spydur86

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So, I'm interested in trying some new positions with my girl, but she's not really up for it. I wanna try doggy but she says she would "feel dumb." I don't want to beg her to do it or anything, I just wanna know what I should tell her so that she'll at least give it a try. I don't know how to describe it to her as I've never done it myself so I can't tell her how great it is or anything. I just wanna know if there's anything I can tell her that might make her more interested.

koЯnut

This sucks man. I don't know how long you two love birds have been together but without experimentation your sex life might get a bit drag. Only thing I can say is just be patient. With time maybe she will come around.

Good luck holmes!

HIJACKER

a few more beers is all she needs.. after that.. have your way.

I'm not being a dick either.. I'm being serious.

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AmorMiHombre

Yea alcohol always helps...

but tell her coming from a chick she shouldn't feel stupid in doggy, but it's actually to her advantage cause it feels really good for the girl....plus guys dig it a lot too and guys usually finish faster in that position (another plus for her if she isn't into sex that much or it lasting long)...

P.S hope that helps...

Chameleon Grrl

You sound like you're looking for a magic pill, but it doesn't exist. You need to realize how complicated sex can be especially for women. But in case you're sincere here's my answer, take it for what it's worth.
I think the best way is to: 1. not pester her about it, and 2. make her feel safe. The more you go to her about it even if you have added information, the more she probably will resist and then she'll just not want to on principle. Also, try seeing it from her perspective. Why is she so resistant? I think the most likely situation is that she's self-conscious about the way she'd look to you in different positions. If that's the case or even if it's not, she needs to know that no matter what happens when she's trying something new with you, she has nothing to fear. If the issue is how she looks, she needs to know you think she's the sexiest thing in the world in any position and from any angle. Assure her that you just want to try some new things, if they don't work then that's fine and you won't make her do them again. The most important thing is that she feels safe.
Then add alcohol to take the edge off.

crazybob_79

one was you might try is get her in the mood for just the normal thing but then do some special that will get her wanting you bad when she gets to the point were she cant stand it she might say ok that may sound bad and it is tricking her in a way but all i got was thankyou over and over agian when i did it and that also opened new doors once she was okay with trying that she edged closer and closer to trying other new things Good Luck

OrdinaryGirl

Hmmm. It is really important not to make too big of a deal about it or she'll feel like you're harrassing her about it and will refuse just on principle.

I think you'll have the best success if you broach the subject at a time when you are not in the middle of anything sexual and just tell her that you are really happy to have someone you care about to be experiencing these things with for the first time and how much satisfaction your sex life together has already brought you. Flatter her a bit and let her know how glad you are that the two of you are exploring these things together, and that there is no one else you'd rather be having these "firsts" with. Being someone's "first" holds a lot of appeal for girls. Use that to your advantage.

Being tipsy really does help for trying new things, especially if she is selfconscious or nervous. Lights out should reduce some of the worry about "looking dumb".

Good luck. From us girls to her, doggy style is a fav.

Vektor

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mm this is what you do... get her to ride you (facing away from you). Half-way through... sit up and BAM u're in doggy :-)

spydur86

Firstly, she doesn't drink so alcohol's outta the question. No big loss. I'll just do what you guys said and just talk to her about it. She already knows that she's the most important thing in the world to me, so I'll just wait and see how it develops. We've only had sex a couple of times, maybe she just needs to be more comfortable with the whole concept. Thanks though.

koЯnut

Well if you've only had sex acouple of times then I can see why she's waiting. Don't worry man she will come around.

OrdinaryGirl

Agreed. That totally makes a difference.

IceShire

Give the whole idea some time to grow on her. When my boyfriend and I first started the whole sex thing we were both pretty new and inexperienced, but with time and practice (lots of practice *wink wink*) I’m sure she’ll some around, I know I did. It’s different for everyone but in the end it’s all the same … the lust always wins out over the brain.