WR - Going limp after a while..

06-24-2005, 05:06 PM

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Re: Going limp after a while..

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

maybe I should just not masterbate for this whole next week..think that'd do any good..

No don't do that, just do like I said a few replies back where I said to try to draw it out for as long as possible while being as hard as possible.

But don't whack it alot before she comes as your winky will be too tired for her when she gets back.

Just maybe once a day pick some really good porn and whack it for a long as you can without cumming while staying as hard as you can.

Each day use should progressively get better at it and when she gets back even if you can't get her to cum at least you will be able to do her better.

Which may possibly prompt her wanting to do the whole cumming thing as she will have a better time sexually with you therefore possibly wanna elevate her sexually experience by finally cumming.

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

Funny you suggested the handcuffs; I told her I was gonna handcuff her so she couldn't stop me from giving her one..she didn't bite, but I also said it jokingly. Hopefully she'll be so sexually frustrated that our first go she'll just let me do whatever(in my dreams).

Hey now I am not saying to take full advantage of her in the tied up state, just use it to at least get her to cum after that she may wanna be a bit kinky in the future and let you do what you want to her.

Plus like I said before I recommend using silk scarfs as they don't leave marks really where as hand cuffs can.

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06-24-2005, 10:38 PM	#17
99rollaguy whore Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: DR,ME Posts: 193/0.10 Threads: 4 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. I'd probably end up using shirts or something if I were to tie her down anyway. I'll try the drawing it out deal, porn just doesn't excite me as much as it used to, so a lot of the time I'm not full erect, which was why I mentioned the PC muscle thing, as it is supposed to increase blood-flow as well as staying power. Thanks for the help

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06-25-2005, 12:04 AM

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Re: Going limp after a while..

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Originally Posted by Juan.©amaney

It depends on how into it you were, your confort level, the frequency of masturbation, and your diet...a few other things as well...

If you are healthy, eat right, and were into it...you might be choking it too much.

Are you in any type of excercise program, taking pills, supliments, or got bored of the same porn?

Only time its happened to me was during sex when it was like 100 degrees and I was sweating way too much and forgot to turn the fan on. I was sweating all over the girl and some got into my eye (sweat) and it burned...so it killed the mood.

getting too hot and/or sweatty def. can kill the mood

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06-25-2005, 12:14 AM

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Re: Going limp after a while..

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

I'd probably end up using shirts or something if I were to tie her down anyway.

Ya shirts or any cloth will do the trick pretty much but if your gonna go all out silk scarfs are the best.

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

I'll try the drawing it out deal, porn just doesn't excite me as much as it used to, so a lot of the time I'm not full erect.

Hmm porn don't turn you on anymore, well maybe you can find some hot porn on here that makes your winky happy.

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

which was why I mentioned the PC muscle thing, as it is supposed to increase blood-flow as well as staying power. Thanks for the help

The PC muscle thing makes it stonger making you last harder longer and ya I think it increases blood flow, I am not 100% sure on it so don't take my word on it.

Well, best of luck on your situation.
Hope you get that girl of yours cumming soon.

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06-25-2005, 12:32 AM	#20
99rollaguy whore Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: DR,ME Posts: 193/0.10 Threads: 4 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. It's not that porn doesn't turn me on anymore, it's just not as much as it used to. In highschool, I was like a walking hard-on, now I'm not even sure if I get morning wood. This shit's gay..

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06-25-2005, 01:22 AM

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Re: Going limp after a while..

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

It's not that porn doesn't turn me on anymore, it's just not as much as it used to. In highschool, I was like a walking hard-on, now I'm not even sure if I get morning wood. This shit's gay..

Ya well do you watch the same stuff or do you spice it up a bit.

As for not getting morning wood well I don't get morning wood all the time either as I think over time a guy will get less and less over the years.

Like when we are teens it happens all the time as our bodies are still growing where as now I am pretty much as fully grown as I will get I assume so it happens less frequently as there isn't as much testosterone production in our bodies.

Of course I don't know the exact science and all that mumbo jumbo so I may not be right.

But I think that is why we got so many hard on's when we were teens as our bodies were producing alot of testosterone to make our bodies grow.

Well, either way you don't need porn as you have a girl to take care of you as I have one too.

But porn is good for when they are away.

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07-04-2005, 04:20 AM	#22
Grimmlock whore Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: California Posts: 41/0.03 Threads: 2 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. Maybe your getting distracted.

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07-05-2005, 06:20 PM	#23
Maelindar whore Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: US Posts: 135/0.10 Threads: 0 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. I agree with most of what has been said above. The masturbation can be a huge factor, as it can get you addicted to a LOT of friction and though there is no comparison between masturbation and sex, you can definitely deaden how sensitive you are. For a long time I actually had a similar problem, and found that it was actually tied to ADD. I know it sounds wierd, but I was simply too easily distracted by other things/sensations, and if I dragged it out for too long, I had a hard time keeping my focus. On the bonus side, I would only lose my erection for maybe 15 - 30 seconds and was generally ready to go again, but thoguht I would throw it out there just in case it helped.

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07-06-2005, 10:21 PM	#24
99rollaguy whore Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: DR,ME Posts: 193/0.10 Threads: 4 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. funny you mention ADD, as I had that as a kid. I'm pretty sure it's the condom doing me in, though..after a while, it ends up getitn like tight and pushed down far on me. so maybe I'll try some lube or something to keep that from happening. she mentioned it feels like she dries up a bit when it happens, so that's probably part of it. and I don't know why she keeps stopping herself from having an orgasm..ugh.

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07-09-2005, 09:35 PM

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Re: Going limp after a while..

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Originally Posted by 99rollaguy

maybe I should just not masterbate for this whole next week..think that'd do any good..

Just wanted to add, I find that when you don't

for a while you will end up cumming like no tommorow in the event that you eventually either have sex or masturbate. I find you'll be too eager to cum then resulting in early ejaculation which will suck for you. Try and last as long as possible during masturbation and it will help you with your sex plus, make it a more pleasureable experience for both you and her. Good luck.

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07-14-2005, 12:05 AM	#26
KOORE33 whore Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: houston Posts: 442/0.33 Threads: 6 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. i had this same problem. here's what i did. Instead of just getting it up and then thrusting away, we would play and keep me/us turned on for a half hr-hr before hand (but no sex). Then when the time came, i stayed hard the entire time, and it didnt feel like it was becoming a burden after a while. i agree that nothing ruins a good sex episode, like too much sweat (try having sex in an un-AC'd apartment in the humid east coast during the summer.

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07-17-2005, 11:11 AM	#27
spikecider whore Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: VIRGINIA Posts: 387/0.31 Threads: 0 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. i was having sex with this really hot chick and i had never had any problems previously and she was just really really loud and it distracted me and i lost in it seconds.

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08-06-2005, 12:36 AM

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Re: Going limp after a while..

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Originally Posted by TheMooninites

So you get bored at porn now, why?

I mean I have watched a good amount of porn and porn still does it for me as long as I don't watch the same stuff over and over.

Ooo you beat it fast, yup that's a big

if you don't wanna be a one minute man.

But as you can condition your winky to cum fast with

it fast you can also condition it to take awhile to cum if you

right.

So maybe you should try to over time keep yourself as hard as possible for as long as possible when

. That should help in staying hard as well as not being a one minute man when you slide into one of your girls many yummy holes.

As for her not turning you on, how does she not do that?

Does she not moan or is she very basic in bed like nothing fun just missionary position or something.

Also you do find her hot right?
Just had to make sure you know because after all your winky ain't gonna want to be hard if it don't like her.

Hey your welcome, anytime I can help my fellow man get it on a lil longer and better I am happy to help.

If you got any other questions related to this subject you wanna ask go right ahead and I'll help you as much as I can with my experience and knowledge.

Is this true TheMooninites if you

it fast and make yourself come fast it will condition yourself to be a one min man? Where as if you do it steady it will help you last longer?

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08-07-2005, 05:54 AM	#29
WEme whore Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: SDCA Posts: 99/0.08 Threads: 1 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. I feel age only has a little bit to do with how many times you have sex i mean if your still turned on you will be able to keep going. Yeah i say take a week off or something, it sounds like your just bored with the same ol' thing, If your still having this problem take a whole month off.

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08-08-2005, 01:51 AM	#30
legacy_gt whore Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: texas Posts: 25/0.02 Threads: 0 Friends Network	Re: Going limp after a while.. your stressed and she's guilty.

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