whereislovenow

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happycolt got me wanting to ask this question after i saw his post about, telling a girl she sucks at head..

well anyway.. ive been dating this girl for like over a month.. and she has a bush.. that is like.. to her thighs.

nasty.. almost 70's-ish looking..

it turns me off so much. but i cant just say.. "damn, seriously are using that bush to house a bird"

and i tried to tell her once joking that she should shave her whole body then i pointed at her area.. and nodded my head.. but she just thought i was joking.

so now she has been told in a way.. hich makes it a bit harder cause i failed my first try.

i just wonder how to say it.. i can be honest but that would suck to be told.

there is probably no way around this..

but maybe someone alteast has something funny to try.

but seriously.. it sucks.

xevious

get a razor and tell her you want to try something kinky. tell her you want to see what it looks like in a different way, or some other stupid thin.

3nigm4tic

roofies... shave it...she wakes up and wonders what the hell happened

no but really, I had a friend go through this same problem. Luckily for him, and you might be in the same situation... he had close female friends to the girl, and he managed to bring it up to them (they shaved, apparently) and they ... more or less relayed the message over, but in a more girl-talk way, and/or without implicating that he was the source of the idea. Intermediaries might be the best way, if you know any of her confidants

Wilken

+1




Nice, I like his idea - I could never pull off the "kinky" angle, I would always go for the goofy method and end up in the same boat you're in now. I really like the idea of getting the girls involved. In this day and age, there's just no excuse.

Hair is gross!

PirateOZanzabar

yeah i agree with 3nig, that would be the best way to do it.

but you can also try just asking her. saying something about how you want to see her shaven, or at the very least trimmed down. if you guys are doing good and everything then she shouldn't take it badly or nething, and she might actually bring up you doing the same

Wilken

Ah, P.O.Z. reminds me - you gotta make sure you got a hold on your own landscaping, if things are wild downtown, you don't really have an argument for her.

Sometimes, a home haircut kit and a mach 3 can be your (and your ladies') best friend. If you do it first, you can say, "hey baby, check this out!"

SwedishStallion

gotta agree with the do-it-to-yourself first ploy...it'll make her much more comfortable with her own weed-whacking. The only girl i've had to ask went for it hook, line and sinker when I told her how much I loved going down on her and how much better it would feel if it was at least trimmed, much the less shaved. It went it stages, but oh boy did it go.


hope that helps.

whereislovenow

yeah.. i am.. ahh you know trimmed.. and thats almost the thing.. she sees mine.. and doesnt think.. "i should maybe do something about my forest"

i like the idea of saying you wanna see it shaved or shorter.. that sounds like it would be so much more sexually positive.. if she knows it turns me on to see it like that.

but then again she might call me a pervert and a child molester for not wanting hair.. i just dont know.

but all of you are doing some great thinking.. like the roofies.

i wish i had the balls for that.. that would be amazing.

and to answer the other question.. i dont know her friends at all.. so i am out there.

but yeah.. ill try the "you should try this its hot" idea

Thanks

tsmo

youve got it all wrong dude.

do it for her.

yep - nothing more exciting for the both of you. well.. wehn it comes to this anyway.


bubble bath.. a few of those glow sticks for the lighting effect - drop them right in the tub ( candles start fires - and dont give off colored glows )

hop in the tub with her. wash her back. wash her front. get relaxed. and tell her youd like to give her a trim to turn her on.. A. it WILL INDEED turn her on. B. you get the satisfaction of shaving it to your specs.. ( be warned., dont shave the poor girl bald - shell end up hating you for being too perverted, and making her itch like a bitch )

if that doesnt work..

roofies..

Sagaris

Take her swimming , not many ladies out there want to be seen in public without a slight trim at least. Don't forget to compliment the new smooth look then she'll maybe cut back a little more, your cue to go down and make her Happy.

whereislovenow

take her swimming.. that sounds like a plan. good call

stillpushin

Show her this thread.

aarondb

i just told my girlfriend that if she shaved then i would go down on her more and now she shaves everyday

raminu28

Me and my g/f have been together only 8 months and if I think that it is getting to long I just flat out tell her. She knows that i like it better so she dose it for me. Most of the time all it takes is just communication if she loves you or even likes you a whole lot she will do it for you you just have to talk. Most things in a relationship can be worked out without any problems if you just talk.