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04-19-2004, 11:17 AM
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need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
hey guys, i was hoping some of u can give me tips on talking to women, complements to say to them, and what kind of moves should i make and when? many people say that if u read there body language says a lot, well how do i read it? what should i look for? sometimes i just get vstuck w/ women and i need to get over that. i know i can get more girls just need a lil help. thanks!!!!!
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04-19-2004, 11:31 AM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
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Originally Posted by DaPlayBoy
hey guys, i was hoping some of u can give me tips on talking to women, complements to say to them, and what kind of moves should i make and when? many people say that if u read there body language says a lot, well how do i read it? what should i look for? sometimes i just get vstuck w/ women and i need to get over that. i know i can get more girls just need a lil help. thanks!!!!!
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well.. I don't really know how to explain it.. I just know how to do it. It is all with their body language, expressions, and how they move their eyes. The best suggestion i can give you is, don't over-do it. Don't CONSTANTLY compliment and smuther them. Your best bet is drop a few suttle hints, then kinda lay back and be the hard to get type. Girls like a challenge, and they REALLY like going for things they think they can't have.
Sometimes being really blunt and upfront is a good way to start with a complete stranger. For example.. my favorite is.. at the mall, you see some girl working at the jewelry store, or wherever that is just gorgeous. Walk up to her and ask her for a business card. She'll hand one to you.. and prolly walk over to ask someone if they need help or whatever.. in that time.. on the back of the card, write down your name and cell phone number (where she can read the shit). Then say to her.. "Look.. I know you don't know me from anyone else.. but.. I just saw you as I was passing by.. and I couldn't walk off without saying something at all. I'm just hoping you would gimme a call and give me a chance to get know you. Atleast I could treat you out to lunch or dinner and get a chance to see you smile.. ok? Talk to you later!"
If you ever get the number from someone (which is better), wait atleast 2-3 days before calling.
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04-19-2004, 11:52 AM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
Good advice.
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04-19-2004, 05:51 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
well said Hijacker
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04-19-2004, 08:12 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
what might work for one person will not work for another. i have a best friend and me and him are totally oposite. he is a pretty preppy boy with looks and a nice ride. girls go for him cause of the way he looks.
now me on the other hand, i am a layed back type of person who doesn't give a shit. i am up front with everthing and if i like a girl i will go for her. i have a nice ride and dress nice. i don't get as many girls as my buddy cause my looks are not like his. i have a better personality then he does though.
he normally gets the hot ass chick that you stare at in the mall, i go for the average girl that has something to offer me. his "adventures" last a whole week or so, mine normally last a month or longer and i am still friends with each and every one. he is not friends with any of the girls he used to talked to, they infact hate his guts.
my advice to you is, don't be afraid of rejection. go for every girl you want and don't let nothing hold you back. you will be amazed on what girls go fo.
just show confidence with a little cocky attitude, that is what works for me....girls love confidence.
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04-27-2004, 04:13 AM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
yes its true girls love confidence,
U gotta think to ur self that ur better than them, Dont think negative, or u juss fucked urself 
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04-28-2004, 04:12 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
Yeah, confidence is definitely a plus. I know some heavy set guys that you wouldn't think would get the hot girl. But because they dress nice and are confident they get them. But don't mistake confidence for cockiness.
Be yourself, be nice, a good sense of humor is good and just talk to them. It's like anything else, the more practice you get the better. Then you'll find out what does and doesn't work for you.
Rejection sucks but it's going to happen. Just move on to another girl and work your magic. Good luck man!
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04-28-2004, 04:26 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
Im A Women. So I Am Gonna Give You Advice. Number 1. Don't Use A Line On A Women Ever! Body Language Does Say Alot! If I Women Touches You Alot While She Is Talking To You, She Is Interested. If You Catch Her Looking At You Alot, She Is Interested. If A Woman Keeps Eyeing You Up But Doesn't Approach You, Approach Her. That Is What She Wants. She Is Probably Too Shy And Sometimes We Feel That A Guy Will Shoot Us Down. Just Be Yourself. You Will Know If A Women Is Not Interested Right Away. If Your Out At A Bar And You Try To Talk To A Girl And She Turns Toward Her Friends And Starts Conversing With Them While Your Standing There, Make An Exit. Be Yourself! Impress A Girl With The Real You. No Lines Or Being Fake! Would You Want A Girl To Use A Line Or Not Be Herself When You First Meet Her? Than You Find Out Later She Is Someone You Really Do Not Like? There Is Someone Out There For Everyone, You Will Find Her In Time Being The Real You!
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04-28-2004, 04:35 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
Great advive from DJSAD! When I have female related problems I talk to my female friends so I can get the "other side's" point of view.
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04-28-2004, 11:25 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
Don't forget to look for the "rings" first...
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04-29-2004, 07:11 AM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
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Originally Posted by synerGy
Don't forget to look for the "rings" first...
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or red dots depending on your ethnic preference... 
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04-29-2004, 03:54 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
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Originally Posted by synerGy
Don't forget to look for the "rings" first...
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ive already made that mistake, hehe but she was cool so it was all good.
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04-29-2004, 08:36 PM
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Yeah, it's like that
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
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Originally Posted by synerGy
Don't forget to look for the "rings" first...
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What fer??? Rings don't plug holes....
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05-01-2004, 08:55 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
Great advice djsad
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05-01-2004, 09:52 PM
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Re: need some advice from the fellas!!!!!
great advice DJSAD
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