s14suspense

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i have a very dedicated girlfriend who just wants to see me get off for once she tries her hardest to give me a handjob. sometimes its too hot and sticky. so we have tried lotion and tried cold places and baby powder. shes against oral sex. but ive had it b4 and it hasnt worked. so basically ive never came for a girl. i feel really bad b/c they try so hard i dont know what my problem is. its like im made for sex b/c i could go for hours. it seems like while theyre giving me a HJ i think about it too much and i start to think its taking too long or how come i havent came and its stupid. i just want to come for her in a reasonable amount of time to a HJ. any advice

Juan.©amaney

Learn to turn your brain off. Seriously. Try drinking to loosen you up.

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jeffc574

Not with any girl or just this one? Next, How about with your own hand? If you cannot with your onw hand GOTO THE DOCTOR! Yes you will have to show your willy to the doc, but it is broke.

If you can get off by yourself, that may be the problem. Too much wacking. Lay off it for a few days and then try the gf. Loosening up would help too. Just relax and fire.

s14suspense

i can definately do it my self and ive tried stopping for like a week. so the drinking i will try.

Lucky Bob

I've had a related problem... always takes forever for a girl to get me off, except when I'm not focusing on it at all. Never drank and wanked, but it sounds liked it'd help with the focusing too much on what the girl's doing.

bohica mike

How about watching each other do it? It's crazy hot to watch a girl frig herself, and it may just be enough to make you

TheMooninites

As for your inability to cum, it could be a mental thing as you can cum by yourself but not with others.

Maybe you just think too much or something and your dick is distracted or something.

Since you can get yourself off then its not a medical thing luckily.

And if you drink when you do her it may relax you so much you dick finally cums but drinking be up to you.

Well, not much I can say by keep trying and trying until you cum.

And lay off on the because if you do alot it will make you cum even slower and slower each time as well as you have a GF who wants to please you and the only hand that should be on your dick is hers.

Best of luck on you problem.

W3bb3r

i have the same problem the only way my gf can get me off is sex
oral doesnt work niether do handjobs - feels good but wont get me off

Lucky Bob

Just got back from chilling with this chick... 19/20ths of the way to orgasm from combined bj and hj, FOUR TIMES! And it's not like she was trying to keep me on the edge, either...

Thankfully, blue balls are hard to come by.

MotaRaider

Alot of it has to do with being comfortable with the person youre with. I had the same problem with girls til i found a girl i was comfortable with. Im with a girl now and no matter what she does it doesnt take more than a few minutes to finish the job. Since you can do the job on your own its probably in your head. Best of luck!

tsmo

not being able to get off with a HJ isnt your only issue... your GF is against oral? Thats an issue. drop her. and find someone who will take care of you. but thinking too much about it has a HUGE effect on you. relax, and think about her. her body. put up a mirror so you can see her ass while she gets you off. youll get off in no time.

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phatbusa

looking at the ass is a definate plus.

And Don't try to come!! that's the worst thing to think about.

Maybe try a 69 but let her use a hand while you're munchin', I know I'd blow!

JackMehoff

Dude, you might be fucking gay

sam3722

Um, yeah, right...

"Too much, too much, thinking yes, I know."