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06-09-2005, 05:52 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: Butterface
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Shame on you kulotsalot, it took my practically 45 minutes to read the picture thread the other day and there were lots of pic of you...and you can say you threw all the bad ones out, but from what I see.. you are a knock out! A few (or quite a few) spots on your face cant change that! PERIOD!
I don't know if this helps or not...but I do know for sure, that many women experience acne at different stages of life and or hormonal changes. I never got many zits when I was in high school, but now that I'm ..... are you ready for this?....... now that I'm 40 I get zits when I get my period. Go figure!
Things could be worse hon, instead of being a young beautiful girl with a few zits that will go away.... you could be 40!
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40 year old foxes are good too....age is just a number anyway.
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06-09-2005, 09:55 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: In MD
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Re: Butterface
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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
40 year old foxes are good too....age is just a number anyway.
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Mhmm...there are some fine ladies over 40.
And the experience they have more than makes up for having a lil age to them.
Also kulotsalot could you possibly post a pic of you on here so I can see why your so down, I mean I have seen some very yummy girls be down on themselves for no real reason as sometimes its simply an issue of low self esteem and what not.
Well, I'll be looking forward to seeing you sweety. 
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06-09-2005, 10:12 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: oklahoma
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Re: Butterface
K, baby, listen to the G-man. I'm not here to throw you empty compliments (not at all saying what everyone else said was empty, it would just be empty from me purely based on the fact that i don't really know you and have never seen a picture of you, and no I'm not asking for a pic, that's the job of ole' Moon boy here, dude, lay off of the pic issue, she'll post one if she wants to) but here's a poem I read today that I really liked. It's by A.A. Milne, the one and only who brought us the world's best psychotherapist, Winnie the Pooh. the poem is all about the teddy bear realizing that we can't all be the best looking, thinnest, best person in the world and that a lot of us spend way too much time wishing for what could be instead of being grateful for what we have now. A minute worrying about something is a minute wasted. I'll shut and post the poem. I really urge you (and whoever else) to read it and really pay attention to the underlying story and tie it to yourself, because we all can.
Teddy Bear
A bear, however hard he tries,
Grows tubby without exercise.
Our Teddy Bear is short and fat,
Which is not to be wondered at;
He gets what exercise he can
By falling off the ottoman,
But generally seems to lack
The energy to clamber back.
Now tubbiness is just the thing
Which gets a fellow wondering;
And Teddy worried lots about
The fact that he was rather stout.
He thought: "If only I were thin!
But how does anyone begin?"
He thought: "It really isn't fair
To grudge one exercise and air."
For many weeks he pressed in vain
His nose against the window-pane,
And envied those who walked about
Reducing their unwanted stout.
None of the people he could see
"Is quite" (he said) "as fat as me!"
Then, with a still more moving sigh,
"I mean" (he said) "as fat as I!
One night it happened that he took
A peep at an old picture-book,
Wherein he came across by chance
The picture of a King of France
(A stoutish man) and, down below,
These words: "King Louis So and So,
Nicknamed 'The Handsome!'" There he sat,
And (think of it!) the man was fat!
Our bear rejoiced like anything
To read about this famous King,
Nicknamed "The Handsome." There he sat,
And certainly the man was fat.
Nicknamed "The Handsome." Not a doubt
The man was definitely stout.
Why then, a bear (for all his tub)
Might yet be named "The Handsome Cub!"
"Might yet be named." Or did he mean
That years ago he "might have been"?
For now he felt a slight misgiving:
"Is Louis So and So still living?
Fashions in beauty have a way
Of altering from day to day.
Is 'Handsome Louis' with us yet?
Unfortunately I forget."
Next morning (nose to window-pane)
The doubt occurred to him again.
One question hammered in his head:
"Is he alive or is he dead?"
Thus, nose to pane, he pondered; but
The lattice window, loosely shut,
Swung open. With one startled "Oh!"
Our Teddy disappeared below.
There happened to be passing by
A plump man with a twinkling eye,
Who, seeing Teddy in the street,
Raised him politely to his feet,
And murmured kindly in his ear
Soft words of comfort and of cheer:
"Well, well!" "Allow me!" "Not at all."
"Tut-tut! A very nasty fall."
Our Teddy answered not a word;
It's doubtful if he even heard.
Our bear could only look and look:
The stout man in the picture-book!
That 'handsome' King - could this be he,
This man of adiposity?
"Impossible," he thought. "But still,
No harm in asking. Yes I will!"
"Are you," he said,"by any chance
His Majesty the King of France?"
The other answered, "I am that,"
Bowed stiffly, and removed his hat;
Then said, "Excuse me," with an air,
"But is it Mr Edward Bear?"
And Teddy, bending very low,
Replied politely, "Even so!"
They stood beneath the window there,
The King and Mr Edward Bear,
And, handsome, if a trifle fat,
Talked carelessly of this and that....
Then said His Majesty, "Well, well,
I must get on," and rang the bell.
"Your bear, I think," he smiled. "Good-day!"
And turned, and went upon his way.
A bear, however hard he tries,
Grows tubby without exercise.
Our Teddy Bear is short and fat,
Which is not to be wondered at.
But do you think it worries him
To know that he is far from slim?
No, just the other way about -
He's proud of being short and stout.
Helps me and hopefully it'll help you babe, hang in there.
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06-09-2005, 11:26 PM
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Mod with the Bod
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Re: Butterface
Again, thanks everyone. Lemme just get this outta the way: Moon, dude, SEARCH. That is all.
See, I don't really like makeup and I never was good at that, though I guess if I have someone teach me then I could get better at it. However, I feel that with makeup I'm deceiving people (never mind that I wear padded bras, that's an entirely different matter altogether) and one of the worst things would be being in constant fear of being discovered without makeup. The underlying thing is still that I don't want people to see me like this. I think I'd rather be rejected outright (i.e. She ain't pretty enough so I ain't talking to her) rather than look pretty with the makeup on AND THEN be rejected when people see me without it (i.e. OMG is that how you really look?!"). I know there are a lot of things I should be proud of and that personality-wise I am aight, but  I guess you just can't have it all.
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06-10-2005, 01:56 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: North Mexico . . . Penis Size: Python
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Re: Butterface
My gf is the most attractive female I've ever met. She has acne and is taking meds and see's a dermatologist. She has small boobs (barely an A), skinny as a twig (I can hug her with one arm and touch my gut), does weird things with her hair (it was purplish when I saw her in Feb), not the type of ass I'd rub in an elevator and get a hardon for the whole day (like the black chick from weds)...but she has confidence, attitude, and has game. I tell you Ella, she's as cocky as I am.
I've been stopped by strange women at clubs and been asked, "Why do you walk around like you are the shit when you aren't even all that."
You know what I answered...thanks for noticing me sweetheart, you want to buy me a drink or will you just sit there and notice what I do the whole night? 5 beers later, I had her eating out of the palm of my hand and thinking of where to go to, her place or mine.
It's attitude girl...always has been, always will be. Until you see what the rest of us see in you, you won't ever beat this funk. Until you accept that a few blemishes, don't mean shit but dead skin, and gain some confidence....people will always treat you as an ugly duckling.
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06-10-2005, 10:11 PM
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slut
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Clt
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Re: Butterface
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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
...but she has confidence, attitude, and has game. I tell you Ella, she's as cocky as I am.
It's attitude girl...always has been, always will be. Until you see what the rest of us see in you, you won't ever beat this funk. Until you accept that a few blemishes, don't mean shit but dead skin, and gain some confidence....people will always treat you as an ugly duckling.
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Very well said Juan.
Kulots - I've known a number of women, who wouldn't rate a second look, having to chase the men off - because they have such great attitudes.
I have also known women so gorgeous that I could barely keep from drooling, that once I talked to them were like a brick wall - Dull, no spark, no fun, just a pretty face.
The hardest thing to learn at a young age is confidence - try to carry the aura you have here with you in your "real" life - no one will notice a zit or 20.
You don't have to be confident - you just have to act that way.
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06-13-2005, 03:46 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Birmingham
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Re: Butterface
Do you know what the funny thing is. We all have our problems. Hell, I am short, hairy with bad eyes and low arches. Plus I had bad acne in high school. You just have to quit beating yourself up over this crap. No one is perfect and there are $hit heads out there who's only existance is to make others feel miserable. Right now I would put money on the fact that your are your own worse enemy. You have to address that first and everything else will fall into place. If you hate yourself you will never overcome this.
If you cannot change the people around you. Change the people around you.
Good Luck!
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06-17-2005, 06:21 AM
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Scotlands finest SuperMod
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Glasgow Scotland Heritage: Scotsman; Pict
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Re: Butterface
I have never realy looked in this forum, but did this morning and found this post. Glad I did, I can add some input.
First and foremost, I judge people by who they are first. We didn't choose our parents and what we look like is what we inherited from them. I have my own inherited imperfection in my appearance, and it doesn't bother me in the least. It is really minor, and I could really give a crap what anyone thinks.
I know all girls want to look pretty, and if there is something wrong, it adds to their insecurity. This is the tough part for a female, to overcome this. There are a few steps you should have a look at:
First and foremost, I wouldn't place all your hope in a medication. I am one that believes more in natural healing and feel many medicines are manufactured in order to keep you purchasing them. And if this medicine doesn't work, you will feel even worse. If it does, and you have to keep buying it, you are avoiding tackling the problem with your own mind and spiritual healing powers.
Let me make analogy. The only way to lose weight and keep it off is through behavior modification. Most diests are starvation diets and when a person sheds pounds, their metabolism drops. When they go off the diet, the metabolism increases and the pounds come back and more. Similar principals are in play here:
First, you are young. Complexion problems are normal for people your age. Yeah, usually it happens when one is younger, but not always. So first off, tell yourself this is something you will outgrow and conquer.
Next, try doing a little research on your diet. You know what meals you subsist on, look at alternative food products. Achange of diet combined with my other methods could solve the problem for you. Another example is the case of a person needing bypass surgery. If they completely change their diet, it is possible in one month to avoid the neccessary surgery! Changing a diet is a great challenge, but it can be great fun if you set your mind that way in the beginning. I once chaged to vegetariansim for about a year. Completely gave me a whole new outlook on life starting from day one! And I looked and felt great!
The power of positive thinking is a known helper for you. Plato was one of the guys to first educate us on this. The way I use these principals is by telling myself I am going to tackle whatever problem I face, and beat it! Being a competitive chess player in the past, I summoned my concentration reserves and just go out and find the correct moves to make.
So, you really have to start with yourself. You just say, "Ella, you are going to beat this!" Then you have to believe. Each time you take a step that helps you, focus on that, tell yourself this is something that is going to work for you and you won't have any other result but the one you seek. When you start seeing results in your favor, chalk that up to your efforts. Keep note of how your confidence is rising. Learn to laugh off setbacks, regroup and try harder.
I promise you, if you take this approach, work on it and develop your talents of positive thinking, you will feel a lot better about yourself while you heal. And heal you will!
That is all for now :kulots: 
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06-17-2005, 05:04 PM
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whore
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Birmingham
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Re: Butterface
Nice reply Fin...
I totally agree. It is very important to keep a positive attitude. Some cannot grasp the fact that our minds actually play a huge role in our physical appearance. If you are down then your shoulders will slump. Also being unhappy causes your body to release cortisol and this causes one to gain weight. I also agree with Fin about the pharm companies and medicine. The body has all of the natural capabilities to heal itself. With a good intake of food and regular exercise you should see a change in about 4 weeks. Just don't give up and throw in the towel. The hardest part is giving up the sugars. Once you get past that you should be fine. Start eating fresh fruit if you do not already. chin up!
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06-19-2005, 04:04 AM
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bored out of my mind.....
Join Date: Mar 2005
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Re: Butterface
K girl.... i sorta know how you are feeling. during high school and part of middle school i had some bad acne, but luckely for me the worst stuff was on my back/shoulders, so it was easy to cover it up. but i was still VERY self concious of it all. so for the acne i was taking all types of medicine for it, but none of them did a whole lot of good (this also might be because i always forgot to take the pills/put the lotion on) but thankfully over the 4 years of high school, some were in my junior year, most of my acne has cleared up. i still the the occasional pimple on my face, and i still get a few on my back/shoulders, but they are nothing compared to what it used to be like. but as for the shyness that i had, my best bud helped me become who i am today. i know have many very close friends that i love dearly, but the self conciousness still comes back to haunt me when it comes to girls.... never really been able to come up to a girl and start hitting on her (well at least not untill im drunk :wiggle  but my gf now isn't a girl that would catch my eye bc of how she looks. she still has some acne, and is a plesently plump, but i still like her bc of her personality. looks aren't everything and who ever says differently needs to be  .
and K, i have seen (by using the search function moon) most of the pics you have posted and have loved every one of them. you truelly are a lil hotty no matter what any one says. i don't care if you don't think you LOOK hot, your personality is what gets me, (and i also really LOVE your body. and thats about all i have seen since you don't have ne close ups of your face, which i would like to see as well).
so if people still say the same shit to you like you wrote in the first post then walk away from them. they will only drag you down later in life. actually they are dragging you down NOW, when you are young and should be having fun with the rest of us youngsters. so if you ever need some one to  or  or  or  or  or  or  or  or  to these bastards, feel free to post their names/addresses on WR and im sure you would have an army of Webratters going after them with me in the lead 
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06-19-2005, 10:45 AM
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Re: Butterface
Umm, POZ (and all the other members of the WR Army) these people are my friends and family. I would love to tell my mom to shut her pie hole (hehe) but somehow I don't think she'll like that very much. I think it's cultural thing, Filipinos are known to stick their noses into friends' or family's business, as opposed to North Americans who value independence more than anything else.
I don't post close up pics because my face looks like shit.  I think someday when I beat this shit to the ground I'll ask my doctor for a copy of my uglified pics (yeah he took a picture of me before I went on medication) and post them beside my prettified pic, and then maybe you'll understand how big the difference is, and why it was making me feel so horrible. I think it's partly genetic, as my mom also had bad acne when she was my age, all gone now. But dammit, waiting til I'm menopausal is not what I want to do! Why can't acne stay on a person's... umm... feet or something? Somewhere not easily seen? 
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06-19-2005, 02:43 PM
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Pennywise
Join Date: Mar 2005
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Re: Butterface
Don't sweat it. You are who you are, and thats all there is to it. You have to like yourself, or people are gonna see that you don't.

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06-19-2005, 03:13 PM
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bored out of my mind.....
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Re: Butterface
well the least you could do is tell your mother to stop telling you that shit. tell her how it makes you feel. just talk to her. but i do see what you mean that your mom wouldn't like you saying "shut your pie hole" lol.
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06-19-2005, 10:32 PM
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whore
Join Date: May 2004
Location: oklahoma
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Re: Butterface
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Umm, POZ (and all the other members of the WR Army) these people are my friends and family. I would love to tell my mom to shut her pie hole (hehe) but somehow I don't think she'll like that very much. I think it's cultural thing, Filipinos are known to stick their noses into friends' or family's business, as opposed to North Americans who value independence more than anything else.
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K baby, as long as you keep allowing your fam and friends to put you down like this they will. You seem to have a low self concept because of this blemish problem. If you think you have a bad face then you will go back to people who treat you like you do and allow them to do so, not necessarily because you want but because it just reinforces what you think about yourself. You can make all the reasons in the world why you won't tell people to stop but it really just boils down to reinforcing what you think. I think Juan hit it right on the button in his post where instead of complimenting you he said right out it's how you carry yourself and how you act; ie. you act like you're ugly, people will treat you like that and you'll go right back to them and allow it. I know this sounds harsh but you gotta stop feeling sorry for yourself babe otherwise people will walk all over you, often times not even realizing it. You can get all the compliments in the world but they won't make this go away. Best of luck babe, i know a bunch of people who go through this and I hate to see them beat themselves up over something they can't completely control. Take care
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