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Surfing the masturbation / getting caught thread I was reminded by the posting about the girl sitting on the bus that my G/f (now my wife) told me that when she was a teenager she used to be able to cum by just thinking about sex. No touching at all.. she used to do it in class or anywhere that took her fancy... Unfortunately it means that when we have sex she cums very easily, which tends to cut short any planned all night sessions..
I've known both types of girl - the ones who cum as soon as penetrated and the ones who need ages of pumping and rubbing to get off. Some of them nearly wore my tongue off!! One girl I went out with for two years was damn nearly a nymphomaniac, couldn't get enough, but never orgasmed no matter what I did.
Any comments from the ladies? Is this a physical, or a mental thing?

CD

(CD will be monitoring this thread closely...)

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kulotsalot

hehe. the first person to reply is male!!!

if i'm really feelin' it i can cum on a bus, in class, at home while having dinner with my mom and dad... pretty much anywhere where i can sit and cross my legs. "no touching at all" is not very accurate, because crossing my legs and squeezing my thighs together are key elements in this process (at least for me) along with thinking about whatever turns me on at that time, and just zoning out and focusing on what i'm feeling. the last time i did this was maybe a week ago, while i was in class and thinking about a 'ratter. :happycow: thank god i already knew what the teacher was talking about. hehe. i'm such a bad student.

there might be some gals out there who can cum just by thinking about sex and nothing else, however i'm not one of them. sorry!


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footnote: How to Come on a Bus is a real short story that was used in one of our language classes when i was in university

AmorMiHombre

I'm almost positive i cannot orgasm simply by thinking about sex...then again i've never tried.

I'm almost positive i cannot orgasm by crossing my legs or any such thing and/or while thinking of sex.

However, i have had 'wet dreams' and actually orgasmed while sleeping...it's wonderful!

i have squeezed my kegel muscles and gotten really aroused, but never did it to orgasm.

Alone, i can cum anywhere from under a minute to hours later if i'm alone and masturbating...depends on which i want.

With someone else it becomes trickier and i've only orgasmed with 2 people...i've never orgasmed from sex, although, it's been suggested, i just haven't met the right person yet. Hope this helps.

tkd_guy01

I'm at a loss for words.

Twilight

yeah, seems no matter how excited my gf gets and no matter how long i pleasure her, she just won't cum... and i know you're all like, she's faking it, but seriously, she's out of control in pleasure not remember stuff she says or does but never cums...any ideas...

kulotsalot

i wish more females would jump in and post on this thread so that the information you get is not totally skewed with just me and amor answering the question. a sample size of 2 females will not give you a very accurate response.

kyle20

it is defenitely different for every women. I know women that some how have never managed to get an orgasm, and I have given them like mad. there is a way that many men do not know, but any women regarless of how hard they are to get off, you can do it with out even gowing down south. For women, if you get them mentaly you can do anything for them. Just as one of the post says thier girl could get off by thinking ( ? ). This is very true. Women have a mental and emotional connection to thier orgasm. Use this. You can make any women get off when ever you want. You have to know what you are doing, how she move, move with her, know what is the most sensative parts of her, and work magic.

kyle20

it is defenitely different for every women. I know women that some how have never managed to get an orgasm, and I have given them like mad. there is a way that many men do not know, but any women regarless of how hard they are to get off, you can do it with out even gowing down south. For women, if you get them mentaly you can do anything for them. Just as one of the post says thier girl could get off by thinking ( ? ). This is very true. Women have a mental and emotional connection to thier orgasm. Use this. You can make any women get off when ever you want. You have to know what you are doing, how she move, move with her, know what is the most sensative parts of her, and work magic.

Darkling

via playing with my gf I've only been able to get her off in a minimum of like 10min. but she's never been comfortable with it until recently. I dunno how fast she can get herself off tho :P

I gave her her first orgasm! GO ME!

OrdinaryGirl

I cum within a couple minutes every time. It doesn't matter what the position is. I've had an orgasm from having my nipples sucked. At a very young age, I also mastered the trick that Kulots speaks of, and have brought myself to orgasm in school, church, and other public places. That requires being into it mentally as well as physically, though.

I really think that it's primarily a physical thing and that the women who have trouble orgasming really need more mental stimulation and foreplay, more time to get aroused. I do feel sorry for them, though, and realize how lucky I am.

And yes, a couple times I've cum without being touched.

clamsrus

Ah OG.....that makes me feel so redundant
Can you make someone else cum without touching them....
..your prose excluded..
..ie make them soooo turned on they lose it before you get to them.....grin

Darkling

This is one of those times that I wish I was a girl LOL

OrdinaryGirl

Well now, Clams, I guess I'll just have to try that sometime. And my words don't count? Damn, guess I'll have to toss those phone sex successes out the window.....