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10-28-2004, 10:43 PM
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Fantasies...being with the same sex
i personally have fantasized about being with other women and ive read that its quite common....confirmed more often than not, by close friends that they have too
the question is, whether youre male or female, have you ever fantasized about being with a member of the same sex?....feel free to share any details :happycow: ...i know its more common for females, but im curious if many males do it too
edited...because i was dumb and used the word "opposite" instead of "same"...sorry lorill and mfinley
Last edited by sillyrabbit : 10-28-2004 at 11:13 PM.
Reason: wow im feelin dumb...that wasnt what i meant at all
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10-28-2004, 10:55 PM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the opposite sex
I probably fantasize about being with the opposite sex ever 15 seconds and I am a guy. Sillyrabbit, I think you may be on to something here!!! Do any of you other guys ever fantasize about girls???
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10-28-2004, 11:09 PM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the opposite sex
If we aren't with the opposite sex, it is on our minds constantly! Moved to vaginarium forum.
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10-29-2004, 12:08 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
Say, if I were a woman, I'd probably fantasise about being with other women. But then again, I'm thinking this from a guy's frame of mind so maybe if I really were a woman that wouldn't be the case.
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10-29-2004, 12:34 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
As Roach has pointed out, i'm not the best person to answer...
And i highly doubt any guy would come forth and say they had thought of another guy in a sexual manner (even if for a nanosecond).
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10-29-2004, 12:41 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
Ha. Sorry for being a smartass, Silly. I knew what you meant.
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10-29-2004, 02:08 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
Well, like most guys, I can honestly say that I don't AT ALL. Few things are more disgusting to me than another man's naked body, and let's not EVEN get started on the idea of giant rockhard organs being stuffed up my ASS....
I think lesbian sex is more common because it's both more socially accepted and natural (a guy can do all of that stuff too, no asspain lol).
-Insaniteus-
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10-29-2004, 04:03 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
First off, I'm male, and while I don't fantasize specifically about being with guys, I'd like to do a menage a troi (spelling) with 2 guys and a girl. And not porn style either, where the guys don't touch. I've actually done it to a certain extent (there was no actual fucking involved, for any party) ... though I think, if there's ever a next time, not really knowing the person might be a good idea.
Then again, I'm the kind of guy who wants to try everything once ... twice if you're lucky.
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10-29-2004, 04:36 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the opposite sex
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I probably fantasize about being with the opposite sex ever 15 seconds and I am a guy. Sillyrabbit, I think you may be on to something here!!! Do any of you other guys ever fantasize about girls???
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10-29-2004, 08:02 AM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
This might sound like a strange position, but believe me I've come to it through education. I think the most healthy sexual orientation is bisexual. I'm not saying that everyone should go around sleeping with everyone all the time but it seems weird and unhealthy to me that someone would outrightly refuse to acknowledge beauty in one or another gender. It's cool if you're what my gay psych professor called "monosexual" (meaning strictly hetero or homo) but at least be able to say "that's a beautiful person" about someone you wouldn't normally sleep with. To almost violently reject the beauty of your own gender like Insaniteous did makes me wonder what you must think of yourself (not necessarily you specifically insaniteous). Think about it - if you're a guy and you think guys are just revolting to think of sexually, what must you think of yourself sexually? This is a horrible tragedy that's been done to men in our society. Luckily women have been able to accept these ideas more readily since we're conditioned to embrace a much wider variety of emotions especially for others of our sex than men have been allowed to experience.
So to answer the question - yes I fantasize about the same sex and I think it just makes me a healthier human being.
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10-29-2004, 10:24 AM
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Canadian Sex Kitten
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
I have never fantasized about a woman I actually know. On the odd occasion that I do indulge in those fantasies, it is more a nameless, faceless female, in the context of a threesome or being watched by a guy.
I can't say I've ever been sexually attracted in real life to any woman I've met or seen. I have seen women that I can appreciate for being beautiful or having a hot body, but I haven't ever looked at one and thought, "Mmmm...I'd like to be in HER bed."
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10-29-2004, 01:20 PM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
I have never thought about another man sexually. I am secure with myself though and can admit that a guy is handsome or what not. But I have to agree that women having same sex relationships is more socially aceeptable which makes it a little easier. Not to mention at no point in time during heterosexual sex does a man have a large object stuck in his body. At least never in my experiences. For a woman having sex with another woman doesn't really change from what it is with a man. except for the fact you have the same parts. sorry if all of this doesn't really make sense but wasn't sure how to word it
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10-29-2004, 03:12 PM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
No offense dscallaway69, but just because YOUR heterosexual sex doesn't involve large objects stuck in your body doesn't mean ALL heterosexual sex doesn't involve objects put in the man's body. A surprisingly high number of straight guys like things put inside them. Especially if those things are put there by their girlfriend or wife. So as far as what's similar and what's different between gay sex and straight sex I think it's all up to the individuals in question. The societal issue is that to be a man means to not be a woman and women "traditionally" desire men, so for a man to desire a man means he's "womanish" which is most insulting thing you can call him. These same ideas don't apply to women. It's more acceptable to be "manish" because men are in the power position, so "manish" women are just seeking to be like men which is understandable.
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10-29-2004, 03:28 PM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
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I know a good looking guy when I see one.
I've done the MMF 3 some.
I've showered with a bunch of guys.
Not in the least bit interested in butt sechts, pitcher or catcher with another dude, or making out, or stuff.
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10-29-2004, 04:04 PM
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Re: Fantasies...being with the same sex
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Originally Posted by dscallaway69
Not to mention at no point in time during heterosexual sex does a man have a large object stuck in his body. At least never in my experiences.
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Like I said not in my experiences which doesn't mean what other people do. Whom maybe if we read the whole post before rebutting we would know what we were talking about
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