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Old 04-27-2004, 04:09 AM   #31
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Re: 2 issues
sorry i never got around to readin everything but i juss wanna point something out
When guy number 1 finds out about guy number 2 theres gonna be a Fight at work,
Like that movie joe somebody when the guygets into a fight at work over a parkin spot,
u will be the parkinspot,
Get it
kinda wack example but u get it
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Old 04-28-2004, 11:15 AM   #32
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Re: 2 issues
My two cents worth....
As far as the first guy...it is harrasment, and you deserve to have it stopped...now. I'm sure your company has rules and proceedures..follow them.

As for the second guy...dating someone from work is never a good idea. If things don't work out, then you're back in the same boat you are now!

The best advice I can give you, is move to Seattle immediately and start dating me! :wiggle:

Lol...good luck though, but the old saying is never dip your pen in the company ink well !
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Old 04-28-2004, 03:27 PM   #33
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Re: 2 issues
Hey La...I just want to throw this out to you. I dunno if you are still reading this...I am a few days late to respond. I am an HR manager for a large company. If guy 1's situation is as you say then here are the steps you need to take. (it is clear harrassment) 1st. go to his team lead...which I think you already have done..(guy 2, right?) if the situation doesn't get corrected then you MUST go to HR. (this will adversely effect any future with guy 2, if he is guy 1's lead. cause he will think that you feel he is not doing his job correctly. Big deal. You are more important) Once you get HR involved they will take a statement from you and tell you to then stay out of it. They will monitor him through his phone and computer. (you should see the crap we can doif needed)

I would never tell anyone how to go about their life but, companies DO have dating policies to prevent this thing from happening. My advice on guy 2? Let it be. Especially if you are going to step on his toes to get the JackAss in line. Hope it works out for you.

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Old 05-02-2004, 03:28 AM   #34
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Re: 2 issues
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Originally Posted by La_LovelyLady
Okay...I'm having two issues. First issue...I'm a nice girl...which really stinks some times cause I get my feelings hurt easily. Anyway...I was dating this guy for about a year...he turned out to be a complete ass. I did everything for him...bought him everything he needed...(cause he didn't work) ...finally trusted him enough to get him a job where I work...(great job let me add) and as soon as he found his life normal he found someone else. Which...is okay. I'm over that part...the problem is I have to see the jackass on a daily basis. He's informed me that I'm white trash...which I am so far from. He actually watches who I talk to at work...what I do...where I go...and asks everyone questions about me. Anywho...how to confront him without it stirring up mess at work. I simply want him to leave me alone. I'm just tired of the bs.

Now..on to the second issue... there is this really attractive guy at work. Had a class with him and went on a business trip to Wisconsin with him in October...so...I feel comfortable talking to him. BUT...here's what I need help with...I'm not shy when just talking to a guy...but...I am shy when I'm interested. Why?? Come to find out ...we've both joined the same co-ed softball team at work...I'm rambling...sorry...sooooooo... how do I let him know in subtle yet sweet ways that I'm interested? It's always been an ongoing flirty type of deal. I need guys opinions.





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Old 05-02-2004, 01:37 PM   #35
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who knows
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Old 05-02-2004, 06:01 PM   #36
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You got him hired easily enough...get him fired! Like someone said above, his stalking behavior is borderline sexual harrassment. It shouldn't be too hard to gather up some evidence to can his a$$. Plus, in most cases even the accusation of sexual harrassment is enough to get him fired. Most companies prefer to fire the accused immediately to avoid any bad publicity.
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Old 05-02-2004, 07:55 PM   #37
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Re: 2 issues
part 1... accuse him of sexual harassment
part 2... Ask him if wants to go out for a few drinks after one of your games. If it goes well then let him take it from there. If he declines, then you know he's not interested and you can make it sound like it was going to be a group thing so you don't lose any face.
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Old 05-02-2004, 09:45 PM   #38
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Re: 2 issues
You guys give some great advice...for guy number one...well...they've already been watching the silly behavior from him anyway...and all he has to do is slip once and they will let him go...which...knowing him he will do eventually so I have little concern with getting him fired...he'll do that on his own. Silly boy did nothing but try to find women online while at work instead of taking his calls...they've taken a long look at his usage and wiped all clean from his computer...soooooooooo....

For guy number 2....thinking long and hard on it...it would be difficult to date someone from work...regardless of the fact that we don't work so close together...but...we can continue the harmless flirting and be together with the ball crowd after practice and games for now. The attraction is obvious...I think we both just think it's a better idea to keep it as it is for now. We shall see.

Again...thanks for the advice... *smiles* All is working out great
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Old 05-03-2004, 02:25 AM   #39
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just act normal 8-)
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Old 05-03-2004, 02:57 AM   #40
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you have violated rule one of the dating world not once but TWICE now.

NO FISHING OFF THE COMPANY PIER!!!!!

work and nookie don't mix. Period. For the very reason that you must now endure jackass #1, if shit goes bad you will have to endure jackass #2. Trust me...i went thru this. I banged my boss and she turned into not only the best bj and worst lay of my life all rolled into one, she really turned into a bitch at work when things dind't work out. They never would have worked out tho either...she was married
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Old 05-03-2004, 04:21 PM   #41
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I have to agree there. A buddy of mine was asked by his boss to interview a potential new-hire. He was instructed to take her out to a "business lunch" and answer questions about the company. Well, now they're dating. She doesn't start until summer, but I can already tell this is going to be bad. It's bad enough to start dating a co-worker because of all the political matters that become muddied should the inevitable happen and you split up, but now he's dating them before they even officially start working for the company!
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Old 05-03-2004, 05:59 PM   #42
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Re: 2 issues
bust the first guy for harrasment and take the chance with the second...
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Old 05-03-2004, 06:48 PM   #43
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yep
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Old 05-03-2004, 10:02 PM   #44
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Re: 2 issues
Ah, the wonders of office politics.

I say go to guy #2 (the supervisor of guy #1) and ask him out to lunch/dinner, where you can get close to him. After a week or two, complain about guy #1.
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Old 05-04-2004, 01:09 AM   #45
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Re: 2 issues
I can't begin to tell you how similar the situation is with me. Albeit I'm a guy having problems with a girl. I went to college with my gf from high school and she turned out to be a complete bitch and I've had a class with her every semester...going on 3 semesters now. It sucks bad, I find myself getting sucked in by her random calls or when she tries to talk to me after class. It is by far the hardest thing I've been through when it comes to relationships. If anyone can help you with this problem, clue me in!
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