morpheus8005

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Hey guys, as some of you may remember from before I posted a message about being a virgin and considering hiring an escort. I met this girl that I have been dating for a couple weeks and we just had sex the other day. I'm thankful for all of you who told me in my last thread not to get an escort, cause looking at what has happend now, I'm glad I didn't. I had a few problems, but I think she really likes me and all turned out ok. She knew before we did it that I was a virgin so that took some(but not all) of the pressure off. Also, I have continued to lose weight and have lost about 55 lbs. now. I just wanted to give everyone kinda an update in case anyone wondered how things have been going.

Waldo

woot woot

so was it what you wanted? remember it only gets better

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"Remember one thing, no matter how pretty she is, someone, somewhere, is tired of HER SHIT"

case sensitive

congrats. now remember, practice, practice, practice. don't forget to wear a rubber. no need for a little morpheus running around. unless you're ready that is...

PirateOZanzabar

hey hey! congrats dude! still waiting for my Vcard to be played. and also congrats on the weight loss man!

tsmo

no shit dude. Congrats! thats hard work on top of alot of pressure. You'da man.

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Lucky Bob

Hope you did it with the right girl for you... that's what I'm waiting for...

Other than that, congrats!

kulotsalot

Congrats on the girl and losing weight. Hope your winning streak continues.

EyeminmyPrime

Congratulations man, I hope it was a good and unregrettable experience. Props on the weight loss too, that's major man and not an easy feat.

TheMooninites

Congrats on getting a lil action and losing the weight, I hope your first was good, so what problems did you have as you said you had a few.

As you know we will help you out with those problems if we can.

tkd_guy01

Yep, like everyone else said, ALWAY WEAR A CONDOM! If she's on the pill, STILL PULL OUT! Already too many kids with kids.

OrdinaryGirl

I'm glad you waited. Good for you for finding an understanding girl to walk you through it and be supportive. And yes, I second (or third, or fourth) the practice of safe sex.

morpheus8005

Thanks for the responses everyone. To answer a couple of questions yes, I indeed did not send my soldier to do battle without his armor. I'm pretty found of the idea of no STD's, or kids right now. I'm guessing the problems I had are the same type everyone has. I was nervous and there was some akwardness during some parts. She was untrimmed, but not mega hairy(so not that big a deal). She doesn't like to do oral sex(even though I did her first). She doesn't like to be on top, which kinda bummed me out. I was having a little trouble getting it in. I ended up having one of the most ironic things in the world....a male fake orgasm. I was starting to get a little self concious with all the problems and the akwardness so eventually i just couldn't keep it up. She thought I finished, but I didn't. I'm still optimistic though I want to try again(obviously) and I did get her leg shaking and her back arching when I was going down on her(good feeling!). I talked to a good friend of mine about lot of this stuff and he made me feel better, but advice on anything you guys can think of is always welcome(positive of course).

TheMooninites

Well, of course you were nervous as it was your first but as she knew that she should have completely understood your nervousness.

As for her not going down on you, from what you said you appear to have eaten her out really good so she should reciprocate and give you a lil oral loving.

As for her not wanting to be on top, well girls can get off better on top as they can control the tempo of sex as well as have all you in her so just tell her this if she already doesn't know and she may ride you next go around.

As for any other advice just relax and take it slow, she knows your new to this and doesn't expect you to be like a guy who's been around the block a few times though she may expect you to be very enthusiastic and wanna jump her bones all the time.

Also was it your first time giving a girl oral or no?

morpheus8005

Actually it was my first time, so I'm kinda proud of myself for doing such a good job first time around. I have done a lot of reading So I guess it payed off. One thing though was I stayed down there long enough for her to orgasm once, next time I want to see if I can get a couple going just from the oral.