xaizen

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Hello everyone, 1st time poster here, long time reader as a guest. Id hate for it to seem like i just come here when i need help and never give anything back, but i guess i sort of have to now that ive introduced myself :happycow:

To understand my problem, you must first understand the girl i am with. She is a very nice girl who is devoted to keeping her promise to not have sex until she is married, and i happily respect that, but over the past few months our relationship has grown, and we have both agreed we want to do more, were just unsure, so what im looking for is some ideas. She is a virgin at all things (cant believe it myself, shes such a tease) and i, most, so we're a little wary on doing things we have no clue how to do.

She has already told me that 'for some reason' she thinks fellatios are disgusting and she thinks guys shouldnt have to do oral either, because its 'equally as disgusting'. She's open to the whole idea just not the come (sp?). She is open to fingering and handjobs, and we're eventually working up to that, but besides these few things, im all out of ideas? What else could we do that doesnt make her feel guilty about breaking her promise (no sex til marriage) or isnt 'disgusting' for her? Im open to almost all ideas, we do not share the same ideas towards sex and sexual acts, but ive told her that i will respect her wishes and will do what she is ready for.

Thank you in advance, Xai.

buckswin

I was watching Jerry Springer once where moms were letting their daughters (and encouraging them to) have anal sex so that they were still vaginal virgins when they got married...

You never know unless you ask!

michaeljohn

ok, try this. have her think about what she wants you to do to her. then have her try it on you. then return the same favors.

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csxrrmast

I say it is either all or nothing!!!

Either wait - or just go fucking all the way.

And since you two are both new at it, if and when you guys get married and she (and you) are "open for buisness", you will have years and years to experiment in your sexual practice. Sometimes afterwards, YOU will be disatisfied, other times she may be completely disatisfied. But then there will be times when it will be crazy hot!!! who knows, but do not do any of this partial crap. And let me tell you this, if she is a virgin, then she has know idea how she gets off (what makes her orgasm)...unless of course she masterbates...so she may reconsider you going down on her in the future - TRUST me with this one my friend.
you want help - don't do anything!!! Wait to go all the way.

rmora96

"I say it is either all or nothing!!!"

Genius

ITGuyfromHeLL

Okay, Fin has good advice, UNLESS, you decide to try anal...

Sorry, but I doubt you want her trying it on you first, last, or whenever...

~ITGuyfromHELL~

delynnfox

omg that cracked me up so much

ITGuyfromHeLL

Thanks, it is not often Finley leaves one wide open like that. You have to take advantage when you can.

~ITGuyfromHELL~