bohica mike

Dude, speaking from experience......just go out with her. You'll be able to tell real quick if it's just a ruse to separate you from your $. Besides, you might get lucky and , just remember what I said about wrapping your tool!

michaeljohn

Anytime you go out with a girl you spend a little money and time. So, spend some of both on her. This way you will find out more about her. If she wants to see you again, never go to the club to do so. Then you would be spending probably more money on another HJ. get it in private, where you can get more.

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teabagger

I dated a stripper, but found her at a regular club, not a strip club. If you get beyond the early herpes scare stuff, just be prepared for the mental anguish that can accompany dating a stripper. The thought of her being at the club dancing for others (and possibly giving others a HJ) would certainly be stressful.

TheMooninites

So she called you, that's good.

Well, going out with her on a date wouldn't be bad. Considering she gave you a HJ at work she probably have sex on the first date so hey you will get a lil at the end of the night, just wrap up your tool.

Go out with her a few times, after that you should be able to gauge whether or not she likes you or your money.

To test it you could be like one time "I have no money because I lost my wallet, could you pay this time", if she does that it may mean she isn't about the money and hey maybe she finds you very attractive and wants you sex wise which means she may want a relationship though it will be sexually driven meaning it won't be serious but hey its better her being in it for the sex than the money as giving her sex is positive to you and her but the money isn't positive to you even if you get sex out of it.

Well, best of luck on the situation.

Juan.©amaney

Depends on how good your game is. Call her, let her know you want to hang out, and then ask her to chose a place to meet you. If she says back at her club, NO! If she says another bar, club, etc. go for it.

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hockyis1

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Alright, I must really have no game....

Here's what's happened so far (not much really)

I called her back after work, one of the guys she lives with (who's dating one of the girls she lives with) (found that out at the club) answers the phone. I ask for her, and there is loud music in the background and crap. Supposedly she's doing her friend's hair...i ask her what's going on...how she's doing..etc. The call lasts for about 2 minutes. I say, "It sounds like you're busy, do you want me to call back?" She says she'll call me back later...I tell her I'll be driving since I had to do a bunch of errands...no biggie...I'll just wait til we can have some one-on-one time to talk....

and that's it.....haven't heard from her since yesterday at 4pm. I dont know if it was a good decision, but I called her at like 930pm last night, and the same guy answered and said she'd be right back, but said he'd tell her I called. (so i don't know if she really did get the message).

Anyway, I figure in the 2 minutes i talked to her, she figured out I'm a loser, or she got scared, or maybe her friends told her not to go for me, since she met me at work... who knows...

All i know is I'm not going to call her back..if she calls fine...if not...well...i'll show back up to the club this weekend for another round of hot tub action...

thanks for all the help

Juan.©amaney

Hehe...she called you and you told her you'd call her back. She started doing stuff and your priority went to shit. You kept calling back; ie sounded too needy. So now, she is in control and you sound a leetle desperate. So reverse the role, put her on the back burner, and if she ever calls back, let the voice mail get it or pretend that it took you a while to remember who she was so it sounds like you really aren't thinking about her.

Game needs fine tuning.

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Etic Perspective

Dude, dating a stripper is a bad idea. There is a reason they are strippers. Money and sex go hand in hand with those women and I don't think associating those two things is probably the best thing to do in a relationship.

habjad

This is the most interesting thread on the web. Will she? Won't she? Did you? Better than television...

tx4x42005

This is the first time ive ever posted here... but i gotta comment on this. I once dated a stripper and ive gotta say, she was always buying me cool shit and paying for stuff and the sex was friggin awesome bu thats were the good stuff ends. She was ALWAYS out partying all nights of the week sometimes i wouldn't hear from her for a day or two at a time. the shittiest part is when your imagination starts goin while your wondering what she's doing and who she's doin it with. if you think you can stomach it then by all means go nuts.!!!! just wrap it up good and don't get attached!!!

Maelindar

Good luck buddy. Keep listening to Juan, as I agree with most of what he has to say. I have to admit that I don't know what it is about me, but I seem to end up with phone numbers whenever I leave stripclubs, though I would not generally consider myself to have an "A" game.

From this point on, you basically have to treat her like you would any other hard to get girl. The best I can summarize it is to be fun but not to make yourself too available. Remember that this girl has guys falling all over her every night, so you really have to avoid falling all over her and being just one of her customers.

The one time I dated a stripper for any significant period of time, we talked early and were both just out for some funWe went out, had a great time, and went our separate ways when it was time.

When it comes to a serious relationship with someone who dances, I would be VERY hesitant as there are just too many issues that go along with it. If they are dancing, they either like the sex and the money and inevitably the drugs and such that come with it, or they have been forced into it and then have all sorts of issues and guilt that can go bad.

I say have fun with it if you want, but don't take it too serious. To be honest, if you are just in it to have a good time, why worry so much about her motivation? If you keep going to see her at the club you will drop serious cash, but if you are just taking her out on normal dates, she isn't gonna hurt you on the financial side. Just relax and see where it takes you.

TheMooninites

Your welcome, always glad to help a guy out with women problems.

And that's what I said, I mean even if you don't get into a relationship of sorts you know where to get some hot HJ action and possibly more since she has shown she likes you more. Next time you go there I bet you get a BJ.


Yes, it does.


That's a perfect example of what a stripper offers as they are great in bed, generally are hot unless you go to a bad strip club. I mean as long as you don't wanna get serious with a stripper it practically is the perfect relationship as there is hot sex, not much talking going on but the negatives of course be the possible STD's you could get and the fact she could be banging guys or girls on the side which brings me to another positive as with a stripper a 3sum is much more possible.

In the end if all you are looking for is a hot girl you can bone every so often then a stripper is perfect.

Maelindar

Damnit! Why didn't I ever push for the 3sum!?! We even talked about her ex-gf's ....

bwhit112003

I would definitely nail the stripper (protected) but making a relationship out of it would be nuts.