robul

oh noes~!!!111 i wonder what it said before the edit.. :rock:

La_LovelyLady

lol..It said your name instead of elfoozo ....that's all... *smile*

robul

i was hoping for something kinky

Adonde?

Hey lovely,

You are always welcome here in my bed in NY. Don't worry about that guy if he isn't interested.

La_LovelyLady

Robul...sorry...want me to make something up...and make it sound really good?

And Adonde?...thanks for the offer...if I ever make it to NY...I'll keep it in mind

*kisses to you both*

todddster

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I have 2 cents (not worthmuch, but still mine):

First, if you work as a dispatcher, or close to it, you have an extrememly stressful job. Take care of number 1 before anybody else. Sounds like you tried to "rescue" the first guy and there are men who will prey on kind, generous women just to use them.

As far as dating where you work, sometimes it's the only avenue for some. Don't be afraid to pursue something that you might later regret as a What if I would have . . .? You never know, he might be the "One." It's harmless to ask a man to lunch or to dinner. In fact, it's very flattering for us.

If working around the first guy becomes uncomfortable for you, do talk to your supervisor in confidence. You spend a considerable amount of time at the workplace and you should, at the very least, be comfortable at work and never feel as though you have to avoid any person or place.

(and don't try to make the second guy jealous. that is just playing games and doesn't reveal your true intent. Plus, he wouldn't know when you were actually being serious with him. . . just a thought.)

La_LovelyLady

great advice toddster.... no games played here... *smiles*

whiteROB

at this thread.

La_LovelyLady

hey whiterob...I'm a woman who needs advice darn it...I'd give any man advice when he needs to know what to do about his relationship problems... *sigh* geez

whiteROB

Uh-Huh. There was alot of advice given, but I doubt any of it will pull much weight except for that which agrees with what you already had your mind set to do.

Were you looking for reassurance as well?

idontknow

if you want the second guy, just walk up to him and ask him out for some cocktails. that way you are in a public ploace and you can feel him out to see if he is what you are looking for.

and if the first guy keeps poling his nose were it doesn't belong...jsut talk to the bosses and see what can be done. if that doesn't work, get him fired

La_LovelyLady

someone having a bad day?? Thanks guys for the advice...but I suppose I'll just carry on and do what I planned in the first place...although I did truly want an opinion...I do appreciate you guys taking the time to respond... *smiles*

idontknow

any more info, pm me

sorry if the last post came off rude

gman6797

Totally ignore the first guy he is a loser. Never date an unemployed dude. Coed softball is a great ice breaker. Option 1 after the game try and sit by him at the bar you go to, post game beers usually get things going.

Option 2 ask him to goto the batting cage with you. That you would like a some pointers with your hitting. No guy would say no. He will be flattered you think he is good. Even if he sucks at softball, then you can work on it together. then go out for a beer after.