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05-13-2004, 10:25 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
MAke her relaxed and let her know she wont be peeing, because that's what I heard it feels like, and whenever they feel that sensation, then stop.
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05-13-2004, 10:30 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
(I listen to sex line a bit)
well according to Dr Drew most women can't cum before around the age of 20, I'm not sure the reason but it just is. look it up  h
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05-14-2004, 03:03 AM
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Re: g/f cant cum
get her started with your mouth, then it's easy
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05-14-2004, 04:58 AM
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Re: g/f cant cum
I am in the same situation - been with my gf for 3 years and she has not cum - never had any problems before - made all my ex gf's cum during sex.
She has says she has never cum, with anyone or when she is by herself - but we are continuing to try
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05-14-2004, 05:02 AM
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Re: g/f cant cum
My current girl loves it on top - she can't get enough of it. Also, if she's comfortable with it, try either you or her rubbing her clit while you're banging her, this works its magic in about 25-40 seconds for her. Hope that helps.
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05-14-2004, 05:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Esco
More than likely it's a pschological issue, than a physical issue. First thing to do is to get her completely to relax with you. Give her a good full body massage along with some nice foreplay. Do not attack the tender parts just yet. Incorporate the foreplay,after a while, with the massage so that she's relaxed and warming up.
For most women, the woman on top position works the best for stimulation. If you're big like me  , it allows her to control the depth of penetration. Remember, the sensitive parts for women are on the outside and the first few inches of the vagina. The deep stuff rarely hits the right spot. The other bonus of having her on top is that it allows her to stimulate her clitoris on your pubic bone. This is what might set her off, considering she has worked out the psychological issues. If that doesn't work, I'd suggest cunnilingus. I've yet to meet a woman who was unable to cum that way.
Take a nice long shower together, some wine and candles, Miles Davis in the background, and you're complete and utter attention to pleasing her should do the trick. Best of luck.
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I just want to back this post up... it is one of the more appropriate and accurate posts that I have seen in this thread. Her being on top does allow her more control and, often, more stimulation by default. But... I would say that in the end one of the things that will make the most difference is her being comfortable.
That said, it is true that some women cannot achieve orgasm without manual or oral stimulation... so the questions that others have asked in that regard are worthwhile. In other words, has she ever had an orgasm by any means?
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05-14-2004, 05:16 AM
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Originally Posted by idontknow
98 percent of women cannot cum by sex, how ever almost all women can cum by oral stimulation.
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Where the hell did you get that figure? Every woman I have ever slept with has had an orgasm from sex, several of them wouldn’t even let me try oral sex, which happens to be one of my favorite things to do.
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05-14-2004, 07:10 AM
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Re: g/f cant cum
I find that oral foreplay leading into great sex and then oral finishing works best. She has the best, longest and most intense orgasms this way, much more so than any other method we've tried.
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05-14-2004, 12:56 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
some girls are impossible. sucks when that happens.
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05-14-2004, 01:15 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
a pinky up the 3 hole usually does the trick
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05-14-2004, 01:26 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
I read somewhere that 33% of women have orgasms every time, 33% have them less than half of the time, and 33% never have them.
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05-14-2004, 05:07 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
Lots and lots of foreplay will help you out. Take it slow too, tease her, it only makes it better for them in the end.
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05-14-2004, 09:05 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
watch her take care of herself and take notes! It's like a game. Just listen to her responses, and keep doing what sounds good.
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05-15-2004, 12:31 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
i suggest you refer her to me.
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05-15-2004, 03:42 PM
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Re: g/f cant cum
tease tease tease tease, she cant know when its coming... keep her on the edge and she'll start begging you
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