Storm-b

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Now that summer is here, the covers off and the nighties sheer, I have to say that I have guiltily been enjoying spying on my gf while she sleeps. Am I alone in this? I am so tempted to use my camera phone, but I think this would be crossing a line. Does anyone else have a similar source of pleasure?

CD

Spying on your gf? Does she live with you? If not, I'd say that is pretty creepy.

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jimmytchi2000

I have to admit that sometimes when my g'f and are in bed sleeping and i wake up for whatever reason.....i find myself just watching her sleep for a couple of minutes until i fall back to sleep. I actually find it quite calming.

As for the camara phone......i'd say that its a big (if not huge) no no. If a girl wants to have pictures of her taken in little to no clothing, i would suggest u ask her. Otherwise you might get the boot.

Storm-b

We are in a long-term relationship. Could definitely be creepy aspect to it if this were some short term relationship or a one night stand. In this case, there is both the aspect described by jimmytchi, the calming, admiring part, but there is also the voyeuristic part. It is this latter aspect that guiltily turns me on and I wondered if I was alone in in feeling this.

The camera thing is definitely out.

TheMooninites

Like he said watching your partner sleeping calmly can be calming. I have done it her and there but after the little pause I then just wrap my arms around her and go back to bed.

And like he said do not takes pic's of her without her permission because if she finds out she could drop you just for that no matter if your serious or not.

Watching her sleep isn't creepy but if you for instant sneak a peek at her while she was in the shower and maybe started to or while you watch her sleep you then that be on the creepy side unless of course she is kinky and wants to be watched in which case you will be fulfilling her desire to be watched.

If all you do is watch her a little while she sleeps your normal but if you find yourself going out of your way to catch certain things you may develop a problem unless of course she likes to be watched like I said before.

Besides if your turned on by watching her how about you stop watching and start getting it on with her. Of course I am not saying to do her while she sleeps but if she is awake then start bringing the heat.

Though I will have to say I love when my girl wakes me up with a BJ.

And she allows me to wake her up by doing things to her so if you get the go ahead to do such things then she won't mind but if you don't she could really get mad.

Maelindar

I am with everyone else in enjoying to watch my gf sleep every so often. I don't know what is so calming/pleasing about it, but it is very nice in a schmoopy sort of way.

I am also someone who can enjoy the voyeuristic thrill of seeing something you werenlt supposed to. (I should note that this falls well short of creeping around windows at night!) I guess I don't get a voeyuristic thrill out of watching my gf sleep because she is completely comfortable being naked around me so it is just a different kind of thing.

On the other hand, there are many cases where I have woken up and then gotten things started either in the morning or in the middle of the night if she is willing. Still just feels different though.

Well, I don't think I was helpful at all. I guess my one strong recommendation is to NOT take any pictures of her without her consent. You would be violating her trust in you, and that is the kind of thing that can cause irreparable harm to a relationship.

giggles

I know somebody who once had his girlfriend wear a bag over her head while they were having sex so that she wouldn't notice that he was video taping it.