spaceniggah

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Hi.

I have been a real lurker as you like to name us that are here mainly because the pics. But now i have started reading some realy intresting posts on other subjects. Thats why I decided to ask you guys something.

I have a girlfriend who I have been together with for more then ½ year. We are both the same age and I have a big problem. When I think about the guys she has been with before me it makes me sick. I really dont like to know when and who she has been with cause it makes me sad /sick.

But I am still so curios that I just have to ask her these things, and I have. Thing is that she has had short relationships when she traveled around for a year. But when we met she wanted to wait with the sex part for a few months and I was ok with that. The thing that bothers me is that she didnt wait with the other guys, she just went to sack with them a few times and so on. And she has been with around ten people and that to makes me sick.

I am no angel either and have had eight partners and not all of them were serios ofcourse. I just need some advice on how to forget or understand this because I just keep thinking of it at wery bad times.

Anyone else with the same problem ?

Thanks in advance

Indigenous

I feel ya. I've had the same problem with some past gf's.

The only advice I can offer is to just wait it out. Eventually those feelings seem to go away with time.

PenisRodriguez

Is it a sick feeling, or an insecure feeling? Like she'll dump you at a moments notice for the next guy type of thing??

Trust me mang, most guys feel that way.

spaceniggah

Well its more a sick feeling, not an insecure feeling.

I seriously thinks she loves me and I´m not worried that I will be dumped anytime soon.

thanks for your thoughts

typorite

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Is it because you're jealous of the guys she's had before? Those guys have had sex with your girlfriend, but have now moved onto other girls. They've "experienced" her, and now they're getting more "experience".

Just remember that the past is the past, and what you have now is what counts.

HIJACKER

The fact that she wanted to wait shows that she cared and was trying to go about it the right way. For example.. you know how if you meet someone and you really have a good feeling about them, you tend to take things more serious.. and your patient? Well... she was doing the same thing to you.

Some people out there don't exactly have a decent past and there will be things about it you dont like. You just have to realize that whats in the past, is in the past. You've chose to accept her for who she has, and everything that she is. Let it go and focus on what you have now. It sounds like to me you have a pretty decent girlfriend that liked you a lot from day 1. Stick with her and don't sweat it. Cool??

Now.. stop worrying about it and start posting some porn!!!

spaceniggah

Ok, thanks guys guess I just have to let it go.

Well se how that goes.

Hijacker, I will post some nice porn for you but where =)

NJFunGuy

Just dont even worry about it. What do you care how many people. She is yours now

buddyholly

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she probably truly likes you

HIJACKER

Well, make some more useful posts in other forums, or reply to get your count up to ATLEAST 10, and you will be able to post them. It's really not hard to do.. I usually have ATLEAST 6 posts per day and I only spend about 10 mins on this board at night.

BackdoorJesus

that's the best advice in the thread!

ricocard

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dude, get over it! Stop living in the past, and stop asking her about previous guys.

Rico

bohica mike

Alright, let me throw my 2 cents in..........first thing, if you can't handle the answers she gives you, don't ask the questions. Simple as that. Second, if you do ask, then belly up to the bar and take it like a man...you wanted to know. Also, like other people have said, it's in the past. I've done stupid shit in my past, mostly when I was a stupid young dumbshit, and as I got older, I calmed down quite a bit. People are gonna have a past, you can't help it. It should make you feel better, though, that she wanted to wait to have sex with you. That shows that she sees you as more than just some dude with a hard-on. It shows that she's trying to do this the right way. But don't concentrate so hard on the past, the present and the future is hard enough to handle as it is. You can't change the past, but you can make the future. So, like I said, don't ask if you don't want to know, and if you do ask, then be a man about it and take it on the chin.

vdawg