dyingtoolive01

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Me and this chick have been on and off without actually being on and off for the past 3 years, theres been times where all we think about is eachother, but these times dont match up...

I wanna know what i should do when i get her, all i have ever done is kiss her because thats all we wanted at the time (About 2 years ago)... But i know for a fact that in the last 3 months, shes liked me on and off...

But my main question is, what would make her feel real special, and what should i do... can you put it in a step by step form?

Thuis sounds really corny, but i dont wanna fuck it up with her, i really like her, more than just some random screw...

Thanks in advance

Realtalguy

I got nothing on the first pass, read it again. What I think i happening here is, you and a girl have been friends, but a relationship has always been right under the surface. Now you want to make your move and want it to be special.

Since you have known each other for 2 years+ you will have to be real straight forward, like when you ask her out make sure she knows its an honest to goodness date. Then just be a good date, My formula for a good date is this. Nice dinner, go somewhere nice but not ultra fancy. Then somewhere fun, avoid movies at all cost, first dates are like interviews, lots of talking needs to take place, hard to do in a movie theater. And end the night by going some place quiet for some good conversation that could lead to some light to heavy petting :jill: . DON'T and I repeat DON'T push things if you are havin a good make out session leave it at that some nice kissing and touching. "blue balls" after a first date are not a bad thing cause it leaves the mystery of whats to come. Sex on the first date with a girl you want a real relationship with will usually lead to problems (least in my experience) have something to look forward to on the second, third, and many dates to come.

Good luck, and remember (i'm sure this goes without saying) open doors, hold out chairs, and keep the conversation light and BE FUNNY. If you can make her laugh that goes a long way.

Also, I always say stay away from flowers and gifts on first dates, they can make some girls feel like there are "expectations" from you, no matter how innocent the gifts are.

Realtalguy

Would also like to see one of our awesome girls weigh in on this question. I'm lookin at you SillyR, OG, AM, Juana, or sonarisa! Lets help out the new guy!

koЯnut

No RTG.....they are NEVER a great thing!

Realtalguy

Yea, great wasn't the best choice of words there, don't you girls be gettin any ideas lol....

Realtalguy

when is this date gonna happen I am gonna need details lol

HIJACKER

I agree with Realtalguy 100%. Don't do the gift or flower thing.. to standard. WHatever you do.. be yourself, and unique.

Also..

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dyingtoolive01

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Yeah its depends on when im gonna ask to go out to wherever... As i said, weve known eachother for quite some time so nothings really new to us, and we really dont need to interrogate eachother... Im 17.

What i meant with the 1st bit was that, when she like(s)d me, i didnt really notice it, and when i liked (Like) her, she doesnt really notice it, as i said, our times dont match up all that well...

So yeah, what would make her feel special? I actually want this one to be more than just some random...

Realtalguy

now i'm lost.

CD

admitting that you are 17 on these boards is not the smartest thing you could have done... bye bye

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Realtalguy

I didn't quite catch that lol... Nice knowin ya see ya soon...

sensuii

i dunno but i dont think this kind of thing can be taught.. each person is a person so most likely the best advice is be yourself and follow your heart, also dont forget this: sometimes lying may sound good, but it is not.. dont do it.

siopawman

try to tell her what you feel, maybe she's also wondering of what to do with your kind of relationship.

but i think if you're both happy with what you have, then there's no need to move it to the next level.