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07-22-2004, 03:50 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: UK
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Re: g/f cant cum
Talk to her about it. Ask her what she likes. What are her fantasies ?
If she's agreeable, try various vibrators.
Then:
1) Forget about your pleasure. Don't pressure her, but make it clear that you are thinking of her.
2) Romantic evening
3) Gentle massage
4) Gentle rotating finger just above the clit. Use jelly.
5) Use her favorite vibrator, rotating it just above the clit.
6) If this doesn't work !!! - With her on her back, push your cock in, while using the vibrator.
The only other thing I can think of is using her fantasies. Females often prefer to think about the situation than looking at pics !?
So talking about them while doing all of the above !
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07-22-2004, 06:31 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: cali
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Re: g/f cant cum
My gf has informed me when the subject arose that it is important that I find a rhythm and stick with it. (We're talking oral stimulation here.) Literally keep doing the same thing over and over and over til it happens--no variation.
I don't know if this is unique to her or if this is good general advice.
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07-29-2004, 08:33 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: Louisiana
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Re: g/f cant cum
trade her in...
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07-29-2004, 11:57 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: NYC
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Re: g/f cant cum
make her squirt, she will be putty in your hands
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07-30-2004, 12:16 AM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: Utah
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Re: g/f cant cum
I must be lucky I suppose, I can get me wife to cum at least 3-4 times when we have sex. I doubt it is a position but more of parts just fitting together well & being able to hit that G-spot. in that sense penis size & shape make a difference
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07-30-2004, 01:51 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Karachi, Pakistan
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Re: g/f cant cum
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Originally Posted by OrdinaryGirl
*raises her hand in agreement* (I hate long foreplay...let's get to it!)
As to the original question, some very valid points have been raised. Has she ever achieved orgasm before, either alone or with a vibrator or another person?
I am so so lucky that I am the type of girl that if you just look at me the right way, I'll orgasm. But I have listened to my friends talk and it seems to be one of two things: either it requires a very particular physical position to achieve orgasm and experimentation is the order of the day, or it is all in their heads.
If it is psychological, the more stress you put on her, or she puts on herself, the more unlikely it will be that she will be able to. Talking about it at a nonsexual time is your best bet. Find out if she links any negative feelings to sex, find out her fantasy...what is her biggest imagined turn on....act it out or at least have her imagine it while you are stimulating her....ask her to show you how she pleases herself...what feels good, what doesn't....having someone watch us masturbate can be incredibly erotic for both people involved...communication will be your biggest ally here.
Good luck.
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very good advise
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07-31-2004, 02:06 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
every girl can cum
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07-31-2004, 05:55 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2003
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Re: g/f cant cum
she is not comfortable yet, get her to give herself one in front of you
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07-31-2004, 10:45 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: florida
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Re: g/f cant cum
she gotta do herself first
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07-31-2004, 11:15 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
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Originally Posted by jwhairybob
so what is in the female cum?....like what's it made of......definately different than a dude's
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Actually, it's the same as male cum, minus the sperm.
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07-31-2004, 11:42 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: florida
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Re: g/f cant cum
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Originally Posted by idontknow
98 percent of women cannot cum by sex, how ever almost all women can cum by oral stimulation.
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Where's this stat from? 98 percent don't cum from sex... whatever...

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08-01-2004, 12:08 AM
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Re: g/f cant cum
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Originally Posted by dante2
Where's this stat from? 98 percent don't cum from sex... whatever...

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50% of women I've encountered could orgasm via sex, and I don't want to hear anything about faking it :P
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08-01-2004, 01:27 AM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: South America
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Re: g/f cant cum
work the touching
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08-01-2004, 01:42 AM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: all over
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Re: g/f cant cum
do the one finger inside her making a "come here" motion, works every time
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08-01-2004, 10:45 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
from behind on the side, slip your hand down there and play with it while slammin, never fails
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