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06-16-2005, 11:21 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: vancouver
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it wasnt that enjoyable
I am 18 yrs old now. I had sex for the first time in my life a few months ago. It didnt feel very good as much as I thought, it would. So i thought maybe the girl was inexperienced. So i tried it with another girl, same thing. It didnt feel that good. Third time, I thought i should do it with a pro. So i found a nice stripper. It was a bit better than the previous ones. But still I didnt enjoy it. Like the feeling is not that great.
So is this how sex is. I mean the feelings are not that great.
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06-16-2005, 11:46 PM
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bored out of my mind.....
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: in your sisters bedroom
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
hmmm interesting... but i don't know yet... give me a few months and i cna help you lol.
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06-17-2005, 01:00 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Cali
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
Generally the sexual experience is enhanced if YOU know what you are doing as well. Try getting some practice and you'll like it more. Either that, or you're just nailing bad pussy, it can happen. Also, you might be using some cheap ass, thick condoms that take away all the feeling. Invest in a good one that fits you and that'll help.
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06-17-2005, 01:03 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: North Mexico . . . Penis Size: Python
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
You might be one of those sentimental guys where you have to get feelings involved in order for it to be good. So wait until you fall in love, I guess.
If you like wacking off, it should have been decent. It gets better with practice. Once you try it without a rubber, you'll friggin LOVE it.
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06-17-2005, 01:11 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: USA
Posts: 245/0.16
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
Once you try it without a rubber, you'll friggin LOVE it.
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Amen to that!!
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06-17-2005, 01:29 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: In MD
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
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Originally Posted by mike212
Third time, I thought i should do it with a pro. So i found a nice stripper. It was a bit better than the previous ones...
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Now when you say a pro do you mean you payed her or do you mean you figured she be better at it because she was a stripper and she liked you so you hooked up a bit.
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Originally Posted by nflcclucky13
Generally the sexual experience is enhanced if YOU know what you are doing as well. Try getting some practice and you'll like it more. Either that, or you're just nailing bad pussy, it can happen. Also, you might be using some cheap ass, thick condoms that take away all the feeling. Invest in a good one that fits you and that'll help.
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There are some very nice condoms that can feel way better than others.
Plus as he said you just started out, get some experience under you belt and your cock should get to feeling great when you slide in a girl.
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Originally Posted by PirateOZanzabar
hmmm interesting... but i don't know yet... give me a few months and i cna help you lol.
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What do you mean lol.
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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
Once you try it without a rubber, you'll friggin LOVE it.
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Amen to that!!
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Hey guy's don't be advocating to much on not wearing a condom as the guy just started out so I wouldn't want him to get a STD so soon into you know. Especially with him hitting up strippers and doing one of them is a big  without a condom.
Though I will have to say it does feel better without one as long as you can trust a girl in not being a skank.
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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
If you like wacking off, it should have been decent...
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Yes it should of been better than  right?
You may have possibly had your expectations high and that is why it didn't feel great
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06-17-2005, 03:23 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Under your closet and in your bed
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
Yeah, seriously guys, don't be convincing us young'uns to have unsafe sex.
For Mike's problem, are you circumcized? I can't find it, but an earlier thread somewhere around here talked about it and had a link to a website about circumcision, and it mentioned that lots of nerves are severed during the evil operation. I know this doesn't help your problem, and I wish I could (these other guys' advice is probably pretty good), but it's just something to think about.
Just my 2 cents.
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06-17-2005, 03:50 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Nebraska
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
damm i thought even my worst piece of ass was GREAT !!!
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06-17-2005, 04:44 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Birmingham
Posts: 355/0.23
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
Hang in there... Just don't do some dumb crap like not using protection. I wish I would have waited. Looking back it was good but waiting is a huge accomplishment. If you do not feel relaxed or secure then that may be causing your problem.
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06-17-2005, 08:42 PM
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Back Dimples FTW!
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Deep in Jersey
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
I refuse to believe that getting laid at 18 is as easy as this cat's making it sound. I mean, "I didn't like it with one girl so I tried it with another. When that didn't work I got myself a stripper." HUH? How does that work? Forget about your sexual inadequacies, what's your secret for making bedding broads as easy as trying on different pairs of shoes?
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06-17-2005, 09:24 PM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: North Mexico . . . Penis Size: Python
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
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Once you try it without a rubber, you'll friggin LOVE it.
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Is all I said. I didn't say, go out and do it. I said once he does. This day in age, if you are sexually active, eventually you will end up in a monogomous relationship and try it without a rubber. I'm not advocating unprotected sex here, I'm saying it will be more enjoyable when he does try it like that.
When I first started, I wouldn't stick it in without a rubber...once I did, rubbers were my worst enemies and I just pulled out. My gf was a virgin when I met her. After her....well lets not get into that, I'm not the poster boy for safe sex.
Shit, seriously, ya'll some preachy people.
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06-18-2005, 12:08 AM
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whore
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: my house
Posts: 85/0.07
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
i actually started without rubbers ... then use them now. not because of STD ... but because of the risk of pregnancy. (although i always pulled out before)
ive used a few brands and finally found a brand i like, i just dont know if i can mention the brandname here.
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06-18-2005, 12:16 AM
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whore
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: here and there
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
Poor guy
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06-18-2005, 01:29 AM
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whore
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: vancouver
Posts: 10/0.01
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
Thanks everyone!
for replying. I appreciate it.
I got this fourth girl yesterday. She was very good. We tried some different positions, but the actual fucking doesnt feel that good as much as the pre excitement of it. I mean I get so excited before I start. But once i am doing it, it doesnt feel that great.
Well, at the moment I am too scared to try it without a rubber, lol. Probably i can do that only with my wife. So yea......will wait till then.
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06-18-2005, 01:50 AM
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Mod with the Bod
Champion!
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Canada
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Re: it wasnt that enjoyable
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Originally Posted by mike212
Thanks everyone!
for replying. I appreciate it.
I got this fourth girl yesterday. She was very good. We tried some different positions, but the actual fucking doesnt feel that good as much as the pre excitement of it. I mean I get so excited before I start. But once i am doing it, it doesnt feel that great.
Well, at the moment I am too scared to try it without a rubber, lol. Probably i can do that only with my wife. So yea......will wait till then.
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When I first read this I was like, "What? This dude has a wife, AND he just turned 18, AND he's had sex with 3 (now 4) different girls... where the hell is his wife?!" And then I realized you meant future wife. Phew. For a second there you got me real confused.
As for your situation I will not be the best person to ask re:sex (see user title under my name) but, erm, maybe you are putting too much pressure on yourself to be Da Man! that it causes some sort of anxiety and (subconsciously) makes you tense? IMO if you stress about it too much then you wouldn't be able to enjoy it. My 2 cents... Canadian. You know how much that's worth.
polgas I think it would be OK to mention your preferred brand of Rubber Wear.
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