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05-03-2004, 02:42 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: canada
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
It's hard to get over it, especially when it becomes a vicious cycle of thinking about your girl's past over and over again. One good thing to do is to replace those thoughts and think more actively in the present, so that way it'll fill in those blanks - think of good times the two of you have had recently, for example. There are ways to bring this up in conversation with her if you do feel really sick, but you should try to deal with it on your own first, otherwise she might be a little scared of this. But I don't know your exact situation. Good luck.
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05-03-2004, 03:40 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: germany
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
would not like to think where these boyfriends dicks have been, and where you want to come 
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05-03-2004, 04:03 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: CLEVELAND
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
It's Really Not Your Business Who She Was With Before You. You Did Not Know Her! You Need To Get Over It!
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05-03-2004, 11:32 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: mi
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
Just try not to think about it. You'll get over it. I was almost in the same situation. It doesn't bother me as much anymore. Just think about yourself and don't be a hypocrite.
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05-04-2004, 02:09 AM
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Not all ninjas wear masks
Join Date: May 2004
Location: in hell
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
My two cents: its in the past, and she has chosen to be with you now. That should be enough to outweigh anything she has done before. If you continue to dwell in the past, you could potentially destroy something that could be very meaningful in your life. By wanting to wait before having sex with you, that means that in her mind she wants the sex with you to be special and more meaningful. Much more than any fling she has had before. With you she wants it to be real, so embrace that.
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05-04-2004, 02:41 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: PL
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
i don't now!
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05-04-2004, 05:59 AM
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
Yeah, what you said of your own history sounds like you have no right to criticize...
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05-04-2004, 07:10 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: UK
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
You just gotta deal with it, there's nothing else to it. She made you wait because she wanted it to be special with you, and the whole thing is about your insecurities and not her. At all.
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05-04-2004, 01:00 PM
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
Try not to think about, every girl you meet is going to have had other partners.
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05-04-2004, 03:36 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: cali
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
Yea, i'd say im going throught the exact same thing, it's tough but i'm just trying to forget. That is the only thing I can recommend, and it seems to be workin
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05-04-2004, 03:36 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: cali
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
So far...
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05-04-2004, 08:14 PM
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Yeah, it's like that
Join Date: Jan 2004
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
How about this spin.... she made you wait because she was still boinkin' at least one of them and was playin' you for a chump. Once that tie was cut, she was free to settle in for given up the poon to you!
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05-05-2004, 04:47 PM
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whore
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Sweden
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
Thanks lugsdf I feel with you .
Thanks for the nice advice all you other people too. Except some of you with less positive thinking .....
IŽm trying my best to just let it go to, weŽll se how that goes hopfully it will work just fine.,
Bye for now
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05-07-2004, 02:54 AM
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
If you never worry about their feelings youll never get hurt.
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05-07-2004, 12:08 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: UK
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Re: Relation problem, partners before me
I don't know a bloke who hasn't felt that at some time or other. That's where the biggest part of a relationship comes into play - trust. I'm at the stage with my current GF (1.5 yrs) where we can talk about our former partners and not get jealous and actually find it quite therapeutic and makes your ralationship a little stronger
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