Dont_Lose_It

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am i a jerk for breaking up with my g/f (8 months, because she lied to me A LOT and didn't care how i felt when she hung out with guys every weekend) and then falling back inlove with my other ex g/f. which by the way....Her and my newest ex are big enemies. i just dont know what to do, because i really miss the 8 months ex..yet, im still attracted to my old ex...and now its all like...WOOO WHAT DO I DOO! so yeah i dunno, i just need some help sorting ideas..PLEASE

DDGuy

Well, I can answer part of it....if anyone lies to you and doesn't care how you feel, then she surely deserved the boot...the rest I will leave for others to sort out for u.

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Greenfire

How does the old ex feel about you? If she doesn't have any interest in being together with you then it really doesn't matter, you just move on. BUT, if she might want to get back together with you then you can either give it another go, and hope that what made you break up before has changed.

Maelindar

Getting back together with an ex can always be tricky, but if you are both into it, go for it. I dated someone in the past that is very similar to the woman you are just now breaking up with. Whether or not you are comfortable with your gf always hanging with other guys is a personal thing, but for it to have any chance at working there has to be TRUST. If she is lying to you, there is no way you can trust her, so I would strongly advise moving on regardless of whether your ex wants to get back together or not.

Juan.©amaney

At 18, you are not in love with the woman, you are in love with the idea of getting sex regularly.

NEVER forgive a liar. The ex is good for rebound sex, eventually, move on. You broke up with her for a reason and I'm sure that reason still exists.

Besides...no man under the age of 25 should be in a commited relationship anyway. You don't know what you want and if you knock any girl up, you fucked your whole life up. Buy some condoms, learn some game, and see many girls so you know when the right one comes along...and do as your login name says.

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sakkie

It's a trust thing. And who says you found out all her lies, there may be many more.

Make like a stamp and post her.

spokk

don't ever go back to a lier, I did and I even married her and belive me now it hurts like hell, couse a person that lies to save face will never stop lying!

TheMooninites

First off the ex that you just broke up with who lied to you, if you like to pursue something with her in the future I would not to get into a full fledged relationship with her. Pretty much if you wanna get with her just make her a booty call, friends with benefits or whatever but don't get serious.

Because she lied alot to you and she will always be like that so if you happen to pursue a serious relationship with her then you will only be setting yourself up for a hard fall.

Now for the ex from back in the day that you are apparently in love with. I say apparently as your recent break up with your other ex may be making you fall very easily in order to be comforted emotionally and all that meaning your feeling for her may have been enhanced by the break up you just had. And if this is true then any serious relationship with her be bad because starting like that is never good if you want a serious relationship.

Now if your really in love with her by some strange coincidence then the ability to rekindle your relationship will be determined by how you two broke up.

So tell me how you two broke up and I can give you advice on how to proceed with her.

clt_capt

Juan hit it right on the head. Don't get hung up on a liar this young. Maybe the sex was great, but don't mistake that for love - take it for what it is - Sex.