rich68bird

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Gents, any particular tricks that you use when you're getting your lady in that special mood? Things you do when you and your girl are just playing and not jumping right into the ole bumpa dump.

Ladies, is there anything special your man does for you? Anything you wish he'd do? Come to think of it, maybe something your girlfriend does?

One of the things my wife really enjoys on these slow mornings is to lay on her stomache and sort of twist her hips to lean her butt up against me. I'll start slowly stroking her back, butt, and thighs with my fingertips.

Eventually I start to drag my fingertips furthur down between her thighs and just barely grazing the hair where she doesn't shave, nice and slow.

Progressively using more pressure and starting with the outer lips before moving to the center, I eventually start to stroke along her cleft and part her labia. Using my middle finger to gently stroke her clitoris, I get my thumb involved at her opening.

In short order, I insert my thumb as I increase pressure on the clitoris. Stroking my thumb along the front of the vaginal wall stimulates the g-spot area. It's an area of sort of pebbly or wrinkled skin about an inch and a half to two inches inside. My lady doesn't like me to concentrate on it, just make good contact with each stroke.

The other finger is stroking up and down along the crease from the clitoris to the vaginal opening (helps keep the fingers lubricated). Starting slow and moving into this takes me about five to eight minutes depending on the signals she's giving me. Sometimes faster, if she's been having really good dreams. My lady likes pretty direct clitoral stimulation, so this likely won't work for everyone. Just listen to your lady and try new things. Pay attention to how her body responds.

UsrBinBoy

Are you looking for tips or war stories? I'm confused.

rich68bird

A little of both really. You ever hear of learning through shared experience? I figured if I was asking, I ought to be willing to tell?

JailBait

Hm... Tips. -thinks- All women are different, as are all men. Personally, I like it when a guy's a little rough and does the whole pin me up against something thing, but that's just me.
Going for the neck is normally a good thing on most women too. Nerves are sensitive there.

umpire00

It all depends on our mood that day. Sometimes we use toys and other times we just touch each other. It really depends on how we are feeling at that time.

TheMooninites

Yes, women as men are different in what they like and so on.

I also find kissing a girls neck and other erogenous zones will work on practically all women. Though I do know some girls do have there own special spots that in particular get them off.

Like my girl likes to be kissed on her inner thighs and it really puts her in a very good state. Its a very good way to prime her for when I'm about to eat her out.

As for general tips I find that paying special attention to erogenous zones is a plus no matter what.

Beyond that you can simply ask your girl what she likes and do it. That's it, nice and simple.

But if you like to surprise her with something to blow her mind more and I can completely understand that then I find when you about to eat your girl out slowly kiss at her inner thigh's and rub your finger tip up and down her pussy teasing it a bit. Then kiss up to her pussy and kiss all around it and kiss really close to her clit. This will drive her crazy and probably make her say eat me now or she will straight out push your head in there as both has happened to me lol.

Or give her a nice back massage if your good at it which I am and as you really getting her to melt in your hands slowly start to kiss her ear/neck. You can kiss whichever you like first but be sure to kiss both.

As you kiss her more and more begin to rub your hands along her arms getting her warmer then put your hands on her waist and slowly run your hand up to her breast and begin to massage/rub them as you still kiss her neck and/or ear. From there she should be loving it and will probably turn around and you will start to make-out and eventually get busy. This has worked for me alot, the better you massage her back the better the result I find as it puts her such a good mood everything will flow so smoothly. A few times after doing this after the making-out and fondling on both are parts she either went down town to orally please me or I did it as its a nice next step to take from there I think and hey I haven't gotten any complaints.

Note she has to be sitting up for this to work of course.

Another route is you could sorda do the same thing but do a full body massage with her laying on her stomach, her being nude or at least down to her panties will make the massage feel better plus make things happen faster.

Using oil or lotion is a plus too.

As you massage her body, start to kiss various parts of her body so if your down on her legs kiss up her leg and in the inner knee area and up her thighs. If you at her back then you can kiss her back but not too much just start at the top and start to kiss her neck.

If you behind her sitting on her legs as you massage her back start kissing up her spine until you get to her neck. In my experience when you do that in particular girls I have been with will turn around and start making-out. If yo do the other ways like kissing up the legs nothing will happen but its a good lead into the back thing.

Also while you do the kissing don't stop the massaging at it will break the relaxation and the smooth transition to sex will be less smooth

Pretty much I say kiss kiss and do some more kissing on your women's body and make the experience very sensual before it ever gets sexual as this is highly liked by women I have been with at least and I think in general women would appreciate the facet you didn't just jump to getting it on and took the time to please them in other ways.

Now of course there are other ways that are best used for hard quickies and spontaneous sex in public.

But usually that stuff is either so obvious or natural there is no need to go into explanation.

Beyond that I can't think of anything else right now.

Hope whatever I said or others said will make your lady feel good as she deserves it and if you go the extra mile to make her feel special and mmm good she will do the same and hey you might get her to do things that she wouldn't do in the past by treating her so good. Like for instant taking your cum and what not as treating her this way will break the ice better and allow you to ask for something she hasn't done or ask for something she has said no to in the past.

If you have more questions or need advice this place is great to get some help/advice and I'll be sure to help you out as best as I can when you ask.