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i hate not being able to get my girl off....sex wont work but everything else will

TheAmazingWilso

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i think that the best way is to lick her in the form of a story....just think it and then do it, it's very simple

Ripper10o

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msujsu

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An hour huh. I hate to tell you but if it was straight sex for an hour and nothing it wasn't going to happen no matter how long you did it.

I always found girl on top -- me also rubbing her clit worked well. Another thing is me eating her with the bridge of my nose hard against her pelvic bone. It seems the harder I press the nose down the more she likes it. One word of advice that I haven't seen yet. when you are eating her out focus on the clit and just above. from what I have heard there are a lot of guys that think that oral sex just involves sticking your tongue in and out of the hole. That doesn't get it done.
One other thing if she is up for it. A finger in her ass might do wonders. It might take her focus off of the fact that she hasn't been able to cum.

IrishSmiles

if its not psychological, then try a few of these because they, umm, work very well for me

don't lick her clit before shes really turned on, lick above and if its stiff move it side to side - little circles also feels pretty intense

one shes wet slip a finger or two into her luv-tunnel while licking her clit

when shes turned on, gently suck on her clit while rubbing it with your tongue

as for sex, as the other gals said, on top usually works best because she can control the speed, depth and where the tip of your cock will rub her - she can also rub her clit at the same time, but it usually feels better when someone else does it for me ;-)

oh, and have fun, don't make sex work!!!

pjlions06

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Like some of the other ones above have stated try oral fixation seems to wrk the best for me. You could try using a vibrator while eatin her pussy. If that doesnt work then it might really be here.

jessicaq

Ok, no BS answer:

1) Have her on top, i.e., you on your back. She can control where it feels best.
2) Moan
3) Rub her nipple gently

That's what works on me. :-) But, every woman is different. You should find out what her fantasy is and go with it. Imagination helps me along to an orgasm.

Hope that helps.

T-Rex

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1.-lots and lots of 4 play, 2.- eat her for a long time, 3.- put her on top, siting donw on you're dick, and ride you like a ponny...!!!

jessicaq

And most of you lurkers out there... I think your woman is faking it for you, because the whole foreplay to an orgasm or "eat her for a long time" is not as exciting as being on a firm hard penis. I'm sure the other ladies will back me up on this.

bootykilla

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my gf was the same way, the position mentioned above, with her on top controlling the speed is the only way she will cum

rudyg

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Try this, put a pillow underneath her ass. To where she is at a decline. Then when you enter kind of aim up so that your penis is hitting her "g" spot and rubbing the clitoris at the same time.

sonrisa10201

i agree with you! that does the trick!

OrdinaryGirl

*raises her hand in agreement* (I hate long foreplay...let's get to it!)

As to the original question, some very valid points have been raised. Has she ever achieved orgasm before, either alone or with a vibrator or another person?

I am so so lucky that I am the type of girl that if you just look at me the right way, I'll orgasm. But I have listened to my friends talk and it seems to be one of two things: either it requires a very particular physical position to achieve orgasm and experimentation is the order of the day, or it is all in their heads.

If it is psychological, the more stress you put on her, or she puts on herself, the more unlikely it will be that she will be able to. Talking about it at a nonsexual time is your best bet. Find out if she links any negative feelings to sex, find out her fantasy...what is her biggest imagined turn on....act it out or at least have her imagine it while you are stimulating her....ask her to show you how she pleases herself...what feels good, what doesn't....having someone watch us masturbate can be incredibly erotic for both people involved...communication will be your biggest ally here.

Good luck.

luke350z

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Oral should do it. But don't let her know, that you are trying too hard. Take your time.