Pink*Fairy

Are you the first guy to go down on her?

When my boyfriend started doing this to me, I honestly didn't like it that much. It just made me uncomfortable to have someone's mouth down there. It took me a while to get comfortable with it, and to actually have an orgasm from it. Now of course, its different

~PF

amby417

I am new here but read your post and wanted to see if I could help.....some women are extrememly sensitive epsecially with manual stimulation....i use to not like cumming when someone was eating me out or fingering me...partly a control issue( i like it better when we were having sex.) But also it makes you hyper sensitive. Plus I was so overly sensitive, I just about could stand to have sex afterwards. I had to wait a little while so i could relax a little. I would say hers is proably a control thing. And probably she tries to hard (thinking about it ) when your having sex ...so she can't cum. I would try making her real relaxed by gentle touching and make her feel real comfortable then a little forplay but not overkill( trying to make her cum) then have sex after she is worked up and really ready for you....try that a few times without bringing up the cum issue and see what happens. She prob. wont talk about because she is frustrated herself and embarassed about it. Give her a little space and understanding and she will eventually talk to you about it. Good luck.

Groove80

Been there dude! I didn't like a lot of the answers I read in this thread so I'm guessing you didn't either. There could be a million reasons why she doesn't want to climax; here is one I experienced: My old GF used to say "I'm gonna pee if you go any further." I resolved this by 1) explaining it's the same initial feeling; peeing and orgasiming, 2) showing her an article from an article in a magazine about this problem written in the first person by a girl and 3) getting busy in the shower. That way if any accident happend it would be in the shower and who cares! Give that a try if you haven't been able to crack her code!