i2idiniow

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what's the best position, things i or my g/f can do to make her cum. She just cant do it. We'll be at it for over an hour and she still cant cum.


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Coopy

It's usually a psychological problem, not a position problem.

i2idiniow

how important is it that the girl squeeze her muscle down there? ladies advise?

idontknow

98 percent of women cannot cum by sex, how ever almost all women can cum by oral stimulation. that is your best bet. there is a small percentage that cannot cum at all. this is normally due to some kind of tramua ealry on in there life.

mine can cum on her own, but not with me. i do everything imaginable and still no cumming. working on some new stuff though

robul

try toys vibrating ones lick the click while holding the toy above the clit play with the clit alot make her squirm stay focused tell her imagine things that make her hot and good luck..

michaeljohn

My advice is similar to those above. don't worry about yourself, stimulate her. Keep at it, you will succeed. Then, you can resume your regular duties, and she will be more than ready.

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jace319

Try some and before you go
a lot of girls can't cum because they lacked the foreplay beforehand.
You could also try vibrators...my gf was scared shitless about putting one near herself...but she's hooked on the Pocket Rocket now :rock:

thewalrus

Download 20 Fingers song 'Lick it' from Kazaa, that's all you need.

bhplv1

Listen to "Fuck Her Gently" by Tenecious D and take notes.

= NO NO

= Yes Yes

jamaster

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I agree with Coopy....according to the sex doc....its mostly psychological.....she may have been raised to think its dirty.....you gotta get her to realize it'll all be worth it

IllusionalTA

Yea more of a psychological thing.... I have only been w/ one girl who was able to just come during sex.. other's needed other stimulation..

stud43

you just have to make sure she is really in the mood first. if she goes into it trying to cum, she probably wont. just let things run their course and make sure you stimulate the clit a lot! and lots of lube helps

bavanandel

Make her feel comfortable, don't concentrate on the cumming.
My ex-girlfriend used to cum easily (or I was just a pro, hehheh), but if she wasn't in the mood, nothing would happen.

falstaff

She won't cum if she's not relaxed. Make sure she's completely comfortable with the situation and you as well. As someone earlier said oral stimulation normally works better. A good position to try is you laying down on your back and she riding on top of you facing towards you. Her clitoris should rub along where you're pubes are. It's worked well with my partner and she likes it as she's in control of the speed and how far my penis goes in - they like that!