

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ff7799

Could a female please respond to this thread because every guy seems to have their own opinion on this topic.

Juan.©amaney

Don't ask for respnes more than once in a thread...just sit tight and wait for them to reply.

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salamander

It totally depends. There are those times that I want my clothes ripped off and to be fucked hard and fast. Then there is the lazy Sunday morning that you want it slow and sweet while you're still half asleep. Usually I like a combination. I tend to like it really slow and teasing at first so I can savor the initial penetration, letting the sensations wash over me until I can't take it anymore and NEED all of it. Then give it to me!

theworldismytoy

I have to agree with salamander. There are times when all I want is a fast fuck, and times when I just want to tumble around and play, building the tention and savor the moment as was said. I would have to say all in all they even out. I think the most important thing (as has been stated yet again) is really to just know the girl you are with, know her well enough that you can tell what she wants without her having to say it exactly. One thing I find usful though is honest communication, both ways, be able to take and give directions and be open to what your partner is thinking, feeling ect. And the same advice can be given to women as well.

Pink*Fairy

It just depends on my mood. And what position we're in.

But I agree that usually its a combination of both.

~PF

jusskisscharlie

everygirl needs a build-up to sex. so going gung-ho into her isn't going to work usually. you gotta loosen her up a bit first... some oral sex can do that, or manual stimulation. i suggest going at a steady pace of about 2 pumps a second (1 mississippi) for the most of the time. and then..when she's getting into it, you can finish it off rabbit sex. don't go it too long tho, sometimes the girl will have came during your ruff sex, and it'll all be boring to her after... so slow it back down. remember, go with the flow... there's no user's manual to a girl's vagina