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07-14-2005, 01:08 AM
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When your gettin a bj
How long do you guys normaly last when your are getting a bj from a girl who is average at it? I just wanted to know where i was in relation to everybody else
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07-14-2005, 01:10 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
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Originally Posted by Mturner1013
How long do you guys normaly last when your are getting a bj from a girl who is average at it? I just wanted to know where i was in relation to everybody else
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This is an impossible question to answer, but I'll give it my best shot.
- If I'm horny and she does the key things I like, 5-10 mins.
- If I'm not horny and she does what I like.. 10-15 mins.
- If I'm horny and she doesn't do what I like, 20 mins or more.
- If I'm not horny and she doesn't do what I like, never.
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07-14-2005, 02:23 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
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Originally Posted by HIJACKER
This is an impossible question to answer, but I'll give it my best shot.
- If I'm horny and she does the key things I like, 5-10 mins.
- If I'm not horny and she does what I like.. 10-15 mins.
- If I'm horny and she doesn't do what I like, 20 mins or more.
- If I'm not horny and she doesn't do what I like, never.
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I agree not on the time but on how what a girl does and how horny you are changes how long it takes for you to cum. And what you said with the time difference is about right between each.
I have had BJ's last as short as a few minutes due to need of quickness and as long as a half an hour or more straight and that is why I love the 69 position.
No matter how horny I am I usually have a decent amount of control over whether I cum or not but sometimes I will have to say I can cum fast in the proper things were to happen during a BJ.
Of course there have been times where my girl gave me a BJ then I entered her then pulled out and got a BJ and so on so when she sucked me the purpose wasn't to get me to cum exactly so in cases like that I don't count them as there more apart of sex rather than being more separate.
Though I will have to say if I do that the girl usually will finish me with her mouth once I am close. So you could consider that one big BJ in which case my longest be more than an hour.
And like HIJACKER said, its a bit impossible to judge yourself on others performance as some guys are more sensitive or less sensitive or some guys have had girls who were awesome at giving BJ's and others could have had girls that sucked at giving a BJ. No pun intended.
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07-14-2005, 12:16 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
yea i see what you guys are saying but i really need to try to increase the time that i could last because im still a virgin but i have gotten my share bj's but somtimes i can go pretty quick. Like im sad to say but normaly under a minute  And i cant imagin what will happen when i get a little more intimate so i really really need some help on to increase how ling i last. I have heard of  till your about to blow the stop and reapeat a few times. But does that really work? Please help me!!
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07-14-2005, 12:32 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
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Originally Posted by Mturner1013
yea i see what you guys are saying but i really need to try to increase the time that i could last because im still a virgin but i have gotten my share bj's but somtimes i can go pretty quick. Like im sad to say but normaly under a minute  And i cant imagin what will happen when i get a little more intimate so i really really need some help on to increase how ling i last. I have heard of  till your about to blow the stop and reapeat a few times. But does that really work? Please help me!!
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Well, I've NEVER had a BJ go that fast.. ever. Honestly, sometiems I wish I had the ability to speed up a BJ. If you last to long on a BJ, a girl will complain her next is sore, lips going numb, and overall, it just gets boring after awile.
How old are you?
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07-14-2005, 02:17 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
well, I am slow to come, which can irritate a girl. the reason I am slow is I more or less trained myself to withhold ejaculation until after she has climaxed, preferably more than once. Getting head isn't as important as it may seem. Not saying it isn't nice. the reasons are simple:
You can enjoy other sexual practices, more fun to climax in her vagina.
Save getting head for when she is on her period.
Or a wake-up treat, then switch to intercourse.
If it is a new relationship and the two of you are young, bj's may be all you get until she is ready to offer up her cookie.
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07-14-2005, 04:20 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
To last longer the best thing I have heard is to do the Keegles (I am not sure it that is how you spell it) excersise. It is the same muscles that you use to stop from urinating or cumming. You just flex them and hold for 10 seconds or whatever and then release. Then flex and release, etc. This should allow you to supress the ejaculation for a while.
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07-14-2005, 05:45 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
girls complain if it takes to long id rather get off quick then listen to her talk my damn ear off
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07-14-2005, 06:13 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
Try getting a bj with a condom on...may prolong you a bit...find a big thickass one...
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07-14-2005, 07:13 PM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
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Originally Posted by finley
Save getting head for when she is on her period.
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Yup because unless you wanna go in a girl when she is on the rag a BJ/HJ is all you will get unless she lets you tap that ass, which is a nice substitute for her pussy while she is on the rag.
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Originally Posted by finley
Getting head isn't as important as it may seem. Not saying it isn't nice. the reasons are simple:
You can enjoy other sexual practices, more fun to climax in her vagina.
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Yes, that is for damn sure as I know I rather be in a girls pussy or ass than her mouth unless of course she sucks really really good in which case I sometimes rather be in there. But nothing beats the feeling of cumming in your girl after or while she cums because oh man is that great.
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Or a wake-up treat, then switch to intercourse.
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Yup a BJ is definitely the best way to be woke up whether in the morning or the middle of the night and of course that always leads to morning sex.
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Originally Posted by finley
If it is a new relationship and the two of you are young, bj's may be all you get until she is ready to offer up her cookie.
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Yes, that is true as if its new BJ's and HJ's will be all you either get or give in the beginning unless of course she wants it fast in which case you will get that plus intercourse in the beginning.
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Originally Posted by Mturner1013
yea i see what you guys are saying but i really need to try to increase the time that i could last
because im still a virgin but i have gotten my share bj's but somtimes i can go pretty quick. Like im sad to say but normaly under a minute  And i cant imagin what will happen when i get a little more intimate so i really really need some help on to increase how ling i last. I have heard of  till your about to blow the stop and reapeat a few times. But does that really work? Please help me!!
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Well, you should have said that from the get go.
To increase your time in a girls mouth, well you can always simply tell the girl to ease it up a bit if she is going to town on it hardcore. If you cum fast even if they go slow then you will have to train yourself on not cumming to fast unless of course the girls that suck you don't mind you shooting your load in there mouths and then sucking you till your hard again and continue. Because if that's the case then hey that's a good thing in a way to have girls like that who suck you.
I know my girl doesn't mind me cumming fast as she will go another round. Shit sometimes she insist on me cumming because she is so horny and wants my cum bad.
Because your a virgin your more prone to blowing your load fast and until you get into a girls pussy you probably will be a bit fast either way. If being sucked makes you cum fast then being in a girl will make you cum even faster so its good your getting help now.
My advice just be to  as long as you can without cumming, then progressively  longer and longer and your cock will be conditioned to cumming slower. Though  doesn't come close to how your cock feels in a girls mouth so if you got a girl you can practice with then I recommend practicing with her, get her to suck the best she can. Every time try to last longer and longer and you cock will be conditioned to lasting longer in a girls mouth as well.
Beyond that you could wear a condom to desensitize you or do something else to your cock to desensitize it.
Well, best of luck and I hope whatever I said or what others have said or will say helps you out.
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07-15-2005, 12:55 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
Thanks for the help
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07-15-2005, 12:56 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
oh and by the way someone asked how old i am im about mid 16
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07-15-2005, 01:12 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
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oh and by the way someone asked how old i am im about mid 16
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you're still a young man....baaaaaaby, do-whop, don't break my heart....
 until you are 18...you didn't see it coming? next time lie and say you are 18.
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07-15-2005, 04:43 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
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Thanks for the help
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Your welcome, always glad to help those in need especially when its the kind of problem you have.
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oh and by the way someone asked how old i am im about mid 16
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16 huh!
Well, your young and this problem you have is fully understandable. But if you do get it fixed quick then you will have a much better experience when doing all those teen girls. 
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07-15-2005, 06:48 AM
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Re: When your gettin a bj
The advice about having it done while wearing a condom is good...but have HER put it on! That will add to the sensation!!!
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