WR - What If Your Child Was Gay?

10-26-2004, 12:44 PM

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Re: What If Your Child Was Gay?

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Originally Posted by BongRipper

hey man, appreciate your concern, but don't worry, I'm not endangering my kid & I'm usually a pretty competent dad - it's not like I was saying to the kid "hey little dude, you gotta check out this cooze...", truly, he just caught a glimpse of my monitor when I wasn't aware.

Besides, he's turning 12 in a week; as I recall, that was about the time in my life that I was sneaking into my dad's den & scoping out his Playboy collection... at least my boy isn't being a sneak.

I feel pretty good, actually, that at this age, my kid doesn't feel he needs to be embarrased or hide from me the fact that he has an interest in girls and has some developing feelings about his sexuality. I certainly couldn't address any sexual issues with my parents at that age, which I think is truly more bad than good, since that's the age when kids start to have confusion/concerns about their sexuality and need their parents' guidance the most.

I didn't say you were, my bong ripping bud. It's just that I see what my homey is going through with his "sexually charged environment" and having his kid around (the dude had a maxim and a playboy catalog in plain sight) and he is having a field day at court with it.

People now are just too damned touchy.

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10-26-2004, 09:44 PM	#32
sillyrabbit whore Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Indiana Posts: 647/0.42 Threads: 0 Friends Network	Re: What If Your Child Was Gay? is everyone forgetting the very scary but true reality that kids these days arent just lookin at their brothers or dads porn stash, but are experimenting with the other sex, and some even having sex themselves. in some schools there are kids that are pregnant in middle school.....you shouldnt feel bad about your kid lookin at porn, id be glad hes not lookin or doin more with the real thing .....the way things have become now, parents with kids at that age shouldnt be worried about soft core porn on the pay channels or a hidden stash of porn mags, they should be talkin to their kids about the dangers of unprotected sex, and also about the emotional commitment being sexually active involves. im sure some of you will disagree with that.....sayin that we shouldnt expose kids to somethin they may not be thinking about, but what if they are, and worse yet, what if theyre already doin it?.....we live in a very different society then the ones our parents(speaking as a 20 year-old) grew up in, and even my generation was laxed compared to what kids are doin now

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10-26-2004, 10:04 PM

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Re: What If Your Child Was Gay?

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Originally Posted by AmorMiHombre

I went to orientation for my job..Girl says she has a kid..i ask how old?...she says 5....and i say five (hopin months) years???...she said yea...and i asked her her age...she said 19 today....
Quick math would say 19-5=14 however she's been basically 18-5=13 and thats NOT counting the 9months she was pregnant...she coulda gotten knocked up at 12. SHUDDERS sweet jeez...poor kid

So yes, kids shoud have a feeling and sense of sex being ok, but that you need to have respect, trust, and condoms/safety involved. I dunno....In helping your kids there are certain boundaries that should not be passed.....If i have a kid and i love him....i'll be damned if finding out he's gay will take any of that love away. (just trying to bring back the homo theme after hijacking thread)

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