99rollaguy

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Alright, if I stop myself, multiple times, from cumming during sex, I find that I sometimes go limp after about 20min or so. Then I'll slap on a new condom and find it sometimes hard to get it up again. I'm only 19, so I shouldn't be having old man problems yet.. I also have been falling flacid during masturbation, at times. Could I not be horny enough or something? Should I do kegel exercises or something? This is annoying, cuz I'd be able to go longer if I wouldn't go limp.

side note: the new thread button was hard to find for some reason.

Juan.©amaney

It depends on how into it you were, your confort level, the frequency of masturbation, and your diet...a few other things as well...

If you are healthy, eat right, and were into it...you might be choking it too much.

Are you in any type of excercise program, taking pills, supliments, or got bored of the same porn?

Only time its happened to me was during sex when it was like 100 degrees and I was sweating way too much and forgot to turn the fan on. I was sweating all over the girl and some got into my eye (sweat) and it burned...so it killed the mood.

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TheMooninites

So I guess getting hot and sweaty with a girl might not be the best.

Well, as for your problem do you constantly stroke it/thrust it or do you stroke/thrust then stop a lil and continue and so on.

So do you just watch the same porn as watching the same shit no matter how hot it is overtime will do less and less for you.

If you get on the peak of cumming a bunch of times then you go a bit too hard on your winky and should pace yourself a bit better which will make your cock more used to keeping the hard state longer on average. But if you go slow alot then all of a sudden fast then it will get confused and go soft.

Now of course when doing a girl there are times you just have to go to town on her tight lil holes after a nice pace but make sure you make ur pace is nice and even mostly.

Also how long on a average do you last before you blow whether you are it or .
Because if you a lil fast, when you your cock due to simply being conditioned to going limp quick will go limp out of nowhere even if the girl in smoking hot and has the tightest yummiest holes.

Well, if you answer some of the stuff I asked I may be able to better help you and your winky problems out.

Because us guys gotta help each other out especially when it comes to going limp.

99rollaguy

I usually don't beat it more than twice a day, which is probably more than I should already. I'm gonna ease off doing that for a while, and just build stamina by having sex, instead of preparing myself. I'm pretty healthy, and I do get bored with porn now. I tend to mix up the pace, depth, motion, all that jazz. When I feel like I'm about to go, I'll slow down A LOT or even stop, if I'm that close. When I beat it, I just try to make it fast, which is bad, I know, cuz I'm conditioning myself to go fast. I'm gonna start taking vitamins again, it wouldn't hurt for overall health, anyway. Also, part of it is that she doesn't really get into it very much, which isn't really a turn-off, but it's definitely not a turn on. This sucks, cuz guys my age should be able to have a go right after they finish. Thanks for all the help guys. Rep to the both of you. And thanks in advance to any more help/discussion.

TheMooninites

So you get bored at porn now, why?

I mean I have watched a good amount of porn and porn still does it for me as long as I don't watch the same stuff over and over.


Ooo you beat it fast, yup that's a big if you don't wanna be a one minute man.

But as you can condition your winky to cum fast with it fast you can also condition it to take awhile to cum if you right.

So maybe you should try to over time keep yourself as hard as possible for as long as possible when . That should help in staying hard as well as not being a one minute man when you slide into one of your girls many yummy holes.

As for her not turning you on, how does she not do that?

Does she not moan or is she very basic in bed like nothing fun just missionary position or something.

Also you do find her hot right?
Just had to make sure you know because after all your winky ain't gonna want to be hard if it don't like her.


Hey your welcome, anytime I can help my fellow man get it on a lil longer and better I am happy to help.

If you got any other questions related to this subject you wanna ask go right ahead and I'll help you as much as I can with my experience and knowledge.

throatyogurt

find someone that is into it. it makes a world of diff IMO.

i've had 'em who couldn't get enough and those that couldn't stand it. much easier when you are w/ someone that is a little more willing.

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CD

Guys can do kegel exercises? That I did not know.

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TheMooninites

I think he has those confused with the exercise's guy's can do to make there members have more power.

Sorda like kegal's as we use are muscles down there to make are sex organs better.

PirateOZanzabar

well guys doing kegal exercises doens't have nething to do with getting it up, its all about not cumming and just having the orgasm. tho i don't really know how that all works....

Juan.©amaney

You might want to take a look at the rules and not be making stupid smart ass remarks like that.

You have no clue how much I sweat.

BTW, that was your warning, another slip and you get a 1 day ban. Capiche?

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99rollaguy

I dunno, it seems like my sex drive has taken a hit. I don't get as much sleep as I used to, so that could be a problem. She does turn me on, I think this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but if she were to make more noise or something, I'm sure it'd help. And it's pretty much just missionary..I find the problem is when I want her to switch positions, cuz I get physically tired after pumping for a good 20min. I want her to get on top, but she doesn't want to cuz she says she doesn't know how to do it or something. She's also never had an orgasm before, she stops me or stops herself from thinking about how good it feels when she gets close. She doesn't know how she'll act or anything. I told her to masterbate, but she thinks it's gross, so I dunno. I don't know what they call it when you workout your PC muscle, so I just called it kegel exercises. Thanks

TheMooninites

Ya that could effect it a bit so try to get a lil more sleep from now on.


Well, it seems your girl has a whole bunch of problems.

She seems scared of her sexuality a bit as she doesn't want to have an orgasm.
If she was to get on top of you she would feel much better when having sex and probably orgasm.

Does she let you finger/eat her?

Because if she does I recommend trying to get her to cum as best as possible and if she tries to stop you keep doing it until she does cum. Once she cums for the first time and feels so good she will want to cum all the time and be more open to riding you, masturbating and so on to get herself there.

As for her not making noise really, that stems from the same problem as she may feel it dirty to express how much she likes sex.

It seems all her problems are mental and not physical.
I think once she has her first orgasm it will be all good from there.

Well, I hope anything I said helped you and her out.

If there is anything else you like to ask for help with related to this subject I'll be sure to help you as much as possible.

99rollaguy

I both finger her and eat her out. She physically stops me before she has one. I've told her how good it's gonna feel but she's more worried about how she's gonna react to it, convulsions(like cytheria) or something. When she gets back from her vacation, hopefully she'll want to since it's been a while. Another week until she gets back..
Thanks

TheMooninites

Well, good to see she isn't as sexually scared as I thought.

So what does she do to stop you?
Does she just say stop straight out or pushes you away to give you the hint.

Well, her first orgasm may possibly be very good as she has never had one but nothing like Cytheria.

Now if she starts to like it and you start messing with vibrators and so fourth she may start to experience more mind blowing orgasm's that effect her body like that.


Your welcome, a week huh.
That could be enough time to condition your winky to do what you like it to do. So maybe you will have a nice surprise for her when she gets back.

As for her cumming anytime soon, since she pushes you away or whatever you may wanna suggest handcuffs to her.

Now what does handcuffs have to do with anything you ask, simply use them to make sure she can't push you away. You can take it a step further and tie her legs down and apart so she can't try to close them to get you to stop.

This will make is so she can't stop her orgasm from happening and she will be able to experience it.

Now you don't have to use handcuffs, silk scarfs do the trick too plus they don't usually leave marks as she may struggle a bit when she is cumming.

Ask her if she like to do this, if so then she will cum.
If she don't wanna then you will have to wait until she is more open to having a orgasm which could be a long time.