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08-01-2005, 09:13 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: IL
Posts: 227/0.19
Threads: 23
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can't cum..
Ok, so basically I can't get off with handjobs or bj's, only during sex.The bjs feel good, but nothing ever really happens. I also masturbate oddly, I am limp when i do it, i can't do it when I'm erect, it just doesn't do the job. Any help or ideas would be awesome. Thanks.
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08-01-2005, 09:35 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Auckland
Posts: 597/0.51
Threads: 9
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Re: can't cum..
I am the same with this bar the soft masty. Get them to put force or rub the area between your sack and your butt hole while doing either the HJ and/or BJ. Sometimes a lot of pressure may be required to stimulate this area and sometimes a feather touch will do the job. If your bum aint that hairy then they could also play with your ring too(generally girls freak when they have to touch the hair, it traps smell, oils and fartleberries). Don't get me wrong I'm not gay, but for some reason it seems to make the difference between an average and wicked cum.
If you or your partner aren't too self conscious about this then tounging down there after a good wash can get the juices really flowing, especially for her. My girl turns into a bit of a river if I rim for a little bit.(It can lead further if you play your cards right too...(just don't expect a kiss straight up when you're done:P)
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08-01-2005, 10:07 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: IL
Posts: 227/0.19
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Re: can't cum..
thanks, too bad i don't have a girl right now to actaully try this with, its been months and my ex got angry about it and i kinda felt bad.
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08-02-2005, 07:35 AM
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Luckiest of all Bobs
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: NYC
Posts: 3,459/2.57
Threads: 71
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Re: can't cum..
Actually, kinda the same thing for me... Not terribly experienced, but I've only had a girl make me cum twice... one girl giving me a handjob, and a completely seperate girl giving me head. Other than that, many attempts, no successes. 
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08-02-2005, 02:31 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: In MD
Posts: 1,789/1.40
Threads: 59
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Re: can't cum..
You can't cum with a HJ or BJ, well I don't see why.
A BJ I sorda can see why but a HJ should do the trick, are the girls who have done that stuff to you been bad or something or are you just not very sensitive down there.
Like karearea said a lil anal play as well as her giving some love to your balls will make the experience much better.
As for anymore help I could offer, you could use lube or something to make your dick feel better as its  which should make you cum easier.
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08-04-2005, 01:25 AM
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whore
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: SF, CA
Posts: 75/0.05
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Re: can't cum..
I don't think your situation is that unusual. Some men just require more stimulation (harder rubbing). The mouth is soft, and girls can almost never whack you off the way you can whack yourself off. If you have a girl who is patient, you might try asking her to blow you with a little more force, or for longer. If that doesn't work, just say, "I like bjs and hjs, but they don't get me all the way there." Most women are only too happy to help out.
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