hollywood

just be genuine...yourself, no need to try and impress them with bs

just be yourself and it will come

techsville

Just be yerself and let it flow....

Bacchus

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Some notes on body language (instead of ppl just saying it means a lot, here are some things to look for)

- Eye contact - when a person is not interested in talking to you, they will look away. If they are listening to what you are saying and are interested in talking to you, they will be making eye contact.

-Arms - folded arms are a symbol of someone who is closed up. They are less willing to open up and talk to you. When a person's arms are by their sides or elsewhere, this is a more open posture that invites conversation.

-Shoulders - when squared away at a person, they are engaged in the conversation. When their shoulders are no longer squared away with the other person, they are trying to break away from the conversation.

-Distance - 6' to a foot is your intimate zone. Within 4' is a friendly zone and beyond that don't bother. If you and a friend are talking and they are withing that 4' zone, that's good. If you're talking to woman and she doesn't get closer than 6', that's a sign.

To put all of this into a situation: You're walking to class one day and you pass a girl you really like. You stop and say hello. She stops, squares up her shoulders to face you and looks at you while you two speak. You say something to offend her, she crosses her arms as a symbol to protect herself. Immediately she breaks eye contact and starts looking around. She'll increase her distance from you while disengaging her shoulders from the conversation and eventually you'll be standing there talking to yourself. Now, suppose you say something flattering (before you said the offensive remark). She might get closer to you while keeping eye contact. She may even touch you (more body language) on the hand or arm or whatever to begin the flirtation.

A lot of this can be observed just by sitting in an airport or hallway of a high school. Some may think it's BS, but if you pay attention to the signals someone gives off from body language, it's almost like reading their mind. Try it sometime. Hope this helps.

makaio

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it's not about starting with compliments or making moves. just talk to them and let it go from there

harry

body language? well if there nipples are hard, there are 2 options:

1. She's hot 'n horny
2. She has it cold, warm her

powder19

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definatly eye contact, confidence, and outgoing, my friend has big problems with being himself around chicks that he thinks are too good for him and the chick gets the wrong impression, you've just gotta be yourself

Linden B.

good advice

Rex212

I definitly believe that body languages says alot. Their are alot of diff. types of girls all of them have thier own way of looking for things. You will never be able to tell exactly what that their looking for so your best bet is to just be yourself and not try to act fake. Im not tryin to sound conceded but when me and my friends go to the mall its usually 3 or 4 numbers for each one of us by the end of the day. We all have our own way of acting when were there, mike acts likes hes got all the money in the world(he does have alot and frequently flashes it), Ed is a tall sun of a b-yatch and acts all sweet or just like a cock.I just try to be myself and be upfront and show some confidence. This isn't something that you can be taught. My best advice is to just hang otu with some of your popular friends and see hwo they are and react to situations, This will show you alot.

not2slick

just go up to them and start a conversation, you should be able to pick up if they are interested pretty quick.

stud43

if their face looks like this then they dont like you.

just be yourself, look at her face, not chest, and talk about her not yourself cowwink

247DSM

I have read that you are not suposed to compliment hot women. They know that they are hot and hear it all the time, so complimenting them doesn't mean anything to them. Strike up a good convo about anything, and if they shoot you down, don't give up.

je101

if they screw u. just go out and try n shag as many as you can !

dscallaway69

Here is my reccomendation. Agree with them. I never really payed attention to what to say with women I just befriend them so to speak. Quick story. I was shooting pool at a club the other night with some friends when i overheard a conversation between guy and girl. This girl was telling him that women know how to get women off better than men because men are selfish lovers. I just agreed with her. You know just saying men always get off from sex, and women probaly don't half the time. I know guys you can boo me all you want but it is the damn truth. Well this girl just popped up out of her chair came over and introduced herself to me and by the end of the night i had her number. So it just made it a little easier she is bitching about something even if it is something stupid like that join in and act like you care.

hippiboy

dude, just make her laugh. its the best method.