nuts5000

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Or pathetic whichever you call it.

I come in like 5 minutes. Don't know why. My girl is hot. Maybe I get too excited? But if we do it for a few times a day I get better and then it gets better after some time (approx 30+- min intercourse). It sucks. But once she gets her period (no action for a week) then I go back to 5 min. wth is wrong with me? Thanks!

skyNet

Hey, at least you're not like me. The medications I am on due to my PTSD make it so I can sometimes go to muscle failure trying to wack off. Let alone screwing... the wife's jaw gets sore and whole mouth ends up numb trying to get me off, and it just don't happen in the cooch either.

Try wacking off before she comes over, it should help some.. obviously not while she's THERE, but if you get off a bit before it'll help prolong your "performance".

Juan.©amaney

^^^ Try that. Try desensitizers. Also, stop in the middle of it and work your hands, mouth, etc. Get creative with it!

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epak1734

A nice thick rubber might do some good.

nuts5000

tried rubber. well she likes foreplay so we do lots of that. and well i keep it up for all that time. we foreplay sometimes up till 45 minutes. once i'm inside. it's a whole diff story. hmm any ideas?

desensitizers?? where do i get that? need a prescription?

Juan.©amaney

Its stuff that makes your shaft get number. Pick it up at a sex shop. Practice is the only real way to get better. There are certain ways that you can position yourself that reduce your urge to nut. Spreading your legs open more, relaxing pressure on your prostate muscles, etc. Change things up, and reduce your speed.

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TheMooninites

She won't even give you a HJ or BJ while on her period.

Well, onto your problem.

If you cum to fast you can before sex like others have said as well as wear a rubber or do other things to desensitize your obviously very sensitive dick.

You can also train your dick to last longer with by trying to as long as you can and each time keep doing that and your dick should become less used to cumming fast.

But if all this don't work when you cum to fast in her, just treat her good meaning when you cum too fast pretty much eat her out because she may not like the fact your no longer in her but as long as your still giving her pleasure in some way she should be fine. Once your hard again after that get back inside her.

Or you can simply slow it down a bit when doing one of her 3 yummy holes. If you feel it cumming then slow down and kiss her and make it more sensual then more about just doing her hard and fast.

She will think your just being more sensual or something but in actuality you will be trying to not cum.

Now some girls can understand a guy cumming to fast, if she is one then you really don't have to change but you should for you and her.

Pretty much if your not giving her pleasure with your dick because you cum to fast give her pleasure other ways.

And you could always start with a nice make out session then she sucks you and you cum then you eat/finger/toy her pussy til she cums then start the sex. This way even before you get your dick in her she has cummed so everything after that is gravy as they say.

nuts5000

Haha thanks for your advice.

Well I make her feel verrrryyy nice during foreplay. I know cause she likes that a lot. She always want more. But she likes to have sex so I've to give her. Yes she understands that I cum fast (she's a very nice girl) but she does get fustrated at times. And yea practice makes a diff as the more I do it the longer the session lasts. But no she's not so nice to do things with me when she's havin her period (so no action for at least a week). So then back to square one. I think what I need is to really desensitize my dick. I mean even if I don't even do it fast I will probably last just a litttle while longer. One way or another I've to improve! I very rarely, do you think that is a problem too? Thanks again

Sekhmet

They make rubbers that have a numbing agent in them. I've seen them at Walmart and stuff, anywhere you get regular ones.

skyNet

dude, beat your pud. I'm telling you you'll last longer. LOL

Flogging the bishop is tried and true.. plus it feels good.

menace2yerbrain

I'm a therapist. Not a sex therapist, mind you, but we have to learn about these things in therapy school. Here's the problem. Usually, premature loads have to do with when your body confuses tension with sexual arousal. That's why trying to hold back or think of baseball only makes it worse. For most men with the problem, worry about premature ejaculation and performance are mistaken for arousal. So what do you do? Something called Sensate Focus. That's where you start slow, focus on the feelings, relax, and move progressively over a period of days/weeks from touching that is not so sexual (kissing, massage) to more sexual (inner thigh massage), eventually to slow and deliberate intercourse. The key is to relax and really pay attention, so you will learn what it feels like when you are about to blow your load. It takes praactice, but once you get really familiar with the feeling, if you are relaxed, you will be able to control it. Let your woman in on it: "honey tonight, I need to practice. That means really tame, and follow my lead." For more information, just Google Sensate Focus. This problem is very treatable. Good luck!

dscallaway69

I mean I don't really see the problem. I mean yeah 5 minutes is a little fast but you could be worse. Most people I know don't like to have sex for longer than that. Me personaly I do but I know alot of girls that don't. I am sure I will have a lot of people diasagree with me but that is just how the people I know feel. Otherwise to try and answer your question. Don't think about it so much. No, I am not saying think about baseball, but if you are in her and start thinking about not wanting to cum you are going to. As said in the previous post just relax and try and think about the feeling and concentrate on her and not you. Forget about cumming and just go with it.

KC Sikwitit

Trojan makes a condom called extended pleasures, it will numb you right up. Don't worry though it still feels great. I used it and went for an hour and a half, thats not as fun as it sounds. I no longer use that kind of condom, because it is really on for if you have a problem lasting. Also you could try kegal excercices, they will help you hold of ejaculation. But I actually don't recomend masterbation to help, it may just be me but I cum quicker from masterbating then from sex. And if that is so when you masterbate you train yourself to come quicker. Its also a good idea just to take it slow, use some of your forplay tricks while your having sex. Kiss, lick, bite, suck, whatever you can do to help her out.

JacksonAces

One thing I do, is switching positions. If you feel yourself starting to climax, pull out, forcefully roll her into a new position, and start again. It may be jsut a few seconds, but chances are she'll love the little bit of rough handling, and the few seconds will give you a bit of time to relax.

~jack