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05-04-2004, 02:31 PM
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whore
Join Date: May 2004
Location: florida
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Re: 2 issues
just ignoer they guy, he'll start to get bored
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05-04-2004, 02:37 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: cali
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Re: 2 issues
For part one, he is obviously not over you so play with it. Talk to everyone cute in the office. Make sure everyone knows that you are far from whatever he says about you. This way when they hear stuff from him they will think he's an ass.
For Part two, he is a guy. If you talk to him and make it seem like you enjoy being with him, he will get the clue. Basically, if you just smile at him for more then two seconds, he will think you are in to him. Just go for it.
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05-04-2004, 10:35 PM
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~The Loveliest Member~
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Louisiana
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Re: 2 issues
LOL.... Stud...funny thing is...all of what you said has been done. I've been working at this place for 5 years now...and know many of his fellow employees very well. They know what kind of person I am...and have told me several things he has said in regards to me. I've let it slide...just because I know they know me and are beginning to see what he's about. With guy number two...I find it hard not to just stare for a bit...funny story...The first week he started there I was in an excel class...anywho...I see him in his office for the first time...it's about 8 of us from the class..me being the casual flirt that I am...I get eye contact...smile...*bam* I walk right into a big blue pole. A little embarassing...well...a little more than a little...but he laughed and came out to see if I was hurt. Of course I wasn't...but...we've talked ever since. I don't know...we'll see how it goes.
And Orient...good luck to you *smiles*
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05-12-2004, 04:01 PM
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whore
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: england
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Re: 2 issues
Wow far to heavy for this time of night!
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05-12-2004, 08:26 PM
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whore
Join Date: May 2004
Location: UK
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Re: 2 issues
LovelyLady, talk to him as much as you can. Smile and be nice. Touch him.
I am stupid, I can't see the subtle signs women give. Most men are. So just flirt with him, make him feel important to you. Say that you are happy to see him Smile ALOT!! Smiling happy does it. Find out what movies he likes and ask him to go with you to one. I dont know a guy who doesnt like movies. It can be a movie trip that might turn into a date.
If its ment to be it will work out, learn sit back and relax, life is planned for you, fate. Things ALWAYS unfold on there own with little to no stimulation. Just go with the flow.
If you want him to know that you like him. Tell him when no-one else is around. That way he wont get embrassed.
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05-16-2004, 10:03 PM
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Re: 2 issues
yeah right..
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05-16-2004, 10:43 PM
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Re: 2 issues
If you really want my personal biased opinion, he broke up with you and now wants to diss you, yet at the same time get back with you (In laimens terms), but all i know is that alot of the stuff is very high-schoolish like, but if i were you, i would walk up to the man, tell him that the past is the past, and that i wish you would leave me alone, or move on and we can become friends...shake his hand and walk away.
Secondly, Don't think about the guy like that right away, it is very awkward for both of yall for you to have those feelings and it is very obvious through both verbal and body language. I know its hard to deny ones feelings, but from what i hear, he sounds interested in you. Be blunt about it, if you are willing, if not...just act like you normally do without the feelings 
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05-17-2004, 05:54 AM
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Re: 2 issues
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Originally Posted by La_LovelyLady
Now..on to the second issue... there is this really attractive guy at work. Had a class with him and went on a business trip to Wisconsin with him in October...so...I feel comfortable talking to him. BUT...here's what I need help with...I'm not shy when just talking to a guy...but...I am shy when I'm interested. Why?? Come to find out ...we've both joined the same co-ed softball team at work...I'm rambling...sorry...sooooooo... how do I let him know in subtle yet sweet ways that I'm interested? It's always been an ongoing flirty type of deal. I need guys opinions.

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Invite him out for drinks or something after a game
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05-17-2004, 08:10 PM
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Re: 2 issues
realationships that start at work never go far, plus if u break up work will suck cause u gotta be around that person
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