Prince_Albert

We all want to know we are the best are parters have had. Truth is you probably aren't. For me it was the size of the other guy, maybe because of my own insucurities with my weewee size.

xxl24m

I never ask..I specifically told my gf I didn't want to know.

thetigertail

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girls suck

miyamoto

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She probably thinks more of her relationship with you. Maybe she knows she based the others on something that wouldn't last, ie, sex. Stick with it. The feelings will subside, and try not to blast her about it. As you said, you have a past too.

MyParentsMistak

Bang her for each guy she has been with, then burn something? Like a sacrafice or something?

In all honesty, bugs me to if I think about my gf's previous relationships. I just dont think about it, and after awhile the thoughts just go away...until one day you're reading a post on webrats, reminding you of the pain you've been through... :P

Battleship

double standard don't you think.

gliscameria

Dude, you shouldn't have even asked. Not knowing bothers you, but knowing sucks much more. I prefer to create the fantasy bubble and reinforce it with bullshit occasionally. =)

Don't try to dilute it by thinking that she didn't have feeling for these poeple, or even that what she feels for you is better in every aspect than any of these other guys.

Time only exists right now, and that's all that matters. The past had its chance, and the future will get its own. Let the future influence your actions, not the past.

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What she did before you isn't your business. It's rather hypocritical to judge her for 10 when you've been with 8. I look at the numbers thing like this, if you think your girl is somehow used and abused cause she did 10 guys and most or some were random, think about the girl who dates 1 guy for 3 years. She is getting turned out everyday and usually would have done some CRAZIER shit with them. Your girls done 10 guys and may have only had regular sex and maybe less than 100-200 times. I dated a girl for 3 years and wore her ass out. I mean anal, pictures, dress up, in public places, just tons of stuff. Now guys have this mentality that girls that have done more guys are used up. Think about it, the girls from long relationships are the ones that have done the shit you wished your girl never did!!!!

heff82

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I've had those feelings before...It sucks, but it does get better...like most have said, the past is the past...you've got her now.

skyler

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its definately tough, if u love her u have to wait

rudyg

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I think it means that she cared about you enough to want to wait. Either that or you had to grow on her. Meaning she liked your personality and needed to be sexually attracted to you also.

Daddys_Girl

I had an ex like that...made life hell...I mean hell...don't ask...if it bothers you so much....and the fact that she made you wait meant that she REALLY cared about you...accept the fact that she had a life just the same as you...I don't know how to make those feelings go away except that she is with you now...she obviously cares enough to stick around this long...take the good and quit torturing yourself...you will only ruin it all.

my opinion only

vwvr7vw

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I know what you mean. I usually don't even want to know who or how many.

blackpearl

Do what I do and try to contantly fool yourself into believing she was a chaste virgin when you met, and no matter how bad you want to, never ask about priors again...Ignorance is bliss...