VCGuitar

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Ok I have a question. I've been dating this girl for over a year now and everything about her is absolutely amazing. She is literally any guy's dream with one exception. She told me when we started dating that in her earlier years (beginning of college...) she used to give a lot of head but then she realized that "she doesn't have to do that to make a guy like her" and she stopped. I on the other hand have no problem whatsoever with giving oral, she gets it at least twice a week from me.

So I guess my question is, is it right for me to feel a little upset when I think about the fact that she used to give a LOT of head to other guys and won't do it for me...especially when I go down on her ALL the time? Cause the last think I wanna do is let something like this ruin an awesome relationship

(first post...be nice )

michaeljohn

well, the quicker you relax about not getting blown, the better you two have a chance to grow together as a couple. eventually, she will give in, just don't pressure her. Also, maybe she had some bad experiences with it. Let it go, and keep both of you satisfied in all the other ways.

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kulotsalot

1 year should've been enough time to prove to her that she's not just being treated as a sex object, which would be her major reason to stop giving head. You've been with her a year, treated her good, didn't complain... she should be rethinking this whole not giving head thing right about now... but she's not. Hmmm. Either silently hope for this decision to be overturned sometime soon, or talk about it. Of course it is her decision, but you've been together for a year... don't you think that's enough time for you guys to be able to talk about these things? I mean, you've already proved that you like her enough w/out it so it's not like that's the only thing you want from her...

clt_capt

Kulots nailed it.

If it bothers you that much, it would be worth discussing with your GF.