Vicent123

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I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year. We have a healthy sex life and I truely love her, but I have a problem. It seems that when she is on the rag i am not as sexualy attracted to her, but am still horribly horney some times i will watch porn and "walk the dog". But every time i finish i feel horrible and try to promis myself to never do it again...but it never works. Do you guys have any tricks to help me stop ?

glmorrs1

"not as sexually attracted to her"? why because she won't put out while she having her period? whtever. but as to your question, you shouldn't feel guilty for masturbating, it's natural. just try to not feel guilty (i know what it's like, i'm catholic). and if your woman doesn't like it just tell her it helps you relieve stress and tell her it's her you're thinking about when you do it. but if you really want to quit, get a set of barbells and whenever you get the urge just start lifting weights, after a few sets you'll be too tired to do it.

michaeljohn

please read the rules I posted! most of your text is ok, but saying asshole-ish isn't cool. thanks.

I have already proven people don't read the rules, they just go right for the pron. don't ask.....

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glmorrs1

sorry i took it out of my original post.

Bigeme

okay youve been sexually active for a year and you feel bad about wacking off? thats not right. if you're not married to her than most(western) religions would view that as worse than spanking the monkey.

Vicent123

we havn't been having sex just foreplay types of things, fingering and such, and its not that im not attracted to her because she wont put out, infact because of the extra hoarmoans she is very horney, i am just disgusted by the thought of blood like that. And i feel bad because I want this relationship to last and I feel unfaitful for watching the porn.
(with the being catholic, i aswell am and it is a sin so there is a reason to feel guilty)

clamsrus

Vincent.....two things

First....a lot of women feel sexually inclined during menstruation, even if they don't feel particularly sexy because of the process. Many are better lubricating and more easily aroused. You may find that you both can find more inventive ways of meeting your sexual needs together without having to get too involved in the "blood and guts" department if you find that you just can't stand the thought......just remember that body fluids are body fluids are body fluids, and while there are lots of culturally ingrained attitudes, most aren't based on fact. While you may have a problem with this, she may be quite laid back about the whole process, but you've got to do what is comfortable for you both.

Second....stop about fretting about jerking off....she may find it really erotic, want to get into the action, or decide maybe a little lip service is in order, while she fingers herself. Talk about it! Is she aware that you get sexually strung up while she is "out of action" I am assuming of course that you don't just relate to her as a sexual entity!!
You could always go solo and view it as keeping yourself in training LOL
I also assume that before she was on the scene you took good care of yourself in that department in anycase.....so who are you fooling??

Somebody

dude... you're cool... don't stress so much. I think you should go for it while she is on the rag. Could be a good flooding technique for your fear of the blood. and you know what they say... if you can walk through mud, you can **** through blood. Also, the jerking off is normal, feeling guilty is just going to make it worse. You could even try wacking off together if that would help you not to feel guilty.

Juan.©amaney

You would suck at being a biker...red wings and all.

Masturbation is otay...mkay?

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JoeBoxer

How bout getting her to "walk the dog" for ya.....

PirateOZanzabar

ok, since i got here a lil late im basicly going to restate some of the things many people have said already.

1) masturbation is natural. ans since you are catholic (i am/was, still havn't really decided about that) then all you need to do is go to a confession and your masturbation sins are gone! isn't that lovely?

2) masturbation is nothing to be guilty about. every one does it! hell im doing it right now! :happycow: and any ways, it deff sucks that the girls get hornier during this week, since not many men are willing to go down there then. but as clams so elequinlty stated it, maby your girl will give you some "lip service"? and all guys agree with me here, the "rag week" should be refered to as "head week" from now on.

3) don't listen to juan.... hes a dirty lil mexi who likes some very strange things ......

and about you not being sexually attracted to her when shes on the rag...... i don't really know what to say i guess..... except that you might just be freaking out bc seriously how can something bleed for 7 days with out dying? personally i don't trust anything that can do that.

Patito

I like when it's my girl's time of the month, means more blowjobs! Really, my girl is usually hornier during that time, and I can usually still give her a mini-orgasm just by sucking on her nipples cause they're ultra sensitive. I'd suggest taking a shower with her, even if you guys don't have sex you can still give her a nice finger massage and not have to worry about a mess. I wouldn't feel bad about masturbating either, I get sex regularly but I still like to masturbate sometimes.

Juan.©amaney

Don't knock my hussle foo'! It really isn't THAT bad.

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Vicent123

Yea, i hear what you guys are saying about Jerkin it, but I think the thing i feel most guilty for is watching porn while i do it, I feel as if i am cheating on her
*(i think i feel this way because i had a girl cheat me bad and it ruined a long term relationship)*